Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

i used to have a big crush on my neighbor. and i told him i had i dream about him once and i guess that freaked him out. and i know he doesnt like me like that. but i keep dreaming about him and i dont know why?

2006-10-02 18:38:29 · 7 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Friends

We have a 3 yr. old and a 1yr. old & we've been married 5 yrs.

2006-10-02 18:36:29 · 52 answers · asked by mmjuarez4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I noticed several coworkers must have picked up information here and there during daily conversations with me over the past 6 months--piecing together bits of personal information regarding my family history I was not trying to hide but did not particularly want shared with anyone at work for professional reasons. Oops! Now it seems clear to some people I am not sharing a juicy part of my past and they are curious and asking questions. Should I feel complimeted they want to know more about me? or are they just being nosey and possibly eager to gossip? The two of the coworkers asking questions I talk to daily I considered "work friends" but their friendship would not extend outside of work.

2006-10-02 18:35:55 · 8 answers · asked by RacW 1 in Friends

2006-10-02 18:35:52 · 13 answers · asked by CuteButPsycho 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 18:35:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont understand why I cant just have regular guy friends, every guy I want to get to know, I end up messing around with. I feel like there is something wrong with me, my friends tell me I have a problem with flirting with guys, but I dont see it and I dont know what it is i'm doing wrong, I want to just have close guy friends like my other friends do, but it never works. I dont want to be known as a whore,but I know alot of guys already think I am, even though I dont have sex with them. This is something that hurts me deep inside. I have heard of girls that have had problems like this that may have something to do with having sex at a youg age or being molested, which happened to me, but I dont know much about it. I dont really know where to go or who to ask about a problem like this but I would really like help or advice on having normal relationships or some tips on how to be friends with a guy without flirting or something cause I really dont know what to do.

2006-10-02 18:33:20 · 10 answers · asked by Paris 1 in Singles & Dating

The girl meaning me. Honestly, I don't want a relationship either. I'm just wondering why the guy I'm fooling around with asks me questions that seem like he wants a relationship when he doesn't want one either.

it's not about who's into who. I dislike how girls try to categorize all guys as just users, although many are. I'm not giving this guy any sexual satisfaction and I am dating other guys as well.

All I can say is, the girl is not always the victim. We are smart people too, and we aren't all easily emotionally attached. Just because a girl and a guy fool around yet both do not want committed relationships does not mean that one person is merely using the other (meaning guy using girl). It's mutual.

About that book "he's just not that into you..." it's garbage. Girls should not try to fit every guy into that book. Get over the garbage.

2006-10-02 18:33:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why are you going to answer with ...God?

2006-10-02 18:32:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

you wont look at an overweight girl, but the moment she looses weight and gets a tiny waist your all over it?

i mean she didnt change, shes the same person, same bubbley personality, same smile, just shes tan and thin now..

how come?

2006-10-02 18:31:59 · 31 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been breaking up and getting back together for months. I know it's unhealthy, but if we didn't love each other, we wouldn't get back together each time. It's gotta go either one way or the other though. I can't keep doing this.

2006-10-02 18:31:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 18:31:51 · 3 answers · asked by trainingday5351 2 in Friends

been in a relationship for about a year now... she's 6 yrs. younger than i am... everythings ok, except for some petty fights.but sometimes i feel i'm better without her, is it because im tired already or im not that inlove anymore?

2006-10-02 18:30:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am wondering what a prenup is?

2006-10-02 18:29:34 · 9 answers · asked by yukmouth 6 in Singles & Dating

shes a year older, really nice and sweet. very atractive

2006-10-02 18:29:11 · 5 answers · asked by Michael H 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 18:28:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been hanging out off-and-on with a guy I care very much about for a year and a half now. But, I've heard rumors that he's hooked up with guys in the past. No one had actually seen him, but heard it from a person who claimed they saw him at a gay bar. I decided to dismiss the rumors because they seemed baseless. As for this guy, he knows how I feel about him. He said liked me but did not want a relationship right now because he was not ready for one (his last gf cheated on him). This by itself would not arouse my suspicions, but I still began to suspect that he is closeted. In the time we have been sort-of dating, he has not made any moves towards me and seems nervous whenever his dating history comes up. He is not a player, and did not date before me. Also, he doesn't really like pr0n or strip clubs. He's a "regular" working-class guy, and def. not a metrosexual. I get nervous sometimes and have my doubts. Would it be insulting to ask if the rumors are true? Or is he just awkward?

2006-10-02 18:28:23 · 4 answers · asked by youthbeautybrigade 1 in Singles & Dating

If you read my previous questions, you will know that my husband cheated on me for over a year, has moved out and is still with his girlfriend.

We had a heart to heart talk tonight and this is what he told me. He said that he feels guilty for everything and wonders if he is doing the right thing. He says that he still loves me and misses me sometimes.

His girlfriend is supposed to be moving in with him, and he's not sure how he feels about her now. I even asked him and he couldn't answer. He says that he feels responsible for her and the choices she has made, so he may let her move in still because she has no place to go. He said that he told the girlfriend part of this, but she still wants to be with him. He called her tonight but just couldn't end it with her because of the guilt and he does care.

He also said that a part of him feels like we will get back together, but if she moves up, we won't. So, why can't he just end it? Why be so torn?

2006-10-02 18:28:00 · 20 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a married woman and in love with someone else. I would never tell this person. I don't think this person would ever date me anyway. How do I make the feeling go away? My marriage not good. Help.

2006-10-02 18:25:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 18:24:47 · 14 answers · asked by atom 1 in Family

My husband said he is going to take me to the beach this weekend but that I have to breastfeed the baby on the way down there in the passengers seat. I told him that would be unsafe for the baby because if we got in an accident the baby could get hurt not being in a child seat. He told me it wasn't up for discussion and that I had to do it. I've been crying some tonight because of this. My husband is impatient and doesn't like to stop on trips so he makes me pack a lunch and some snacks for the road and makes me wear a diaper in case I have to go to the bathroom. I respect my husband's authority but I feel I need to protect my baby. Should I talk to my dad and ask him to talk with my husband? I think he might listen to a man but then again he might get mad if I talk to daddy about this. I don't know what to do.

2006-10-02 18:24:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am willing to do anything

2006-10-02 18:22:56 · 6 answers · asked by Happy Angel 2 in Family

2006-10-02 18:22:16 · 10 answers · asked by plum 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The more I start to experience new things in my life like going to different clubs places to shop and hanging out with people who actully have goals in life ect. the more distance I feel from my friends. I live In brooklyn and every thing my friends like to do is within brooklyn and its always the same thing. Walk around the same mall on the weekdays or go to the same club every friday it gets boring. I love the city meaning Manhattan and its just a different vibe any body from brooklyn knows what i mean. My friends however are not in to trying new things their to set in their ways so I feel like were growing apart but I look at it as if Im maturing and becoming my own women. I think my friends look at it as if Im acting to good for them what do you think?

2006-10-02 18:22:13 · 3 answers · asked by Nelly 1 in Friends

this guy is my best friend. would it be a social no-no if i asked his younger sister to the formal?
is this ok, or should i stay away?


thanks.

2006-10-02 18:20:08 · 8 answers · asked by Boba Fett 3 in Friends

is it the same with unconditional love?

2006-10-02 18:19:57 · 17 answers · asked by baby kulit 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do some people have p.o. boxes. My husband has a p.o. boxes for certain mail I asked him why he said because I have certain creditors. i don't believe him. what do you think.

2006-10-02 18:19:08 · 7 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friends birthday coming up, and since we don't really normally buy each other gifts, we usually just doing something nice for each other. I really do like this friend alot...and since my major is computer programming, and I know flash really well...that I would do something for her in flash and upload it to my server so she can see it. My question is what exactly should this flash be about? I'm going to put some music on it, and since this is MY own web server file size ISNT (much) of an issue. I know many of her favorite bands so I was planning on putting some music on it...but I can't really draw well (or AT ALL for that matter).

What do you think that I should make this flash about, I want to make something so I would see her smile =).

2006-10-02 18:17:28 · 8 answers · asked by D 4 in Friends

for the weekend..what should i do?

2006-10-02 18:16:34 · 14 answers · asked by babysoftskin 2 in Singles & Dating

i askd asimple question where this married woman pays for sex ,she is my husbands mother in law that,s right his dad is a good man and she has .4. kids. his son is mad as at get out and i wanted advis from you all on how he needs to tell his dad is that to bad a thing to ask whatever, if he finds out the truth all hell gonna break lose so dont his own son have this right to tell his dad ,whatever,terri

2006-10-02 18:15:26 · 9 answers · asked by whitmangal_2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think u can fall in love over the phone talking to some one long distance. but have not yet met them.could that happen. what do you think i heard of love at first sight but never at first hear tell me what u think about that

2006-10-02 18:15:24 · 18 answers · asked by gottobetheone2003 2 in Singles & Dating