The girl meaning me. Honestly, I don't want a relationship either. I'm just wondering why the guy I'm fooling around with asks me questions that seem like he wants a relationship when he doesn't want one either.
it's not about who's into who. I dislike how girls try to categorize all guys as just users, although many are. I'm not giving this guy any sexual satisfaction and I am dating other guys as well.
All I can say is, the girl is not always the victim. We are smart people too, and we aren't all easily emotionally attached. Just because a girl and a guy fool around yet both do not want committed relationships does not mean that one person is merely using the other (meaning guy using girl). It's mutual.
About that book "he's just not that into you..." it's garbage. Girls should not try to fit every guy into that book. Get over the garbage.
2006-10-02 18:33:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, I've been recommended that book many times to answer questions like this, but to be honest, it's not answering my question whatsoever. Don't recommend a book that really isn't relevant to my question and it also forces every guy into some set standard. Girls are strong too...
2006-10-02 18:34:28 · update #1
Because 99.99% of the time they are.
People work the odds.
2006-10-02 18:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most most people think the girl is the victim for several reasons, but you already answered your own question. Women also have strategies to use men. Women are very smart, and they use any stereotype about them in their advantage. Most men actually believe that every woman is looking for a commitment guy all the time. That's a misconception that women use to their advantage. And you like other women could just go along with "the game" and use it. If a guy is asking you to get into a more serious relationship when he's not "getting any," he has become already the victim of women's "game." You could tell him the truth and be honest with him, buy why when you can have so much fun. No I'm kidding, it's no good to have fun at someone else expense. Just be careful 'cause there are some truly "passionate" guys who could become obsessed until they get what they want or something much worse happens.
2006-10-03 02:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow I almost believed you were a strong young woman. then you stated that woman can use a guy for sex just like a guy can a woman. you blew it big time. it take intelligent to be a strong woman all it take to say what you said is a little stupidity and arrogance. do your unborn kid a favor have your tubes tied before you choose to have him or her sucked into a vacuum cause it your right to. if your not the emotional type then your a rare breed cause it is in a woman's nature to be emotional. wow womens lib is alive and well i pray for the guy who gets stuck with you. go have your career, your kid in day care, your weak husband (cause you both can't ware the pants in the family) and all the things a strong woman deserves and remember your only the victim of a lack of vision cause being a real woman doesn't mean your a victim......
2006-10-03 01:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think he is trying to strike up a conversation?
There is nothing worse than having sex with a girl when you need someone else there to talk to.
2006-10-03 01:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been a victim previously but not anymore.
2006-10-03 01:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋