my wife and i arnt doing so well and i though i might be able to find out what i am doing wrong by checking out what kinds of questions she was asking people. but when i did she asked this......
"I have been flirting with this guy at work recently. He is 21 and married I guess. I have a boyfriend and things aren't going so hot. Talking to this other guy makes me feel all giddy and I show more love to my man now. Is there anything wrong with what I'm doing? I don't feel like there is, but I want to know what you think. Also, when I found out he was married the person said it right in front of him and he got all scared looking like I wasn't supposed to know. I would never cheat on my boyfriend, but I feel like this is spicing things up. What do you think?"
what should i do in this situation. i love her varry much and dont want things to fall apart, but this rearly truns my stomic.
2006-09-21 16:43:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask her outright whether or not she loves u. It's better to be straightforward. She could really be in love with you and this could just be a distraction. So don't take unnecessary tention. Talk it out openly with her.
2006-09-21 16:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said she is your wife but in the questions she is mentioning a boyfriend,either you and her are recently married or some monkey business is going on.Regardless if you're her husband or boyfriend,she shouldn't be flirting with anyone.Have you talked to her about how you are feeling? Because she needs to find another way to spice up your relationship,not where you're going to be hurting,tell her how you feel,find out what is on her mind.
2006-09-21 16:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her this makes you feel disrespected and ask her to discontinue the flirting, if she wants to flirt, she shoudl flirt with you ... now for your part, show her more attention and flirting, just cause you are together is no reason to take her for granted ... woo her if you dont want her seeking that kind of attention elsewhere.
2006-09-21 17:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem very confused. It may be time to take vacation from relationships.
2006-09-21 16:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋