So there's this girl who I've wanted to hang out with. A group of us were going to go play mini golf/goto coffee, and I called her and asked if her she wanted to come with. She said she couldn't, made some conversation with me, had laughs, and told me next time to call her if anything is going on. This has happened twice now, over a week's time (or so).
What can I do to/say to get her to invite me along with something she does? Or how many times should I invite her before I should stop?
2006-09-21 16:53:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if it's only been a week, you might want to hold off on asking her out any further for a few days or more. I'd not recommend asking her out more than once a week, especially if she has declined.
She might also just be "trying to be nice", and isn't interested.
2006-09-21 16:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by GrlNamedJane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you as a friend only. Have you ever heard the book "He Just Isn't Into You"? (I think that is the name of the book). Anyway, it goes for girls too. She may not be into you. Don't take it as an insult. I am sure your a nice looking guy. Move on to the next. - This girl may even see you w/ someone else and become a bit jealous. But, just move on, and good luck.
2006-09-21 17:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by bobbie e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the girl is a busy one...if u really like her, dun quit....try again...call her and ask when she would be free...talk to her and find out her interests...maybe she likes skating or stuff like that...that way, u can invite her when you are going there...or even plan to go there and invite her....
one thing for sure, this girl isn't avoiding u...if she is, she wouldnt' bother answering your calls...so, pal, just keep trying...i'm sure she would love to hang out with ya!
good luck!
2006-09-21 16:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by cuteangel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know whats going on with with her and what she's thinking, because i dont really know you, but if she keeps giving you the same answer every time like: srry im busy... thats not gonna work in ur behalf.. yeah so if i were her find out when u know shes not going to be busy, and ask her out. if she rejects, you should stop.
2006-09-21 16:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she has anything going on during a weekend, and ask to accompany her if something sounds interesting to you.
2006-09-21 16:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sean P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your interested in her lay your cards on the table. If she does not respond backoff. Allow her to chase you!
Thank you for the chance.
2006-09-21 17:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by Reality 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you ask her what she likes to do and what are some of her hobbies and take it from there. Guess what you will certainly win the bingo game.
2006-09-21 16:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut the losses early and move on
2006-09-21 16:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Dr M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you tried talking to her face? try talking to her face and get ot know her and let her get to know you. be nice and dont be all show off.... trust me girls hate that with the passion of an erupting volcano. be nice and talk to her.
2006-09-21 17:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by Getoutalive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋