This was me chatting to a girl that on an online chat site called person.com, I’m not sure what to make of this, I am not sure if she wants me to make the first move or not, I am sanza and she is abby, read it and tell me what you think.
Oct 02, 12:34 abby: tell me something why are you so nice i mean you are so sweet.... you are not all about sex and stuff like most guys.... you actually with a brain
Oct 02, 13:19 sanza: thanks for that, well to be honest, i'm human as well n i think about sex all the time, everyone does, but i would rather be in a relationship were me and my partner are emotionally competible, were the relationship is based on the emotional and other things, not how me or my partner perform in bed, the relationships that i've had were all shallow, i just wanna see how it would be like if i become very emotionally involved with someone, u know, i know it sounds weird and it sounds like i'm weak but that's what i wanna experience, i want to jump into the abyss, i want to think about my partner all the time, i want to have sleepless nights b/c of her, i want a person who i can share everything with, the good & the bad, without being afraid that she'll tell everyone about my secrets when we break up, that's what happens these days.
Oct 02, 13:30 sanza: i want to be sandile and not sandile-usher, i don't wanna pretend to be someone i'm not anymore, i want someone who'll accept me 4 me, i'll definetely accept that person, well that's what i've been doing. Yep, that's me abbygal, a hopeless romantic, lol, talking about me, u r a nice person too, i actually like u, u r not the condoscending type, i like that, ur cousin is lucky and ur boyfriend-exboyfriend is loosing out.
07:57 abby: one thing i must let you know is that i dnt think you are weak i just think you are a great guy who cares about peoples feeling and you are a guy who does not jump into a relationship you first learn how the person is like bcoz honetly your sex life will never be great if you dnt connect emotionaly... i know we are all human but it takes a great man to stop himself from having sex or from wanting to talk about sex all the time... i really feel it takes a lot of guts for a guy to open up to a gal... thats why i love chatting to you. and when you answer me you dnt make it short and sweet you put your whole heart into it i really love that about you.. wich ever gal that gets you better treat you right bcoz its very hard to meet guys like you these days everyone just wants to have sex and get babies
08:01 abby: me i dnt really open up bcoz i dnt wana get hurt... you see me im a very analitical person doesn't metter hw small something is i always make sure i know what made you do it... i know when im wrong so i do apologise but some peolpe tend to take me for granted that is when i bcome a very selfish person when people play with my emotions.... other wise i would say im a very nice person who is looking for someone with enough patience to connect with me emotionally b4 we connect physicaly
2006-10-02 19:24:09 · 6 answers · asked by lacoste 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes that is quite romantic and noble. I am the same type of guy and can get any girl I want. But I resisted all my life, I am 18 now, and the only girl will love will be the first the last and the most deep. I want that love to last for the rest of my life and never end even after that...
Sure there are times when the whole world is going the other way and you seem to be fighting an unbeatable current (especially in college where I am now) but I try everyday. And so far, I have not committed in my mind or in reality to an girl at all. I feel that too many relationships, or even more than one relationship drains your emotional potential that can be available for your next lover. And so, the solution is contentment, with one lifelong lover and soulmate.
But can one soulmate even be found? Is it a false hope to wander through your life looking for one, in a world where people go through so many relationships and are drained to a point of no feeling at all?
But there is a perfect girl out there who I wait for everyday, and she will be mine, even if I have to wait for many more years to come. I have heard so many times from my friends calling me "diagonized with 1gina" and stuff, but this is what I truly believe in, and I know that this is the way life should be lived, with contentment rather than nightly pleasures that disappear as fast as they lived. Instead of these, she will have all my love even if she doesn't love me, I will love her and her only unconditionally. I feel this sacrifice is my purpose of life, or one of my major purposes.
2006-10-02 19:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by splintercellgod17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rather some Jodi Picoult's books are romance. additionally, ALL of Sarah Dessen's books are super, yet I exceptionally advise This Lullaby, the reality approximately continuously, basically pay attention, and protecting The Moon. alongside For The experience is her maximum recent one, and this is nice so far, yet i've got not complete it yet. additionally, Cynthia Voigt's books are quite good, yet they're greater like teenage struggles somewhat than romance. maximum of them have good existence training and family individuals struggles that i think of all of us can relate to. All of Kevin Brooks's books are stunning, exceptionally Lucas and candy. those are some super romance/journey books. this is cool interpreting issues in adult males' perspectives, too. happy interpreting!
2016-10-18 09:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to tell is to spend time with each other. People can say things that u want to hear, but that doesn't mean it's their true feelings.
2006-10-02 19:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship so far. Dont feel any romance here as of yet between the two of you. Note; she says, 'whoever the girl is that gets you'...she hasnt quite included herself in that statement.
But, keep on trying.
2006-10-02 19:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've heard more romantic things than these. only time will tell how sincere he really is. if the guy is willing to wait and remain consistent with all his thoughtfulness and sweetness, maybe then, it will make me believe that he is sincere.
2006-10-05 22:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
romantic.yes . more then i could do . good luck with this one ,
2006-10-02 19:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋