Why do i easily fall in love with guys with bad characteristics??

Question

E.g. Flirts, naughty-looking type.

Answer 1

Because the bad boys are consistent with the games you've been taught.

Find Eric Berne's "Games People Play" in paperback and read it. Your games are the ones you LAUGH AT when you read the description.

It is really, truly, amazingly, completely difficult to dump the games you have. The bad boyfriend you cand dump and start all over again with another. The game is harder to get rid of than a deep wart on the end of a witch's nose.

Answer 2

Sagittarius are good people. It all depends on the type of person. Some sag are great people. While others are cheap and lazy. I have a female sagittarius as a friend. And it was great having her as a friend but, then she starting tell me all of these sad stories about how people always treat her bad and she is always the victim. I started to realize that people would help her 100 percent but she wouldn't help them 100 percent. It seem like she would just use them for that time being. After that she would move on intill she need you again. If anything was giong great in your life she didn't want to hear it. Because life wasn't giong great for her. she would just cut you off because I think that she had a little jeasouly in her. But like I said before not all sagittarius people are like that because I met some really cool ones who was the compelet opposite of my friend. Also your birthday date play a big part. The date you were born. so check out the date and get some horoscope books only on sagittarius and it would explain every thing to you.

Answer 3

Unfortunately, sometimes we can't help whom we fall in love with. But on the other hand, you can change the cycle by recognizing the "wrong" types and changing the selection. You seem to have the need to take a bad boy as a challenge of sorts and feel as if you are not going to let him get you like he's done all the others. You call them stupid for not being as smart as you are and whammo! You're one of the stupid group! You let your guards down and thought because of the adrenaline rush he gives you and the idea he is a man's man! He can protect you and he ain't no wimp! Oh, yeah baby! But, what you really got is an insecure boy who don't have any respect for you, himself or others. He's self consumed and all he cares about is the next conquest and you ain't it! Recognize! This is not love- its poor judgement and decision making at its best!

Answer 4

Those kind of guys represent danger, excitement and mystery. Maybe they're the kind your parents wouldn't approve of, and that makes them even more desirable. Often times we fall into a pattern of choosing the same kind of guys with the same type of personalities. I'm thinking that as you get older and become more discriminating, you'll lose interest in the bad boys and look for one who will represent stability and good character, the kind you won't be ashamed to bring home to mom and dad. Watch your step with the bad guys -- they can get you in a whole lot of trouble. There's no fun in that.

Answer 5

Low self esteem and trust issues.. You pick these guys because of your own lack of self worth. Also, you pick these guys because from the get go you know what they are about and what to expect. You don't like to be caught off guard by thinking one way about a person and they turn out to be another. You try to choose the safe way out because if this type of person hurts you, it wouldn't surprise you and catch you off guard which hurts worse. Take care and things will work out better for you,

Answer 6

Because they are different and difficult some how hiding own personality - some spirit coming from them can be the attraction to see something newer - but for what we want is not good at all for our safety and good future - just short Bus Stop - move on.

Answer 7

It has to be a woman thing... We as women, think we can change bad traits... its a mother goose kind of thing... but we have to realize... if they are bad to the bone and dont want to change... they won't.... I also dont understand why we like the bad ones that have that cutting edge look.. has to be hormones.. but you know what... not every bad boy looking guy is actually a bad boy.. .I married one myself... he knew the womans position on this and used it to his advantage... and hooked me... just watch for the cheaters, druggies, drunks, and jerks... feel them out first... the good guys will usually have a way about them that will make you know that they are good at heart... good luck.. april

Answer 8

Either:

1) Strong come-ons arouse you, regardless of the likelihood that they may be disloyal, S.T.Diseased, and too proud to do anything unique in bed;

or

2) Your ancestors were naturally selected to go for mean men, probably because they will be better at exploiting other people to your advantage.

Answer 9

It is in everyone. People with bad characteristics is more outstanding compare to normal guys. As people, we are looking for someone that is more outstanding to mate and produce a better generation.

Answer 10

usually it has to do with a self esteem. notice though that if you keep going for these types they will always treat you the way you the way you have been

try to find someone that will respect you someone that will try to do what is right by you.

its hard to deal with those that show respect to you cause it can be so unfamiliar, but believe me its worth it in the end.


currently i have the same troubles with women alway interested in money and how cool they are