been in a relationship for about a year now... she's 6 yrs. younger than i am... everythings ok, except for some petty fights.but sometimes i feel i'm better without her, is it because im tired already or im not that inlove anymore?
2006-10-02 18:30:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dated a girl who was almost 6 years younger, and it lasted for almost a year. I can say she was as mature as me, or I was as immature as her. My guess would be you're tired of her. My probs with this girl were related to her wanting to be with other guys....she was 23 so I guess she needed to sow her oats....so we parted ways because of it was better for her given her age at the time....I would have been restricting her most likely.
2006-10-02 18:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unfortunantly I think you have asked "us" a question which only you can answer - the classic "should I stay or should I go", which (in this case) boils down to whether you love her or not. You are the only one who can really decide whether you are still in love with her enough to want to stick it through harder times - including more boring times. I think boredom kills more relationships than almost anything else.
But it is also almost inevitable.
One thing you might want to really consider is whether you want to settle down with a long term girlfriend right now, and whether she will be able to (since she is younger, even though I dont know your ages).
Another thing you might consider is taking a weekend or a week apart, and setting some real time to examine how you feel. It is easy to feel liberated when you know the other person will still be there waiting for you. When you take this time apart, really think about how you'd feel if she wasn't there at all anymore. That should give you a real idea of whether you love her for real, or if you are ready to move on. Good luck.
2006-10-02 18:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a bit of both. I'm going thru some thing like this myself but the one true way of knowing is to have a sit down and to talk about feelings. Tell her how you've recently been feeling awkward because of the past fights. Tell her you're not sure how you feel anymore. Ask her if she's willing to try and solve things. If she's not then maybe it's not that you're tired of things... maybe she is.
2006-10-02 18:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Peepers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i recognize the form you experience:/ yet how i seem at it an my buddies tell me that it happens for a reason and something greater appropriate will come. in basic terms overlook approximately him and circulate on. Be single you do no longer could desire to fall in love each and all of the time reason at last u will replace right into a tragic depressed guy or woman reason u been harm a lot. I even have been single for like 3 months now and that i've got ladies that act like my gf soo to be in a courting u do no longer want love the two js.
2016-12-26 08:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say forget the relationship altogether. You just said that sometimes, it's better without her. If you really love someone, you wouldn't think that. It sounds like both of what you are saying (tired, and definitely not in love anymore).
2006-10-02 18:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably the fact that the 6 years difference is starting to weigh on you. Your petty fights, do you put them down to the fact that she's younger?
2006-10-02 18:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, it sounds to me your heart is not where it should be. I think you should move along and keep yourself happy. If you are bored or tired of a relationship, it means it is time to end it before it goes on too long and people get really hurt.
2006-10-02 18:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like tired. i know the feeling.
try to spice it up or take a little break. not as in hooking up with someone, but no communication for a week.
2006-10-02 18:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by phnx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you fell out of love.....maybe things are just at a plateau?
You have two choices....to let it go...get out of it..and let it fade out of your life...OR you can express your concerns and see what she has to say. Maybe all it needs is a little spicing from both of you.
Good Luck
2006-10-02 18:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are in love anymore. Break it up now and give yourself and her a chance to find someone more compatible.
2006-10-02 18:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋