My boyfriend called me this afternoon and apologized for not coming over, he said his back was hurting and that he was really tired. He was acting completely normal. After I got home from work, he called me again to ask how work was. He was talking louder than usual and very fast. He kept saying "I miss you baby. I really miss you." Then he said he'd call me later. About fifteen minutes later, he called again and was speaking the way he usually does and was asking if I told a friend of his about the baseball game we're going to on Monday. He sounded upset, but when I asked him, he said he was fine, just tired and that he'd see me tomorrow.
He's normally pretty quiet and soft spoken, and he has some trouble when he speaks English, so it surprised me when he called talking very loud and very fast. We don't usually talk on the phone, but today he called me three times.
I'm not sure if he was drinking maybe. He was just acting very strange and I was wondering what brought this on.
2006-09-21 16:46:56 · 8 answers · asked by Me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm not sick over it, I was just curious as to why he may be acting this way suddenly. And I don't think he's cheating (otherwise he wouldn't have called so many times). I was thinking more along the lines of drinking or drugs.
2006-09-21 16:55:00 · update #1
At first I thought that your boyfriend might had been in some sort of trouble but if he's able to call back 15 minutes later sounding normal then maybe he had been drinking and had time to calm down.On the bright side,at least he called you and told you that he missed you.
2006-09-21 16:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, there could be nothing there. Also there could be. My mom has had a lot of bad men in her life and I have seen them all. All I can really say is that you need to sit down clear your head and see what you tummy and your heart tells you. If they make you feel that you are going to be sick, then you need to sit with him face to face and ask him what is going on. It is harder for a man to lie to you when you are looking at each other face to face. Your body wont lie to you!
2006-09-21 16:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by redneckwomen098 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something wrong is really happening to your boyfriend. try to talk to him seriously and tell him what you feell but be sure your going to tell it in a nice way so he wont feel bad!
2006-09-21 16:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by honeyko_japan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is wierd. But maybe he's got alot of stress or something. Maybe you should talk to him
2006-09-21 16:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time you see your boyfriend, ask him what was up with his phone calls.
2006-09-21 16:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definately give that boy a drug test !
2006-09-21 16:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by sofora k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could have been cheating but dont blame him of cheating, just ask him what is wrong.
2006-09-21 16:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by sms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he feels guilty about cheating on you with me
2006-09-21 16:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by lolitalovely333 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋