I have a guy that i had a one nite stand with. i knew it was nothing, i had no feelings for him at all, but lately ive been around him and i feel something, and i act like a total dork, how can i get him as a man rather than just a one nite stand
2006-10-02 19:29:48 · 14 answers · asked by Carrie T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be his sex goddess
2006-10-02 19:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by LadyRedWild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all recognize you may have gave him the impression that you were easy. The respect factor required in the relationship you are desiring diminished greatly. Respect is required to maintain a healthy relationship. I describe your sexual partner as an acquaintance because you have no foundation established if he was not a friend prior to your sex act. Build upon a firm foundation that will allow you to establish a friendship. Avoid the sex for now. Sex cannot be the only common denominator.
2006-10-02 19:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by kirkman782002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got a crush!!!! rule # 1 about 1 nite stands...if you think its possible to have feelings for this person later on dont do it no matter how much u want to....b/c more than likely they will not return the same feelings & that will leave you feelins stupid & sad & all that oter negative crap that you shouldnt be feeling....all i can say is just try to talk to him in depth about this b4 telling him that you have fallen for him
2006-10-02 19:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats difficult. But building a friendship with him could be a way to go. Even though you two have already taken it to the next step, he may become interested in you for the long haul if you show him what a great person you are. Just relax and be yourself...and try to put that night behind you.
2006-10-02 19:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a weird question anyway. One nite stand, now go nad have one night sit and then One night sleep and then one night @@#@
2006-10-02 19:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have anything in common with him other than your one nite stand. If so build on that.
2006-10-02 19:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply look at him str8 in the eyes and with that sultry lil look of yours say " Ding, Ding, ready for round two?". Then after the hot sex lay around and talk awhile and see where it leads.
2006-10-02 20:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by t31sfd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are after you've had the one night stand, it won't be anything else. He got what he wanted from you.
2006-10-02 19:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's too stupid to see that you actually care about him, he's not worth it. If he knows and still dosen't care, he's double not worth it. Hope the sex was good! Smile about it and move on to something better!
2006-10-02 19:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by RhinoBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too late, he does not think you respect yourself but thats just my opinion. Just ask him out for lunch or something where you can share your personality.
2006-10-02 19:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's lust that your feeling(the sex must have been good huh? I don't think you can get him, it's too late, you've already given him your dignity!!!
2006-10-02 19:41:43 · answer #11 · answered by Mycan Moneek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋