Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

2006-09-21 16:54:07 · 15 answers · asked by iluvblu09 2 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 1/2 we and are still very much in love. He plays basketball at a jr college and he might go away for school after this year to play basketball if he gets a good scholership. I just work and plan go to school once I save a good amount of money. I just don't know if it would be healthy for me to just go with him or just follow my heart.

2006-09-21 16:54:02 · 6 answers · asked by cubanaincali99 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is the deal my husbands birthday is coming up on thursday, so his brother text me to see what I had planned well needless to say that we were texting eachother back and forth. Then my wanna be sister in law ( they arent married) text me saying what the he!! is so dam important that yall cant call eachother on the phone, so I told her what we were talking about and she was all mad she was like you wouldnt like for me to text alex (my hubby). I told her you gotta understand that david is my brother in law and if I wanna text him than I am. To make a long story short what would you have done?


I dont think I was wrong

2006-09-21 16:54:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-21 16:53:24 · 9 answers · asked by Vijay 1 in Family

So there's this girl who I've wanted to hang out with. A group of us were going to go play mini golf/goto coffee, and I called her and asked if her she wanted to come with. She said she couldn't, made some conversation with me, had laughs, and told me next time to call her if anything is going on. This has happened twice now, over a week's time (or so).

What can I do to/say to get her to invite me along with something she does? Or how many times should I invite her before I should stop?

2006-09-21 16:53:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my neighbors are a disfunctional bunch of trash... they work on thier car at all hours... the 14 year old daughter (overweight) walks around with her ta-ta's hangin out.. and plays grab *** in the driveway (which is between our houses) at ALL HOURS of the night.. the little children are always filthy and running out in the street. I am sitting here now listening to the drunk father and a friend laughing, drinking, and working on a car.. IT IS 10:45 pm.. and I have infant twins sleeping inside.
I have already had to turn the city loose on them for piling about 20 bags of garbage outside thier backdoor... I am ready to call DCFS.. but I dont want any trouble.. I just want them to respect my right to peace and quiet.. I am at my wits end.. PLEASE HELP

2006-09-21 16:52:49 · 8 answers · asked by Tiffany P 3 in Friends

have been only 4 - 5 minute man.
Is that normal or what?

2006-09-21 16:52:22 · 9 answers · asked by dilna m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i've been with my bf for almost 3 years and he has a bestfriend Who is a GIRL! who he has known way before me rite ...BuT he is super close to her and i get mad....homecoming is coming up and he is taking her cause its there senior year and that they talked about it ever since 7th grade ..plus i'm older and out of high school.....And i really got mad when he told me to the point to where i broke up with him...do u think i'm over reacting cause there has never been ANYTHING between Them......What do u think am i OR NoT!.......

2006-09-21 16:51:45 · 21 answers · asked by dalia f 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy asks in Yahoo Answers why girls do not like him and he goes on to say what a good guy he is. He gets a lot of sympathy and even girls asking him to IM them. what he does not say though, is that he knows his problem is he just declared bankrupcy, is payind child and spousal support, has to babysit his bratty child every other weekend and keep the child several weeks during summer, also he neglects to mention that he has an exwife from hell, why go on. This seems to be enough for girls not to want to become this guy's girlfriend!! Your toughts on this please.

2006-09-21 16:51:22 · 7 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Singles & Dating

Stopped drugs about a month ago. At my urging, he started seeing an individual counselor about 2 mths ago & is supposed to start an intensive outpatient program for alcohol/drugs soon(already had intake appt). Thing is, I am 6 mths pregnant with our 2nd child and our 1st is 15 mths. I am also in individual counseling for this. At my counselors urging, I stopped nagging him about his use of these things. It's gotten WORSE! I am having I have tons of emotion (mostly anger and hurt) . He is working and is successful at paying all the bills, etc. He, however, does not know how to support me emotionally (never learned these skills as a child - and is in counseling to help him.) He is an AWESOME father-somehow able to show emotion he cannot show to anyone else. Tonight, after getting home from a business trip which started his drinking binge all over, he is at the bar with his MOTHER, both getting drunk! Should I give him more time or leave before this baby is born? I am looking into Alanon.

2006-09-21 16:50:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Its not like i do it, but I just wondering....

2006-09-21 16:48:46 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

E.g. Flirts, naughty-looking type.

2006-09-21 16:47:40 · 31 answers · asked by dolphinzzz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 16:47:25 · 3 answers · asked by Magda L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

before becoming b/f g/f?....is it s/t that is just a mutual feeling, or is it after a couple dates that you become an item?

2006-09-21 16:47:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend called me this afternoon and apologized for not coming over, he said his back was hurting and that he was really tired. He was acting completely normal. After I got home from work, he called me again to ask how work was. He was talking louder than usual and very fast. He kept saying "I miss you baby. I really miss you." Then he said he'd call me later. About fifteen minutes later, he called again and was speaking the way he usually does and was asking if I told a friend of his about the baseball game we're going to on Monday. He sounded upset, but when I asked him, he said he was fine, just tired and that he'd see me tomorrow.

He's normally pretty quiet and soft spoken, and he has some trouble when he speaks English, so it surprised me when he called talking very loud and very fast. We don't usually talk on the phone, but today he called me three times.

I'm not sure if he was drinking maybe. He was just acting very strange and I was wondering what brought this on.

2006-09-21 16:46:56 · 8 answers · asked by Me 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

He and I were together for 7.5 years. Broke up summer 2005 (we were growing apart). I thought we were going to get back together this past Spring. Then he suddenly got into intense relationship with this girl. I have been very depressed over it. He is coming back to town to visit his family and wants to have coffee. He knows that I am still in love with him. Is it stupid to see him?? Will I just end up hitting the reset button on the little work I have been able to do in trying to move on from him? Help!

Also, he has been very clear that we are not getting back together, so that is not a possibility. I love him so much. Everything was pointing in the direction that we were going to get back together. He even told me he didn't like this girl, that she wasn't his type. Well now they are together and I wouldn't be surprised if he is already saving for an engagement ring? So should I see him? He has to drop some stuff off at my house but I could not be here when he does that? Please Help

2006-09-21 16:46:12 · 19 answers · asked by M K 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 16:45:57 · 7 answers · asked by celeste a 2 in Friends

There is this lady who I work with who I have a huge crush on, however, whenever I see her I immediately begin to get an erection. Usually this is not a problem because I am normally sitting at my desk. I think that somehow she has discovered my weakness because lately she seems to be walking into the room whenever I am giving a presentation or having a meeting with my boss or clients. She just comes in and asks an irrelevent question while smiling mischievously at me and looking at my pants. I really don't know what to do, how do I tell her to stop because of the effect she has on me?

2006-09-21 16:45:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this guy on the net/phone for 2months or so. We talk everyday, and he knows everything about me,and vice versa. He doesn't ask me out on a date, just makes references to maybe going on a date. I talk about going out with some friends he wants to know if guys will be there. If I say ''were not dating so whats the problem?'' he gets mad!
Does he like me? or is he playing stupid 'guy' games?

I really like him, and think about him all the time, he tells me he thinks about me too, but why does he get so mad at the stupidest things?
Or at least say he wants to be my boyfriend?

2006-09-21 16:44:46 · 12 answers · asked by shy_dixon 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm having my 21st birthday party this saturday and it's a joint party with 2 of my guy friends .. problem is .. they r also good friends with my ex-boyfriend and of corz they want him to come .. i dun mind him comin however he told everyone that he wont come unless i call him personally and invite him to come ..but i juz think its sorta weird if i do call him bcuz my now bf is goin too ... should i invite him?

2006-09-21 16:44:22 · 15 answers · asked by Cexy C 1 in Singles & Dating

I currently am into this shy guy i know and feel like seducing him...is that weird?


p.s. NOT to use him or anything of the sort i do want to date him and all

2006-09-21 16:44:01 · 14 answers · asked by Diverse Insanity 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a grown woman and it is for this reason that I don't pick some of these answers. It is not what you say but it is the way you say it.

2006-09-21 16:43:44 · 9 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Friends

my wife and i arnt doing so well and i though i might be able to find out what i am doing wrong by checking out what kinds of questions she was asking people. but when i did she asked this......
"I have been flirting with this guy at work recently. He is 21 and married I guess. I have a boyfriend and things aren't going so hot. Talking to this other guy makes me feel all giddy and I show more love to my man now. Is there anything wrong with what I'm doing? I don't feel like there is, but I want to know what you think. Also, when I found out he was married the person said it right in front of him and he got all scared looking like I wasn't supposed to know. I would never cheat on my boyfriend, but I feel like this is spicing things up. What do you think?"
what should i do in this situation. i love her varry much and dont want things to fall apart, but this rearly truns my stomic.

2006-09-21 16:43:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what do u define as love?

2006-09-21 16:42:00 · 14 answers · asked by dudeman 2 in Singles & Dating

Honestly guys, spill. If you meet a great girl and you really like her and she has a nice chest (I don't mean huge and fake looking, I mean like a nice proportionate C cup), would you really care that they're not real?

2006-09-21 16:41:36 · 34 answers · asked by Kailee 3 in Singles & Dating

sarcastic to your mother.
For example you have a mother who in the first place wanted to abort you then let someone else raise you and by the time you are grown up she is so bitter that is incapable of loving even helself and every time you try to seek her love and approval you unfortunately cannot get as much as you would expect to get from her.

2006-09-21 16:41:26 · 6 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Family

why are you asking, if your not going to bother checking for best answer????

2006-09-21 16:39:55 · 12 answers · asked by curiosity 2 in Singles & Dating

im trying to be sweet and romantic to my 2 week fiance...and i love you hasnt come yet.... and i want to say goodnite to him..in a text message...how can i say good nite in a nice but not cheesy way? please help me fast? thank you

2006-09-21 16:37:59 · 8 answers · asked by lovely86 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 16:36:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well me and my g/f have been dating for about 3 weeks..well i've noticed that i have to initiate every conversation because me n her can be alone but she'll never talk to me..i dont know y? i think im her first n i just cant stand it..i know you people mite tell me to just talk to her but remember u cant change who people are or behave.soo i need helpp im getting to a point where i will not take it anymore..but i really like her?

2006-09-21 16:36:25 · 7 answers · asked by ClickSubscribe 3 in Singles & Dating