sometimes I feel guilty for being a virgin but sometimes I just don't care.
2006-10-02 19:15:56 · 39 answers · asked by www.mrcooldude.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there is nothing wrong with that.
Some youth gets into sex to the point where it doesn't mean a thing.
They risk sexually transmitted disease. Risk unplanned pregnanceys and with multi partners risk sex being so casusal that nothing feels good.
Be proud.
2006-10-02 19:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong being a virgin. It's the people that doesn't value their virginity is the problem. It's okay waiting for the right man/woman and until you get married. It will be the best decision you'll ever make. It just show how much you love this person.
2006-10-02 19:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by Cava 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Actually there is an advantage. When guys are dating they look for the girls who sleep around. But when they are ready to settle down and get married, they want to marry a virgin. My ? is if they sleep with all the girls that are willing then where will they find a virgin to marry? So you are in a minority, and it's something to be proud of.
The first time you're with a woman/man it should be one that you truly love and are going to spend the rest of your life with. I applaud you.
2006-10-02 19:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Your personal integrity, virtue, code of ethics, and moral values are to be applauded! Too, they are yours and what others think is totally irrelevant! Never sell your integrity or compromise your virtue for the approval of others.
Look at it from this prospective: are you or have you been pregnant? Do you have any sexual disease? Do you have to put up with any male crap because you slept with him and now he is sleeping with everybody else? Do you have babies that do not have fathers or they are not paying child support?
Hold your head High LADY, keep and live by YOUR values and forget about the world. The world does not give a DA MM about you! Put some mistletoe on the back of your skirt and tell the world it is Christmas.
2006-10-02 19:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no there's nothing wrong with that, I wish I was cause none of these worthless inexperienced losers were worth me sleeping with in the first place. Keep your virginity as long as possible because you never know what your getting, Trust me, If I could take it back I would because all men want is what's between your legs, they dream about it and damn near live for it. DON'T DO IT!!! Make who ever your with wait, if he does with out being a cheating dog then think on it, but I still would advise you to wait as long as possible.It's not worth it!!!
2006-10-02 19:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mycan Moneek 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. You wait, until you know for sure that it is the right time and the right girl.
2006-10-02 19:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is NOTHING at all wrong with being a virgin. If you want to wait until you find that right person and/or wait until marriage than that is more popular than you think. That is normal is there is nothing wrong with that.
Plus, your "future" partner would appreciate someone who hasn't been with allot of ppl since there is allot of AIDS and STD's going around. So that is also something to consider!
2006-10-02 19:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by sdrose17 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a treasure. I wish more people would consider sex a special thing that should be reserved for a loving committed relationship. It would also cut down on all the unwanted pregnancies. Don't feel guilty...wait for the right one.
2006-10-02 19:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by rcpaden 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Am 24 and am still a virgin and am proud of that. There are certain things that shudn't be given to just anyone. They are meant for a special one.
2006-10-02 19:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by Saphire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you feel guilty? You should be proud! You are doing what God asked you to do. Wait until you are married. Like how cool would that be for your wife to know that you knew she would come along and you were saving the best of yourself for her. I think its AWESOME!
2006-10-02 19:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by Ponderpink 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋