Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

My hubby is very close with this colleague who is 9 years older than him and is also married. I have seen mushy sms send by her to him & vice-versa. They are in very good talking terms and when he found out that i saw the sms, he got quite furious. Yesterday, i dreamt about him having an affair with her. In my dreams, he confess that he likes her, had sex with her etc. This may sound stupid to some, but i really hope someone could help me interpret my dreams vs the reality cause i think i am going crazy soon. It seems like the reality is what i have dreamt. How true is it?

2006-10-02 21:24:13 · 20 answers · asked by missy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but if u dont love the person who loves u ,its easy to leave and dont care what he/she feels...

2006-10-02 21:23:58 · 5 answers · asked by capricorn girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 21:23:32 · 31 answers · asked by model 1 in Singles & Dating

today i had my first sex experiece ever with the woman i love and we just waiting to get married soon and here is what happen its my first time ever having sex i was a littel tense in the begning so i couldn,t be hard easy even i care my love body gently and kiss every part of her then when i begain to relax i get hard and we start making love using every position that could exist in the book yes i felt so exciting during the intercourse but then i dont blow anything even i continue having the intercourse in every position and we stay like that making love for 5 strait hours only few moment rest between periods then we do intercourse again until my love told me that her virgaina hurts her very much from long time pumping and still i,m hard after all this time but i didn,t blow anything so we stop making love and i wonder now is there is something wrong with me even i mastarbate after she is gone and i blow easly so i can relax so what the hell wrong with me people am i ok or what

2006-10-02 21:22:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

our daughter is 16 next week she wants her boyfriend to start sleeping over .if we say no she feels that we dont trust her.yet we dont want to encourage to .any advise

2006-10-02 21:20:52 · 27 answers · asked by paul s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

boys following you around at school carrying your bag and books for you?

My girlfriend makes me carry her on all fours to her cheerleading practice so her shoes don't get dirty. Have you done this to a guy before?

See previous few questions on more things she makes me do.

2006-10-02 21:18:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We met at a party and we both stayed kinda sober so it wasn't a drunken meet. We got each others numbers blah blah blah... 3 days later we meet up. We watch movies.. blah blah.. 2 weeks into it..
We start moving pretty quick.. Seeing each other alot... Making out.. etc.. well i find out shes afraid of relationships and she wants us to just be friends...but we still hang out alot and the same signs are there that we like each other.. we flirt somewhat and bring up things that happened while we were messing around.. what is going on ? Should I just keep on and wish for the best or move on?
I really really do like this girl... We are both in college and both getting ready to graduate....shes a very very sweet girl.. but has been hurt in the past..Advice !!!!!! Please !!

2006-10-02 21:16:33 · 8 answers · asked by doc_otis_08 1 in Singles & Dating

We don't usually exchange presents, but wanting to get a token gift for about £30. She is quite straight-forward and don't want anything over "girly" - no manicures, jewellry, make-up or perfume!!

2006-10-02 21:14:00 · 10 answers · asked by Contrary Mary 2 in Friends

Its Helena-MCR for me...it isnt becoz of the lyircs....the song just reminds me of her............hoe i wish she was here....

2006-10-02 21:11:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 21:10:58 · 25 answers · asked by vicky 1 in Family

im 27, from chennai

2006-10-02 21:09:35 · 27 answers · asked by Vanilla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfrend doesnt likes my relation vth one of my frend coz he iz a boy .But i like him hez a nice frend of mine .Wt shuld i do ?????????????????

2006-10-02 21:05:40 · 21 answers · asked by saif 1 in Friends

both of us like each other. but we can never think bout a topic 2 talk on. so we hardly ever talk. plz suggest a topic 2 talk. hes really shy but the most handsome. but i cant talk 2 him like'" hi what r ur hobbies?" as we were frenz. but i want to get 2 know him. what do i do? plz tell fast

2006-10-02 21:05:16 · 11 answers · asked by cuteromeshelly 1 in Friends

2006-10-02 21:04:43 · 4 answers · asked by Darksword 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 21:03:36 · 18 answers · asked by space case 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 21:01:48 · 24 answers · asked by hugh_cheung 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend almost a year and so far he's only gone down on me about five times. Every time I ask him too he either says no or makes a face and usually he doesn't. Yet he expects me to do it all the time. I know the vagina isn't the best tasting thing on the planet but neither is the penis still I'm more than happy to do. Why can't he do it. I've already told him that there will be no more oral sex period if he doesn't start still he won't. I'm seriously thinking of just not having sex with him anymore. What should I do?

2006-10-02 21:00:52 · 21 answers · asked by julie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i always said i'll marry for love. So i try to have a balance between being completely in love and also be good friend and buisness partner. basically make it so that were happy with each other only. but for some reason i feel like i missed a step. sometimes i think that i like sex to much. is any thing wrong with enjoying sex all the time?i'm not saying it to be freaky, but i was justing thinking about how women say they stop having sex when their man does something they don't like. i don't stop until the relationship is completely ended. and the only reason for that is because i don't cheat. and i don't want my man to feel he needs to cheat. guys.... i don't know what to do. help me out with some logical advice. (and add your sign at the end of your message)

2006-10-02 21:00:51 · 18 answers · asked by free 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 21:00:27 · 7 answers · asked by Rollercoaster 4 in Singles & Dating

After 20 years (no kids) my now ex dumped me three years ago for a younger, prettier, more supportive etc woman. Now he wants to be friends. Should I return his calls?

2006-10-02 21:00:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

wel im 19 years old. still lives with my parents. me and him has been 2 gether for 4 years. when we started seeing eath other my parents told mr im not aloud seeing him, because he is to old. his 5 years older than i am. so we saw eath other without them knowing. they caught me a few times and stil i found ways to see him. i just had 2. he is the only person who truely makes me happy. so when my parents find out again they told mr that i should choose between them and him. they now started 2 aprove, but not realy. they react funny towards me. now i want to move out. i want to start my own live, but they say then im not allowd back and there wil be no family get to gethers where im welcome!

2006-10-02 20:59:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 20:58:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband walked away from 20 years has been gone more than a month and i need some finalization

2006-10-02 20:58:45 · 5 answers · asked by suzyqluv2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 20:58:33 · 15 answers · asked by Darksword 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think that parents have a resposibility to participate in nselecting their children's mate?

2006-10-02 20:58:04 · 9 answers · asked by lovely_kitty 1 in Weddings

Why is it that when you get into a relationship it's good 6mos- 1yr and then after that.. all the attention, love affection you got from that individual it all seems to seep away? How do you keep the flame going from start to end? What do do after you've told this person several times that you need more attention and they give it for a good 2 weeks and go back to not calling for like 3 days or more? Is that reason for ending a relationship?

2006-10-02 20:57:21 · 7 answers · asked by iwannano 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 20:56:09 · 10 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I finally did get her some new ones, but it seemed like an unnecessary expense. Also, why do women want to use a clothes drier when you can hang in basement or outside at much less expense.

2006-10-02 20:53:37 · 6 answers · asked by victorschool1 5 in Family

why do so many marriages in North America end in divorce ? and what would you do if you marriaged someone and then discovered that you were not happy with that person?

2006-10-02 20:53:21 · 12 answers · asked by lovely_kitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 20:53:18 · 7 answers · asked by lizziew602002 1 in Weddings