I've been with my boyfriend almost a year and so far he's only gone down on me about five times. Every time I ask him too he either says no or makes a face and usually he doesn't. Yet he expects me to do it all the time. I know the vagina isn't the best tasting thing on the planet but neither is the penis still I'm more than happy to do. Why can't he do it. I've already told him that there will be no more oral sex period if he doesn't start still he won't. I'm seriously thinking of just not having sex with him anymore. What should I do?
2006-10-02 21:00:52 · 21 answers · asked by julie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I do wash very well and shave too keep myself nie and clean for him still nothing
2006-10-02 21:04:53 · update #1
I've already done everything, tried everything I could think of. I really love him dont want to leave him. It just hurts that he expects me to do it and won't for me. I really don't care to have it done to me.
2006-10-02 21:11:16 · update #2
I can honestly say he is a wonderful man. good boyfriend the best one I've ever had. He's usually pretty fair in teh relationship. But when it comes to sex I'm starting to think he's just not a very sexual person. He hasn't touched me in a while. I mean he has but usually I'm the one who has to initiate sexual activity. He's says he prefers kisses and cuddles. The first time we had had I basically had to give him the "If you love me you will" line.
2006-10-02 21:47:54 · update #3
69 solves everything.
2006-10-02 21:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever been taught about personal hygiene?
It sounds like both you and your boyfriend need to take care of your personal hygiene a bit better, as there is no reason why the penis or vagina should taste bad if they are cleaned regularly and properly.
Use a bar of soap and warm water, don't use a liquid soap / hand cleaner. If your (and his) bits are washed properly and there is still a nasty taste, then there could be an infection.
2006-10-03 04:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by shoby_shoby2003 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
theres a couple things going on here,either your coochie smells and hes trying to not say so,or hes just a dick that doesnt like to go downtown (personally i think most vaginas are rather yummy) and if he doesnt like to eat it how good of a job is he really gonna do,yeah hold out on him,sure thatll work and he'll lick away at it like its a chore,sounds like fun.if its a coochie smell issue keep it clean,wax around there that really helps,use yummy foods like chocalate sauce,whip cream,bbq ribs..ok jking about the ribs,but you get the point,lol...i just read your update,the real issue here isnt the act but you feel as though hes not giving back to you,essentially that he doesnt love you the way you love him,i think you need to define your relationship to yourself not through sexual acts but as a whole,has this always been a one sided relationship are there other things that you do for him that arent reciprocated like the laundry or dishes,little gifts back massages stuff like that? i think for you there is a much bigger issue at hand then how to get him to give you a good tongue lashing.
2006-10-03 04:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by seth s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop saying that you will have no more sex with him, and start following through. You probably have used that threat so many times already that by now he is thinking "yeah, yeah, whatever, in the end she's going to give me some anyway".
2006-10-03 04:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is crazy. Are you aware that most guys would be willing to cut part of themselves off in order to get what you are giving? If I found a woman that would do that for me in exchange for me giving it back I would be a bigamist.
I am sure your vagina tastes fine. Maybe this guy is gay? Maybe he has another girlfriend and he is afraid she will smell you on him?
Maybe both?
2006-10-03 06:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jack P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't comfortable going down on you it would seem wrong to force him with sexual blackmail into doing it. Your obvious choice is to stay or leave him for someone else.
2006-10-05 16:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those sound like the words of a desperate woman. Give him some time and he would probably do it.
2006-10-03 04:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him and find a man that like pu55y. Lots of men do.
and maybe take a bath before you ask
2006-10-03 04:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is me. i definitely lick it like a lolipop. maybe ur mans a thinks its dirty to do so.
whats his fav fruit juice? orange? watermelon?
wash it clean. shave it totally. drip orange juice on it. and ask him to drink orange juice !!
if he still refuse, go get a really hardcore porno film, and watch it together, ask him to STRICTLY FOLLOW THE FILM !!
2006-10-03 04:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him yall arent going to have sex anymore until he finally relizez what you want then he'll give it you
2006-10-03 04:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by *t. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋