We met at a party and we both stayed kinda sober so it wasn't a drunken meet. We got each others numbers blah blah blah... 3 days later we meet up. We watch movies.. blah blah.. 2 weeks into it..
We start moving pretty quick.. Seeing each other alot... Making out.. etc.. well i find out shes afraid of relationships and she wants us to just be friends...but we still hang out alot and the same signs are there that we like each other.. we flirt somewhat and bring up things that happened while we were messing around.. what is going on ? Should I just keep on and wish for the best or move on?
I really really do like this girl... We are both in college and both getting ready to graduate....shes a very very sweet girl.. but has been hurt in the past..Advice !!!!!! Please !!
2006-10-02 21:16:33 · 8 answers · asked by doc_otis_08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think time is all she needs....to get to know you better. You just need to be patient, and not push for anything....she is just sussing you out at the moment, and perhaps within time things will work out. Best wishes!!!
2006-10-02 21:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow, Talk to her, why she is afraid of relationships. I have the same problem. I've never dated, and i don't think i will any time soon. I'm horribly afraid of it. I know what most guys want and it to get into girls pants. And i'm not into that at all. Maybe she is that way too.
2006-10-03 04:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is afraid to be in a relationship because? ... that you have to know...and show her and reassure her that being into a relationship with you would be worth it.
Take it slow, bring her into formal dates, you know the sweet stuffs make her not just like you but fall for you.
Good luck!
2006-10-03 05:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by firedragon_luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and find out how she got hurt, try not to do that keep working on it, make a "deal" with her like you'll be in a relationship for so long then if it doesn't work out you will still be friends and visa versa
2006-10-03 04:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by colvin0594 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup give her time she will come around. If she dosent soon though forget it because i am sure you dont want to be stuck with a mental case.
2006-10-03 04:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by chad g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she like you only when she needs you.Be careful!she wanted you to think that she was hurt in a past.And my advice is to move on. sorry and good luck
2006-10-03 04:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by lule 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you will find more good thoughts if you'll start praying...the heart's prayer it is short
Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy upon me, a sinner.
Don't ask her about what happened, she'll tell you when time comes, please be patient with her, and pray.
Have only good thoughts!
2006-10-03 04:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by MV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls ll not make it first. u just tell her everything. if ur love is realy true, go ahead. if she refuses, try again n again untill she accepts. loose ur ego, tell truely. if she loves u, she ll accept.
2006-10-03 04:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by ashmit777 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋