So... there's this girl, my new crush. The other day we were doing homework and before I knew we were kissing. She seemed to enjoy it and I loved that. But there's a little problem... (if you answered or at least read my previous question you know what I'm talking about)... she is my ex's little sister (not so little, she's 19). We go to school together and have become really really good friends. Anyways, we talked about what happened because neither of us felt quite well about it. Not because we didn't like it, but because of the circumstances... I'm never getting back together with my ex because she doesn't want me back and I don't want her back either. But don't get me wrong, it's not that I'm trying to get revenge on her or anything. I'm not after the family genes, either. It's just that I like her a lot but I don't know if she likes me. So, I talked to her and she said that...
2006-10-02 19:15:05 · 3 answers · asked by Horumaket 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she felt something magic, and so did I. She said that it was something beautiful and if she had to stop it was because of her sister, because we both believed she wanted to be with me again. Now we know she doesn't. She said that in time, in a really really long time, something might happen between us. And that she would like that because of the great friendship that has grown between us. But at the same time, she is just not the same with me anymore. She won't talk to me sometimes, and she won't be with me at school all the time the way she used to... I'm really confused. Should I hold any hopes on us? Does she like me? Could/Will we ever be together? or Should I just forget about her? She's more than just a crush, if you know what I mean...
2006-10-02 19:21:05 · update #1
When we talked 4 days ago, I asked her if she liked me. She said "no". So I asked her why she had kissed me and she said "I dunno, i guess i just let myself go along with the moment". But she also said she had liked kissing me and that it had been beautiful and meaningful to her, as it was for me... I'm really confused...
2006-10-02 19:48:51 · update #2
I really need to know if I stand a chance.
2006-10-03 17:42:11 · update #3
I think she really likes you that she is willing to sacrifice her feelings for you because of your involvement with her sister. It's not cool. Talk to her. But the thing is, she will always have to see and talk to her sister about you. The good and the bad ones, who knows. But they are sisters. Blood is stickier than water as what they say. Maybe if her sister meet another boyfriend then time will tell. Talk to her seriously. You've been good friends. Stay friends for now. Time will heal all wounds.
2006-10-02 19:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-04 06:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u stupid?.....honestly no1 kisses the other person if they dont like them...she wasnt drunk right? if not then she does unless she's a bimbo.
2006-10-03 02:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋