i am black and my man is black. I heard that a white girl(model) asked him out, but he said no to her and said that he's in a relationship. Even though he said no to her, i feel jealous.
what do you think?
ps: i'm not racist.
2006-10-02 19:16:57 · 10 answers · asked by sweety 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you trust him dont worry about it he doesnt seem to have a problem telling you about what went down
2006-10-02 19:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by chris h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little bit of jealousy in a relationship is ok but to much can cause real problems...sounds like you are the one with the issue of trust or maybe even both of you.I am white and i know if any woman asked my man out and he answered how yours did i would be quite smug and secure about it. Not only did he say no he said he was spoken for what else could he do? Focus on you and him and not him with anyone else because it wont work if there is no "us" with fantastic communication which it seems your man has
2006-10-02 19:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not change it baby. It is the feeling in you say that black is inferior. Look at the famous black girls like Oprah and Tyra, they are great isn't?
you match your other qualities with the white ones your man will adore you.
2006-10-02 19:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are jealous of the fact that other people are interested in him, but It is very good he said no to her, shows honesty to you and devotion as well. being jealous might normal in that situation, but Im pretty sure the feeling will go away with time.
2006-10-02 19:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by mogler_p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what does the fact the the girl is white have anything to do with it?
I think you are jealous because you are a female and thats that.
2006-10-02 19:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are jealous. Really. But who can help it? Not even me. It's alright. Don't worry bec your man had said NO.
2006-10-02 19:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal for you to feel jealous, but hats-off to your man.
2006-10-02 19:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Quartz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not racist, why did you have to bring up race?
Stop being jealous, he said no.
2006-10-02 19:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you feel jealous?? He said no...he did what was right...be proud of him!!! (and he did what was right b/c he was w/ u, not b/c she was white)
2006-10-02 19:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by smarti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i don't get it, it reeks of racism....
2006-10-02 19:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by tmac 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋