i m a new girl in this school.. i started liking this boy d very first day and d same wid him... a month later i told him that i like him and he too told that he likes me.. after that we started behaving like girlfriend-boyfriend and 1 month later i asked him that u only like me or love me??.. he told that there's big difference in liking someone and loving someone.. we may fall in love after somedays when we know each other completely....but i feel his love for me in his eyes and his talks... how to carry on this relatioship??..is he right??
2006-10-02 20:49:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he really loves you but i think he needs more time ... he is a great person and u will surely get him!! best wishes!!
2006-10-02 21:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by loved one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, little one, he's right. Love takes time to grow. If you push too fast, you get things out of order, then everything falls apart. Just enjoy his company. Do lots of fun stuff together. Get to know everything you can about him. After 29 years of marriage, I'm still finding out stuff about my husband. It's because people change, as does your love for one another. Love grows deeper, with time, and much more fulfilling. Right now, you feel the excitement and glow that goes with the beginnings of love. It's almost a breathless feeling, one that you can't seem to get enough of. Given the proper amount of time, it will grow into something much more stable and fulfilling, and you won't have to feel like you need to spend every minute with him in order to be secure in your love. Take your time. What's the hurry anyway? You're young, right? Don't be too much in a hurry, or you'll miss all the good stuff along the way. <*)))><
2006-10-02 20:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want that your future is spoiled & your parents feel ashamed of you,stop all this & first increase your educational Qualification.Your confidence will increase & you will be much happier in life. Stop it right now,friends won't let you,take the right step but you should.Even this boy,whenwill notice your disinterest,will try to make up but don't go on the wrong path.Choose a good career for yourself,make your dear ones proud of you.
You will never regret.
2006-10-02 21:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any way you look at it hon, love is an emotion that cannot be rushed. Listen to your beau. His explanation is wise and mature. More than likely its infatuation. It is easy for someone so young, who has never been in love, to become starry eyed.
Relax, enjoy what you have. Don't ruin it by trying to give it a label.
2006-10-02 20:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slowly. Love is a big thing and you're obviously very fond of him but I doubt if its love. I don't know how old you are but if you're still in school then its probably could grow into that at some stage but its not that yet !!!!
Good Luck !!!
2006-10-02 20:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by IloveMarmite 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly liking and loving is different.
he may be right as he must not yet had the love feel even though you must have.
let some more time go.
at the same time be strong coz your feeelings are much stronger and he does not have similarly.
if he did not develop love feel for u you cannot force him.
then you will be hurt and if you not strong, you will suffer.
so love him but be strong for any ans....
danieldamsel@yahoo.co.in
2006-10-03 00:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I loved many girls.I loved at once or never ı can feel it.I thınk he doesnt love you.He got no feeling yet and ın future for you.There were some gırls ı only made sex wıth them but not loved.Maybe he thınks for you the same.You dıdnt wrıte clear about thıs.Dıd he try ones to make sex wıth you ?Or are you continuously doıng sex wıth hım?
2006-10-02 21:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by nezih batgun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably likes you a lot but is not commited to these feelings yet. give it more time. you may love him but when he is ready, he will let you know when he feels the same. just don't rush him because it seems like you got a good thing going.
2006-10-02 20:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love/Like...... very confusing state of mind...... Wait for some time more & see if you look forward to meet him as well as speak to him. If the answer is yes.... you r in love. As far sa ur friend is concerned he will have o deicide himself..... Good luck
2006-10-02 20:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by Wren M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess u give more time to your relationship and start knowing each other more better before you jump into a naiive conclusion because love is not all about hearts but also meeting of minds sweetie!
2006-10-02 21:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You continue loving him. Since you are able to see his love for you in his eyes, you can wait till hes commits and admits. No harm in waiting for. He may be right.
2006-10-02 20:58:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋