last week i met one nice guy and left him my number...
but the whole week i had been breaking up with my ex-boyfriend and i didn't pick up my f***ing phone(this nice guy,i had met before, had been calling to me the whole week), cus i didn't wanna talk to no one...
i just sent one sms to him and told "sorry, i'm too busy now, see you later"...
now i already finished with my ex, and am going to call to this guy.
i know, he must be hates me, but am going to ask him give me one more chance.
could i tell the truth why i didn't pick up phone?
i don't want him to think, that i just want to raise my self-esteem with using him. how i can explain all this sh*t to him?
it is very important to me, cus i really like him and i really want to get one more chance to make him like me again.
help me, dear people, please! :)
2006-10-02 20:37:16 · 19 answers · asked by unreal_comet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your time, don't make excuses to him, just say you had stuff to sort out. If he's as great as you say he'll accept that. Later you can give the details.
For now be glad you can start fresh......act wisely.
Carpe diem!
2006-10-02 20:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by afrodyzyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, this nice guy has been pursuing you (More than Bush hunting Iraq than hunting Osama) whole week so he must be crazy about you and really like you. If you call him back and initiate something, he will be damn happy and wouldn't hate you. Generally, men are not sensitive abt such trivial things (like why gals do not respond). If he gets pissed off when you call him, then say goodbye to bad rubbish !
As for the excuse to give him, continue yr story abt you being busy with work, your friend has relationship problems, helping your friend to move house and all that ****.
Don't tell him the truth abt you trying to get over yr ex-bf, 'cos while men are generally are not trivial, men also don't want to be treated like 2nd option or spare tyre or a cushion for the rebound.
It is also too early in relationship to be totally frank. :)
2006-10-02 20:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by TheErrandBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a "nice guy" like you say, he probably would want to give you time to get over your relationship before trying to get to know you. He may even wonder why you gave him your number when you weren't really done with your first bf. Likely though, he will be more than happy to forgive you for not calling. You are probably on the rebound and even "nice guys" can usually see where that will lead.
2006-10-02 20:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you know he hates you just because you didn't pick up the phone last week? Call him and tell him you just get over a real busy week and ask him out for dinner. Don't worry too much because it's you yourself making up all those worst case scenario... just make your step and God will take care of you!
Good luck!
2006-10-02 20:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by niverpool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not obligated to tell him that you were in the process of breaking up with your now ex.
But, if you feel bad, you could say something like "I'd like to apologize, first off, for not answering my phone until now. I was going thru some things (or there were some things that I needed to take care of). But, you got me on the phone now, and I'm glad you called."
That sums it up in a nutshell. You apologize...you hint in on why you were unavailable without giving all the details, you tell him you appreciate his persistance...and move forward from there.
Good Luck
2006-10-02 20:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, you were in a transitionary period with your ex. He will understand...especially if you sugar coat it with stuff like....well, you had to tie up that loose end with your ex. I did this when I met my new husband. I told him I had to take care of this guy I'd been seeing and tell him I didn't want to see him anymore. That seemed to really satisfy my new guy....and he was strutting like a rooster! haha...anyway, just tell the truth...come what may.
2006-10-02 20:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by chatterella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you were going through some personal stuff and you really don't want to go in to it because you don't want to feel down like you did when you weren't answering him.
On the other hand if he keeps pressing, you should tell him the truth.
2006-10-02 20:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your phone was up your clam anticipating his call and it gave you such a buzzin' thrill that you couldn't take it out because he kept ringing. Tell him that you haven't even met him but you have shuddered and came multiple times from his ringing vibrations. If you see him again he'll want to jam it into your sugar lips and thrust and thrust until he can thrust no more.
2006-10-02 20:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sheriff Leane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I would think you have emotional problems and would avoid you. I mean how would you feel if it were the other way around.
Good for you on waiting till things were over. That shows class.
2006-10-02 20:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋