I met this girl a two months ago. I thought I could show her that love is not all about sex: this is cause I feel she does not want to go in to that.
We have never done it not even when she spends a night at my place. I dont ask/ cajole her in to that.
Will I lose her if I continue?
2006-10-02 20:51:04 · 13 answers · asked by Elsalsis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She'll tell u when she's ready, or give u obvious signs that u may go all the way. U totally cool for waiting for her, guys like u gives me hope.
2006-10-02 21:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll, I don't know how old both of you are. If you have known her for two months and she has spent the night at your house in the past, I would step it up a bit! She may start to think you don't like her... like that....ya know! Put some moves on her, she sounds like a shy girl that is waiting for you to start something. If she's spending the night at your house, she's not an angel...go for it.
2006-10-03 03:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by dolphinroc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've only known each other for 2 months...you're probably not ready for sex...especially if ya'll haven't talked about protection, been checked for stds and discussed what ya'll would do if she got pregnant....
that's cool that you don't want it to be all about sex...you sound like a good guy that respects her and your relationship....
don't have sex just cause you might lose her....if you lose her because of that then ya'll weren't meant to be in the first place....
take your time and when you're both ready and prepared...you'll know it's the right time....
good luck:)
2006-10-03 03:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by justjerra_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't force her into anything and respect her decisions. If your relationship is really really serious, you will know when the time is right, and again, don't force her into anything or you will lose her almost instantly. This will be because she thinks that you are just using her and you only feel for her as a tool/toy.
Good Luck!
2006-10-03 04:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For you I'd make the world turn,
For you my heart will always yearn.
For you I'd give my life at will,
For, you are the one who makes my heart stand still.
Without you, my life is dull,
Your smile warms my deepest soul.
Your laugh is like a thousand bells,
And when you laugh... my heart doth swell.
For every wave that finds the shore,
My heart loves you a thousand times more.
For every bird that sings it's song,
My love for you grows deep and strong.
Always and forever, I'll love you till I die,
And to you, my darling, I cannot lie.
For you, my heart, I'll always endeavor
To love you now, always... and forever.
2006-10-03 03:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women want to be respected but she did not stay the night for a slumber party.
2006-10-03 03:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have already moved into the friend zone,bummer dude,2 months i think youve proven your point,she probably thinks you dont want her and shes looking for a guy that actually does want to have sex with her
2006-10-03 04:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by seth s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not do her, someone will and then you wqill get labelled as someone with a problem. Of course you must have sex how do you know she fits you or that she is any good at it.
2006-10-03 03:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex with her ... let her to decide... it makes u more powerful and dont do anything based on your temporary feelings.
it is so dangrous and spoils your both emoptions. be a trustful man ...
2006-10-03 05:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by arya112004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE WILL TELL YOU WHEN SHES READY BUT IF SHE HAS NEVER HAD SEX B/4 THEN WAIT.... SHE MAY WANT TO SAVE IT JUST LOVE HER AND BE HAPPY!!!! WAIT!!!!!!!
2006-10-03 03:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by Lil Juggalette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋