Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

I have a guy that i had a one nite stand with. i knew it was nothing, i had no feelings for him at all, but lately ive been around him and i feel something, and i act like a total dork, how can i get him as a man rather than just a one nite stand

2006-10-02 19:29:48 · 14 answers · asked by Carrie T 1 in Singles & Dating

How many people out there would put their mates name on their bodies!? My husband proudly let me sign his arm and tatooed TRINA.. with a heart dotting the I..! (and i say he dont love me)...answer honestly.!!

2006-10-02 19:29:47 · 14 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl who is 3 years older than me. all i did was tackle her during a football game between my friends and i. i had painted my nails blue on a dare and she seemed to like them. i think that and the tackle were the only reason she started to talk to me. well i'm a freshman and she is a senior and she is always picking on me in a playful way. she even got me to do her homework that one time ( i'm in advanced classes). well all of a sudden she started pinching my nipples. in fact she does this so often now that they are ery sensitive. once i threated to pinch hers and she just stood there and presented her boobs to me than slapped me for starring. she is always over me. she won't leave me alone ( not that i'm complaining since she is abot a 20) i wold ask her ot and find ot on my own bt these guys at school are interrearing and i can't do it right so how do i find out?

2006-10-02 19:28:01 · 9 answers · asked by angel of hell 2 in Singles & Dating

Say that they both don't want relationships and they agreed to it, as they both just got out of long-term ones, yet he calls her because he says he wants to be able to trust her? And then he says that next time they hang out maybe they shouldn't fool around because she might have an STD even though she doesn't!? But then he is always the one to touch her....she doesn't touch him first, ever. Why does he call her just to ask about trust and her past boyfriends?

2006-10-02 19:28:01 · 9 answers · asked by noworthlessgarbageplz 1 in Singles & Dating

I finally left the man I was married to for 18yrs. He was a prescription drug addict that I should have left a long time ago. Anyway, I got back in contact with my first love form highschool. We were each others first everything. He moved away. We met for lunch and WOW the feelings were still alive. We started a relationship. Problem-he is still married. I moved 100 miles to be close to him, at his suggestion. His wife found out, he left, we moved in together. He went back, mostly for his young son. We continued seeing each other. I moved back to where I came from for the sake of my kids. We still love each other. He and his wife are trying counselling but he still tells me he loves me. We haven't seen each other but we talk and email regularly. I still love him deeply. is there anything I can do to make him see how much he is missing or do I just move on? If I move on, how do I forget him? We are very compatible. Sexually we are amazing. His words are the best ever

2006-10-02 19:26:38 · 13 answers · asked by Stephani 2 in Singles & Dating

we have both went on with our lives and its been 5 months now, why hasnt he sent me divorce papers yet? i cant bring myself to divorce him but if he divorces me i am all for it. what should i do?

2006-10-02 19:25:41 · 19 answers · asked by grniz07 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 19:25:27 · 25 answers · asked by MIra 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 19:24:13 · 8 answers · asked by chicagogirl 1 in Singles & Dating

This was me chatting to a girl that on an online chat site called person.com, I’m not sure what to make of this, I am not sure if she wants me to make the first move or not, I am sanza and she is abby, read it and tell me what you think.

Oct 02, 12:34 abby: tell me something why are you so nice i mean you are so sweet.... you are not all about sex and stuff like most guys.... you actually with a brain

Oct 02, 13:19 sanza: thanks for that, well to be honest, i'm human as well n i think about sex all the time, everyone does, but i would rather be in a relationship were me and my partner are emotionally competible, were the relationship is based on the emotional and other things, not how me or my partner perform in bed, the relationships that i've had were all shallow, i just wanna see how it would be like if i become very emotionally involved with someone, u know, i know it sounds weird and it sounds like i'm weak but that's what i wanna experience, i want to jump into the abyss, i want to think about my partner all the time, i want to have sleepless nights b/c of her, i want a person who i can share everything with, the good & the bad, without being afraid that she'll tell everyone about my secrets when we break up, that's what happens these days.

Oct 02, 13:30 sanza: i want to be sandile and not sandile-usher, i don't wanna pretend to be someone i'm not anymore, i want someone who'll accept me 4 me, i'll definetely accept that person, well that's what i've been doing. Yep, that's me abbygal, a hopeless romantic, lol, talking about me, u r a nice person too, i actually like u, u r not the condoscending type, i like that, ur cousin is lucky and ur boyfriend-exboyfriend is loosing out.

07:57 abby: one thing i must let you know is that i dnt think you are weak i just think you are a great guy who cares about peoples feeling and you are a guy who does not jump into a relationship you first learn how the person is like bcoz honetly your sex life will never be great if you dnt connect emotionaly... i know we are all human but it takes a great man to stop himself from having sex or from wanting to talk about sex all the time... i really feel it takes a lot of guts for a guy to open up to a gal... thats why i love chatting to you. and when you answer me you dnt make it short and sweet you put your whole heart into it i really love that about you.. wich ever gal that gets you better treat you right bcoz its very hard to meet guys like you these days everyone just wants to have sex and get babies

08:01 abby: me i dnt really open up bcoz i dnt wana get hurt... you see me im a very analitical person doesn't metter hw small something is i always make sure i know what made you do it... i know when im wrong so i do apologise but some peolpe tend to take me for granted that is when i bcome a very selfish person when people play with my emotions.... other wise i would say im a very nice person who is looking for someone with enough patience to connect with me emotionally b4 we connect physicaly

2006-10-02 19:24:09 · 6 answers · asked by lacoste 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend named Corey but i like this girl named Hollynd alot and we've been talkin alot and she likesme to were both bi am i cheatin on Corey or what?

2006-10-02 19:23:02 · 10 answers · asked by *t. 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I get married in Disney Land or Under the sea ?

2006-10-02 19:22:35 · 8 answers · asked by Balaclava Man 2 in Weddings

I have a 7 year old son. His mother and I have been apart for 2 years. We were never married. When we seperated we agreed without going to court on visitation and child support which I have paid during this time faithfully.

The mother has married and recently sold home and left the state with my child without informing me other than a 3 day notice.
I am furious and hurt!

What can I do SPECIFICALLY at this point legally?

I have contacted a lawyer but but with retainer fee's exceeding my capabilities I feel helpless. There has got to be some info out there to help me with this situation.

I love my son a great deal and refuse to let him go. I have tried calling all week and mother is avoiding my phone calls. I have no idea where they are at!

2006-10-02 19:21:57 · 8 answers · asked by randall l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

http://tinyurl.com/jggdf

Here's the before and after...*sigh*

2006-10-02 19:21:24 · 18 answers · asked by stupidreplier1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 19:20:07 · 20 answers · asked by Kimberly 3 in Marriage & Divorce

c her on tv last night and she still looks good why do all these older women on tv look so much better than the young ones and who would u like to spend the night with

2006-10-02 19:19:51 · 7 answers · asked by stephen d 3 in Singles & Dating

My parents gave my sister-in-law one acre of land w/house on it and it is connected to my parents 2 acres w/house.My parents live on this property and have me down as surviovor of this property w/house, so when they pass away I will get their land w/house.My sister-in-law, after my brother passed away, told mom that the lawyer that done the paper work needed the all the papers again. She has yet to give the papers back to mom, that has been over a year ago. What I want to know is, is there anyway that she can have anything changed on the papers without mom and dads ok on it to where she can get the rest of the land w/house (that mom and dad lives in & on)once mom and dad are gone..take everything away from me so to speak that mom and dad wants me to have? You can read my profile for part of this story if you want.Not sure if this is the right category for this question, and also what all do my parents and I need to do to make sure is done before their death?I need to know every thing.

2006-10-02 19:18:42 · 2 answers · asked by SapphireB 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay there's this gurl in my class she a cutie.. and i dont have a problem going up and talking to gurls but she's a little diffferent only because i can't ever catch up with her... I cant seem to get the opportuinty to ask her 4 her number... she's late or arrives just on time... she sits way behind me in class... and as soon as class is over she jets out.. shes in some kind of hurry... okay again my problem is not going up and talking to her but i cant get the opportunty to talk to her... how would you reccamend tring to talk to her... if she's always on the move?? i will go out of my way cuz she semms like she's worth it.. to me... i seen her walking to the parking lot... should i run after her wouldn't that look wierd?? shes too hot to pass up... btw in class is definetly a no no cuz this is college :) HELP

2006-10-02 19:18:33 · 3 answers · asked by Shaboobalaboopie 1 in Singles & Dating

Probably the most common question on here, I apologise, can't be bothered to read other responses....

Just wondering, I'm 25, been out of the dating game a while, long term relationship, but my girlfriend moved to New Zealand with work, and I didn't want to move with her, couldn't, my job is very London specific.

So I've got a date. Obviously I will be myself, but I'm a bit tamer now, nice guy, popular and funny, but is it a bad thing if I'm sensitive, and don't sleep around, or do women seriously like blokes who do that and treat them like sh1t. Let's assume, for the purpose of answers, that I'm a good looking guy

2006-10-02 19:18:16 · 11 answers · asked by Morph 2 in Singles & Dating

i am black and my man is black. I heard that a white girl(model) asked him out, but he said no to her and said that he's in a relationship. Even though he said no to her, i feel jealous.

what do you think?

ps: i'm not racist.

2006-10-02 19:16:57 · 10 answers · asked by sweety 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm facing this predicament now.
Both my girls aged 4 + 6 insist on having a baby boy for them to play with right now, after hearing us explain to them that they were made by us parents.
They kept pressuring us to make one out for them immediately, may someone help.

2006-10-02 19:16:01 · 12 answers · asked by davmanx 4 in Family

sometimes I feel guilty for being a virgin but sometimes I just don't care.

2006-10-02 19:15:56 · 39 answers · asked by www.mrcooldude.com 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently came to know someone in my office and we got togather as friends. She wanted to be friends but later we got attracted to each other. One day we had a fight and i think it was all my fault and i agreed to it ..later she just wanted to be friends and nothing more. Being friends with someone you have hanged around had become very difficult for me and i decided to quit friendship because it was more pain just being friends.

I work with her and i do like her a lot. and she avoids me so much. It has become so hard for me to get over her and is really painful to see her avoiding me. Please help me out.. i m loosing my concentration in work too..:(

2006-10-02 19:15:41 · 7 answers · asked by lostsomewhere2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 19:15:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So... there's this girl, my new crush. The other day we were doing homework and before I knew we were kissing. She seemed to enjoy it and I loved that. But there's a little problem... (if you answered or at least read my previous question you know what I'm talking about)... she is my ex's little sister (not so little, she's 19). We go to school together and have become really really good friends. Anyways, we talked about what happened because neither of us felt quite well about it. Not because we didn't like it, but because of the circumstances... I'm never getting back together with my ex because she doesn't want me back and I don't want her back either. But don't get me wrong, it's not that I'm trying to get revenge on her or anything. I'm not after the family genes, either. It's just that I like her a lot but I don't know if she likes me. So, I talked to her and she said that...

2006-10-02 19:15:05 · 3 answers · asked by Horumaket 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 19:14:38 · 11 answers · asked by sandi smith 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met my husband online almost 2 years ago. When he came to be with me I found out he was talking to girls still online. I constantly ask him about what his ex's look like and if I am better than them. I keep wanting LONG CURLY HAIR like the one's he favors. In bed I'm constantly, comparing myself to them sexually. I dont know if this problem is going to come between my marrage or not! I wonder often if he's sick of me asking him "am i better than them" but anyhow what should I do?

2006-10-02 19:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do???

2006-10-02 19:11:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 19:11:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 19:08:52 · 19 answers · asked by shlecksex 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I said I don't understand why when we start to get close she shies away. She says she has always been like that and has never gotten past it in any relationship. I asked if she had ever thought about counseling and she told me she had been before but never really stuck with it. Am I missing some innuendo here? All I hear is "Half of me loves you and half of me can't trust you, but it's not your fault". WTF?

2006-10-02 19:07:06 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating