some misunderstandings made us seperated. i feel shy to ask excuse, or to talk . how to solve this problem
2006-10-02 20:24:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go meet her in person , and ask her do u wish to continue our relationship, if the answer is yes or silence, then tell her sorry for all the situation that i made to happen.
just with a smile tell her about ur stupidity and praise her to little extend . invite her to go some were cafe , shopping etc..
2006-10-02 22:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for this friend and you are honest with yourself, do something crazy. You can pick up your friend at work in a limousine and take her/him out to dinner. You can also send flowers to her /his apartment or house with a letter of apology, trying to explain the misunderstandings etc....
Tell this friend that sometimes ( it also happens in any type of relationship) there are misunderstanding. Doesn't mean that you don't care for this person. We all have different personalities and we must understand each other. The important thing is to talk to each and not just send sms or emails etc..... Hope this helps!!!!! Good Luck!!! Don't let anymore time go by.
2006-10-02 20:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself do you wanna stay friends. if ansa yes then you need a plan.you need to talk to discuss issues. then you need to be heard and the other ppl need to be heard then no blaming but a cuming to an understanding of what happened then get on with your friendship if you think after that that its worth saving. if you cant be friends then try and leave on amicable turns.no blaming or pointing the finger at any one. its easier that way....
2006-10-02 20:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how comne they are not trying to talk to you either? if you feel that badly about not talking to them just walk up and say hi.You will feel very shy but it will all fizzle away especiaally if they were always your good friends before the misunderstanding.
2006-10-02 20:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by wale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and talk to her. Make her listen. Surely no problem is too big to break a wonderful friendship
2006-10-02 20:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its your fault, you need to do the move.. Apologize to her...there is nothing wrong with that..unless you are being childish and have some ego or pride..
If its her fault, thats another story..Let her realized whar she did...
The world will continue to move even without her.. And if shes really a friend to you..she will realized your worth..
2006-10-02 20:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the misunderstanding is created by you then you have to go forward talk to them i believe they will forgive you. all the best.
2006-10-02 20:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by Shams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem...and i talked to her and i resolve the roblem but she stell has a strange actitude 2 me....sorry for my bad english and answer pls 2 my questions pls ANSWER!!
2006-10-02 20:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by livi@ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go ahead and talk it out... that is if you all are to stay good friends.
2006-10-02 20:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by elihueagns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over your pride and just try to mend the friendship. if the person refuses to compromise then atleast you tried.
2006-10-02 20:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋