I like a girl for more then 2 years. I Love her. I treated her very nice. I gave in everything. Then she started began to get closer to me. I drove her everytime.. Sch, Home, lunch, dinner, shopping, playing. We did kissed. She lets me hold her hands sometim. We hugged. We slept together on the same bed(just sleepin'). But she still considered us as 'Friend'. In sch, she wldn't let me hold her hands. When i tried asking her OUT as a B/G friend relationship. I got rejected. And even though i got a big NO from her, we still do the same thing. We looked like a couple to other people. After i had an car accident, she barely go out with me or even talk to me for a few months. I don't know I have no idea why. My friends said she's just using me. But if she's using me, she won't have to do so many things with me.(us doing things like a couple). I still WILL treat her very nice. I get this everytime;
Me:I Love U
Her: I hate U
Anyone have any idea?
She(korean)...Me(Chinese)
2006-10-02 20:46:37 · 7 answers · asked by Ching y 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh well, the whole thing is a PAST already. But the QUESTION MARK is still in my head. I still couldn't stop thinking of her.
2006-10-02 20:48:44 · update #1
Sorry to say I think she's using you until somebody better (in her mind) comes along. You sound like a very nice person. Move on, quit doing all those things for her and do them for someone who really loves you.
2006-10-02 20:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly the true meaning of relationship is can only see when two couples were apart. the distance between the two can test how much you weigh for each other, good if she feels like you feels bad if not. it is better to take an answer with an action rather than critize her silence.
2006-10-03 04:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by yummy_bratinella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trully considered you as her best friend. Maybe she found many things in common with hers in you. If she calls you bestfriend than don't call love here. Coz' it is weird to be in love with a bestfriend. Maybe that's all playing in her thoughts now..
2006-10-03 03:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by yanti b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has been using you. She needed a driver to drove her everywhere and it seems you fit it perfectly. Forget her and move on.
2006-10-03 03:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i think that this girl is using u to get what she wants
2006-10-03 03:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by blackrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he loves another guy and is using you as an instrument of jeolousy for the guy he loves
2006-10-03 03:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by cooltp_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude your complicated....... that korean chinese thingee can be a burden....... and just don't let yourself be used up......if someone doesn't like you the way you like them, look for someone else......or just wait for ms. right......
2006-10-03 03:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by <--tsk--> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋