Well i've been with my bf for almost 3 years and he has a bestfriend Who is a GIRL! who he has known way before me rite ...BuT he is super close to her and i get mad....homecoming is coming up and he is taking her cause its there senior year and that they talked about it ever since 7th grade ..plus i'm older and out of high school.....And i really got mad when he told me to the point to where i broke up with him...do u think i'm over reacting cause there has never been ANYTHING between Them......What do u think am i OR NoT!.......
2006-09-21 16:51:45 · 21 answers · asked by dalia f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think u r over reacting about the homecoming because if you are his woman you should be going.Don't let there friendship bother you if he wanted her he would of had her already.I think you should try to explain how you feel to him.If you love him I say work it out.
2006-09-21 17:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your feelings and your point of view. I have been both the girlfriend who did not like the girl who was a friend and I have been that girl who was a close friend of a guy for some years. You have been with him three years and this girl has been in the picture during the whole time, IF he hasn't given you a reason to think there is more to their relationship in all those three years--I don't know why you are upset--unless he has. They have been planning this long before you came into the picture, you may be his girlfriend, but you have to be fair to them and their friendship. It is a homecoming dance, I could see if you lost your cool because it was couple's night at the club or something. However, if he has given you reasons to be insecure about their close relationship and if you have some intuition/instincts that their feelings go deeper, you may not be overreacting and you may have done the right thing. For as far back as I can remember, my intuition and instincts have never steered me wrong--always steered me straight and opened my eyes to the truth even when I would have almost preferred being "blind."
2006-09-21 17:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you can not escape your true feelings - and if your true feelings say that you are hurt and mad, then you are hurt and mad - and you should tell him so and talk it out .. it is up to the two of you how to reslove it .. and if it came to breaking up, the both of you should accept that decision. i think it is ok to have a close friend that is of the opposite sex, but i would be hurt too if i were in your position ... and if you feel that this will always be an issue, and it is something that you can not let go - then maybe the decision to break up was for the best ..
2006-09-21 17:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by bubbleyumbunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that you in no way are overreacting! Friends need to have boundiers also. You are the gf not her and if you ask me I would have to say that they are lying about not haveing anything on between them. But you should not feel bad at all, if you really cares about you then he should take you instead of her. And if she is still in school then she should be able to find a date and still go with you all as FRIENDS NOT DATES!!
2006-09-21 16:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by redneckwomen098 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not over reacting. I would be mad as hell. It sounds like he has a thing for her and he has probably slept with her while you have been going out. Sorry to say it but he needs to let go of her if he wants to be with you. Girls and guys can't be just friends!!!
2006-09-21 16:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Methinks he should be taking his girlfriend. A true lifelong friend should understand. Were they really planning homecoming dance in 7th grade? Heck, I wasn't concerned with planning anything more distant than lunch in 7th grade!
2006-09-21 16:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd frivolously say i'm not sure what they are speaking approximately. Then ask them what the crime is they are speaking approximately and ask how and why they think of it grow to be me. i'd then provide them a proof on why it wasn't me. in the event that they nonetheless desire to have faith it grow to be me, so be it, i'm going to enable them to think of incorrect, the reality will pop out one way or yet another.
2016-12-18 14:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by joyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really. If you are dating the guy he should takes you to prom. After all, it's not like he's too embarrassed to be seen with you or anything and his best friend should understand that he now has a girlfriend and let him get on with his own life.
2006-09-21 17:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to talk to him and this chick... that sounds totally wrong... especially since you (the girlfriend) has said NO Way!! It would tick me off too and hurt my feelings... I understand its okay to have a friend of the opposite sex... but it is not alright to have a date with her.... they could have gone by thier selves and maybe hung out during the dance.. but to actually go as partners.. no way!! you go girl... stand up for your rights!!!
2006-09-21 16:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by april 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his homecoming in his senior year, only happens once.. It sounds really cute, I wouldn't break up with him over it
2006-09-21 16:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋