Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

We're are coming from a conservative family and the girls at home are brought up religiously and they're not allowed to be with men unless it's something important so they're allowed to interact mostly with men at home.My sis who is gonna get married is very close to me and is only 19 and is curious about men's sexuality and asked me to explain it practically with her as she is so scared about the 1st night encounter.As a help and since she is very close to me i explained her about it from top to bottom and then practically i showed her the basic things....like hugging,kissing and stuff and finally she wanted to see the male organ desperately and i had to show it to her which she oberved for sometime and was really scared and asked me what's next..and i told her it's not good to have sex with a sibling and i just had a small session where i did not do the actual thing but just did it near her thighs.She is still scared about it but finally she was ok and thanked me a lot.Was that ok ?

2006-10-02 20:52:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I met this girl a two months ago. I thought I could show her that love is not all about sex: this is cause I feel she does not want to go in to that.
We have never done it not even when she spends a night at my place. I dont ask/ cajole her in to that.
Will I lose her if I continue?

2006-10-02 20:51:04 · 13 answers · asked by Elsalsis 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife leaves me then moves back in and says just friends, the whole time carousing around with men at bars (drunk), staying out late and somtimes not comming home but staying in motels with strange guys, saying that their just friends and never thinking about my feelings. She got sick and now is depressed and when her attempts to make me leave failed, she left, but couldn't make it on her own. Now we've even been with eachother which she says was more than sex, but she just keeps playin around with me. I'm about to give up and leave but if i do i'll always know she won, she got what she wanted which was to drive me away. I don't know what to do anymore, any ideas?

2006-10-02 20:50:35 · 7 answers · asked by vautiko 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i m a new girl in this school.. i started liking this boy d very first day and d same wid him... a month later i told him that i like him and he too told that he likes me.. after that we started behaving like girlfriend-boyfriend and 1 month later i asked him that u only like me or love me??.. he told that there's big difference in liking someone and loving someone.. we may fall in love after somedays when we know each other completely....but i feel his love for me in his eyes and his talks... how to carry on this relatioship??..is he right??

2006-10-02 20:49:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband said he does love me....but how come wen i said to him that we should pursue the divorce coz im so confused right now...
and i dont want that im gonna decide now and next time not...change my decision so i want to make sure everything gonna be ok...so,i told him that anyway the final hearing is next week and we just need to think after the divorce...just give as 6 months...so,anyway why he contact his ex gf and now they r back 2gether...y is that?
im so hurt?i still love him....

2006-10-02 20:47:09 · 4 answers · asked by capricorn girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I like a girl for more then 2 years. I Love her. I treated her very nice. I gave in everything. Then she started began to get closer to me. I drove her everytime.. Sch, Home, lunch, dinner, shopping, playing. We did kissed. She lets me hold her hands sometim. We hugged. We slept together on the same bed(just sleepin'). But she still considered us as 'Friend'. In sch, she wldn't let me hold her hands. When i tried asking her OUT as a B/G friend relationship. I got rejected. And even though i got a big NO from her, we still do the same thing. We looked like a couple to other people. After i had an car accident, she barely go out with me or even talk to me for a few months. I don't know I have no idea why. My friends said she's just using me. But if she's using me, she won't have to do so many things with me.(us doing things like a couple). I still WILL treat her very nice. I get this everytime;
Me:I Love U
Her: I hate U
Anyone have any idea?
She(korean)...Me(Chinese)

2006-10-02 20:46:37 · 7 answers · asked by Ching y 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 20:46:23 · 1 answers · asked by T-love 1 in Family

I have met this great guy so much more in common i know this could be lust and the saying the grass is always greener. I just wondering what would you do if you was in this situation.

(1) Work things out with the partner, learn new hobbies together spice up the current relationship and see what feelings if any come back.

(2) have a nice fling with the new guy seperate from your partner give into your desires. See what happens you never know could form a relationship (rebound) Anyway i am not asking for anyone to justify things for me just some advice would be great so i could see my options

2006-10-02 20:45:31 · 20 answers · asked by jules 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is an alcoholic - just wondered how other people coped. Sometimes nice to talk to other people in same situation. Been to groups but not my seen - to false.

2006-10-02 20:45:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what charactor of your hasband makes you decide to marry him?

2006-10-02 20:43:04 · 16 answers · asked by Tony 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it's a toss up between personality and intelligence for me....but i have to ultimately go with intelligence. i think it's incredibly sexy if a man can stimulate my mind with conversation. what do you guys think??

2006-10-02 20:42:43 · 21 answers · asked by verykari♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 20:41:57 · 6 answers · asked by jayant 1 in Friends

We are both secretaries (both of us are women) and mentioned that I like going to the theatre. She then said she'd like to go sometime and I said OK. I printed out from lastminute.com the kind of shows that are around now and said I usually pay over the internet for tickets. I said we'll go in a few weeks' time, as I'll be on holiday. I've now come back from holiday and there's no mention of a night out at the theatre. I really get sick of chasing after people (I've had this all my life - though of course she doesn't know this, as I've only known her a few months). Shall I let her mention about our night out or should I?

2006-10-02 20:41:39 · 16 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Friends

2006-10-02 20:40:39 · 17 answers · asked by fidxgonzo32 1 in Singles & Dating

what charactor of your hasband makes u decide to get married to him?

2006-10-02 20:39:46 · 6 answers · asked by Tony 1 in Singles & Dating

What if a guy and a girl meet and they are attracted. They are partially attracted to each other because each date other people and like to mess with people's minds.

Could this mutual commonground serve as a way to a relationship? Or would it be too complicated? What if both just like messing with people, yet they are definitely attracted to each other, partly because of this?

2006-10-02 20:38:18 · 10 answers · asked by moohaha 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 20:37:36 · 6 answers · asked by TheErrandBoy 2 in Family

last week i met one nice guy and left him my number...

but the whole week i had been breaking up with my ex-boyfriend and i didn't pick up my f***ing phone(this nice guy,i had met before, had been calling to me the whole week), cus i didn't wanna talk to no one...

i just sent one sms to him and told "sorry, i'm too busy now, see you later"...

now i already finished with my ex, and am going to call to this guy.

i know, he must be hates me, but am going to ask him give me one more chance.

could i tell the truth why i didn't pick up phone?

i don't want him to think, that i just want to raise my self-esteem with using him. how i can explain all this sh*t to him?
it is very important to me, cus i really like him and i really want to get one more chance to make him like me again.

help me, dear people, please! :)

2006-10-02 20:37:16 · 19 answers · asked by unreal_comet 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 20:35:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK THERE IS THIS GUY THAT I LOVE AND HE LOVES ME BUT HES GONNA BE GONE 4 A LONG TIME AND IM GOING 17 AND I HAVE A BABY SHOULD I WAIT FOR HIMJ OR SHOULD I JUST MOVE ON AND FIND NEW LOVE???? " OH HE'S GONNA BE GONE FOR LIKE 18 YEARS MAYBE LESS"!!!! WHAT DO I DO???

2006-10-02 20:34:50 · 12 answers · asked by Lil Juggalette 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What was (or will be) like?

2006-10-02 20:34:11 · 15 answers · asked by cucumis_sativus 5 in Weddings

I'VE got many beautiful experience in my life,but WHY I Always tend to remember the ugly side? PLS.give me some quotations about life THANKS!

2006-10-02 20:33:21 · 6 answers · asked by JOHANN L 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i think he likes me too...but m not sure!

2006-10-02 20:32:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the sake of the wedding programs I would like for her and her husband to have names that can stand in for mother and father.

2006-10-02 20:32:15 · 14 answers · asked by Papi's Mommie 1 in Weddings

Im very close to my sister than my other brother and he's kind of jealous with us coz of that but my closeness to her has become more open and funny from last week when i was wrestling with her on the couch while watching tv that suddenly i got hard but did not reveal it to her. The next day after i came back from my kickboxing classes she asked me about the game and congratulated me and as usual i massaged her feet but this time i got really hard again and i wanted to tell that to her after the massage and i openly told her in a joking way that i got a hard on and she laughed it off like hell that our younger bro curiously watched what was going on and we stopped our laugh immediately. Later she told me it's normal and just continue to massage and i did without any problem but still i get a hard on whenever im close to her. Anyways we both are siblings and we know it's wrong to have intimacy so we both are ignoring our feelings for our closeness, is this ok for us (im 22 , she is 19)

2006-10-02 20:30:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she got BF already. she know i like her. why don't she stop me?

2006-10-02 20:27:24 · 10 answers · asked by lawrence 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 20:27:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 20:26:11 · 5 answers · asked by billy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

some misunderstandings made us seperated. i feel shy to ask excuse, or to talk . how to solve this problem

2006-10-02 20:24:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So, there's this guy, let's call him Brad. I've always kind of had a thing for him and right now, i'm trying really hard to get him to go for me. I don't want to full out try, because he likes to play hard to get. Don't get me wrong, I don't want a relationship, to be completely honest with you. I'd really like to sleep with him. He's the perfect type and I really like him. I have problems with being vulgar. Are there any hints or something little that I can say that will make him chase me down? It's really difficult to just say it to him in person and I really wish it wasn't. Help.

2006-10-02 20:23:22 · 20 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating