wel im 19 years old. still lives with my parents. me and him has been 2 gether for 4 years. when we started seeing eath other my parents told mr im not aloud seeing him, because he is to old. his 5 years older than i am. so we saw eath other without them knowing. they caught me a few times and stil i found ways to see him. i just had 2. he is the only person who truely makes me happy. so when my parents find out again they told mr that i should choose between them and him. they now started 2 aprove, but not realy. they react funny towards me. now i want to move out. i want to start my own live, but they say then im not allowd back and there wil be no family get to gethers where im welcome!
2006-10-02 20:59:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From your parents point of view, you are being to hasty and they can't help not wanting you to be with this person. If you had a daughter, you would feel the same way. If you just have to be with him, then you should definitely move out...out of respect for them. Better still you should cool down the relationship and be more understanding with your parents. Do your best to please them for the remainder of time you're there. Remember...they love you and naturally want the best for you.
You must understand that.
That is why they are threatening to throw you out of the family. They are desperate. Try to see it from their side.
So again...I suggest you cool the relationship somewhat, give the folks the respect they have earned, and work to become independent. so you won't have to depend on him or anyone else to have to take care of you.
Let that be your main objective.
2006-10-02 21:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide whether you are old enough to live on your own and make your own decisions or are you willing to continue to live w/ your parents and allow them to control your life? If you are sneaking around and dating against their wishes, you need to move out and get your own place.
2006-10-03 04:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, they will come around when they see how serious you are
2006-10-03 04:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋