Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

My Mom’s husband. It seems like his day isn’t complete unless he finds something to argue about. It’s always something little and stupid. He’s the kind of guy that can say what he wants and when you answer him back, all hell breaks loose because he always thinks he’s right and most of the time he has no IDEA what he’s talking about.

I try ignoring him, that doesn’t seem to work lately and I’m usually good at ignoring people. I’ve prayed for more patience but God works on his own timing. But in the meantime, I’d like some help because it’s gotten so bad, the mention of his name set’s me in a bad mood, let alone being in the same room with him. My mom feels the tension and It’s bothering her. So, help me out. How do I deal with this man without killing him?

2006-09-18 01:44:42 · 8 answers · asked by D-Wizzle 2 in Family

hay whats the best way to tell a guy you just want to be friends with him!!! hes really sweet but i want to be nice about and i absolutely have no feelings whats so ever

2006-09-18 01:44:22 · 9 answers · asked by mk 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 01:43:44 · 24 answers · asked by mary H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

mine was letting my family run my life and letting theam blame me for evrathing that when wrong in the family and just becouse i have lerning diffcultes my mum told me that was wasent ment to be born and the family dident want me well now i have told mym family to jump of a cliff and iam moving on with my life and doing my own thing am geting my own house

2006-09-18 01:42:01 · 19 answers · asked by clairebare 1 in Family

its since my childhood that i donot have friends....i am always overshadowed...at home by my elder sis and outside by classmates...i am very shy and i do not speak much even at home but that isnt my fault...what should i do if god has made me like that...i care for every one at home sooo much but no one understands... everyone loves only my elder sis...thats coz she was the first baby girl in our home...i love her too but even she doesnt understand...i had a friend...idid so much for her but now she goes with some one else and it seems like i do not even exist...i have absolutely no frens in college... i think i will go mad one day because of loneliness..i speak to myself because i have no one else to even listen to me...i am sad.... what should i do??

2006-09-18 01:40:30 · 37 answers · asked by tani 1 in Friends

My husband was on a boys weekend, when he came home i used his phone and saw that he had phoned a woman at 1 in the morning, he had also received a call from the woman 10 mins before that. i felt sick. I had to question it and he tried to lie at first then said that they had met a group of girls - where having the crack and that his number was given as a point of contact for them to all meet up the next night. ( i doubt this !)
He has said so many different stories. The best thing is he lied initially because he said he did not want to cause any problems but he only deleted her name in contacts and forgot about the dialled numbers.
My head is in bits as to me, to give a number out and take a number is out of order. He has promised that nothing at all has happened but because he told me lies and just dug and dug himself into a hole, i dont know what to believe. He doesnt know but i still have the number, Should i ring and ask her or should i just leave it be now.

2006-09-18 01:40:10 · 13 answers · asked by Top Cat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this guy a month ago, we had a blast and the sex was awsome. i think im developing feelings for him but its only been one month. i dont wana scare him away by letting my true feelings known but then again i dont wana endure all this pain on my own. wen we got togatha as shag partners we said we wont get caught up but clearly i was weaker than i thought. Guys wat do i do? Ladies gimme ya'lls opinion.

2006-09-18 01:40:07 · 11 answers · asked by memyselfandi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 01:39:40 · 6 answers · asked by SARA H 2 in Friends

my husband is always yelling at me for not having eough money. he is always trying to get me to do other things to mke more, he is a truck driver and when he is broke he yells at me for it! i am a house wife who works part time and cleans the house, everyting in it cause he does nothing, and i find it to hard to work full time and clean and lookk after my daughteras i have a few medical things wrong with me, low blood suger and such. he no's this and always yells at me that i need to make more money, our bills are paid all the time, and i pay half of them. This moring he woke me up with his yelling again. i am at my wits end and i am thinking about leaving him, also he has a 300 a month habit, that he says is ok cause he makes the money, am i wrong to be tired of this?

2006-09-18 01:39:29 · 25 answers · asked by trish p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 01:38:42 · 8 answers · asked by gen 2 in Friends

Can a man and a woman who have different perspectives on where life should go (where to live, what type of work to do, how to raise kids) stay together and make it? Will one of them ultimately have to sacrifice their dreams? Who should have to change their dreams--the man or the woman??
Any personal stories or examples are appreciated.

2006-09-18 01:38:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why or why not?

2006-09-18 01:38:06 · 11 answers · asked by Kanda 5 in Friends

I can't let it go. He left me - I didn't leave him. That's whats getting to me I think!

I can't believe he dumped me. I can't let it go. I want him to want me back again. I've been trying to get in contact for over a year now (feels like two years...). I can't move on with my life. Am I just a sad stalker or have others felt this way?

2006-09-18 01:37:58 · 28 answers · asked by Easy Rider 2 in Singles & Dating

im so alone in my life. everything is gone to me, money, fame, family. im all alone right now hopeless and no direction of life. i know i made a mistake from my past. im only thinking right now if i can still have a chance in life? as if god has already close his arm for me. im really so lonely. i want to end my life.

2006-09-18 01:37:57 · 6 answers · asked by crisanto_basco 1 in Family

In the grand scheme of things (ie; life as we know it), how important to do think relationships are?

And if you never found that special someone, would you have considered your life to be a waste, or could you be happy by yourself?

2006-09-18 01:37:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 01:37:39 · 4 answers · asked by Humbal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you make the decisions, look after the money etc?
If you do, how does it make you feel about your man? Are you happy or would you rather he make the decisions?

Thanx!

2006-09-18 01:37:16 · 22 answers · asked by kway_tzar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

*The boy's mother has had 2 of her 3 children taken from her for drug related and child endangernment problems

*The boy's father found out she is still legally married to someone in another state and is not separated or divorced

*He also found out she abuses medicine and has been to the hospital to have her stomach pumped 6 times since he has known her, even while she was pregnant

*The boy's father is doing well, and has taken the mother in because she has no place to go and she has slept in sheds w/ the newborn because she doesn't want the father to see the baby

*Because the boy's father is trying to persue another relationship with his ex (me) and is dedicated to his family, the mother doesn't like it and doesn't want him to see his son

*It's his first and only kid and he just wants to know the best way to get custody without taking all her rights away, but not letting her have the opportunity to try and take him away because he feels she is an un-fit mother

2006-09-18 01:35:30 · 2 answers · asked by Camille J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 01:35:23 · 19 answers · asked by Jinglin' Geordie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies...a few years ago my wife suggested that she wanted to know what it was like for a mn to shave in a certain area (you know where!). I told her that if she wanted me to do that, I would....and I did. She loved it!

Here I am a few years later and I am still shaving...and she still loves it. Has a man ever done this for you? Would you ask a man to do this for you?

Well, recently I have been thinking about tattooing that area right above my ______ ( you know the area! It is between the stomach and my ______). What would be a good tattoo to get in that area? What would you think if your man wanted this...for you? Let me know?

2006-09-18 01:35:11 · 16 answers · asked by Humbal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,
I've been with my current boyfriend for half a year. He's the first white guy I've dated (I'm Asian) so sometimes I don't understand certain things that he does.
I'm in my early 20s and he's in his 30s so we've quite different lifestyle - we seldom meet and talk - him always not available cos of supposingly work though I find it impossible for someone to be working 24/7. So is it just the culture/age difference or is he hiding something away from me? The thing is I told him at the beginning of our relationship I don't want to be too serious cos I don't have strong feeling about him then (didn't tell him that but obviously, things changed!). We've very happy when together and I know he doesn't do one night stands but not show about affair/fling though. He has tons of female friends so that's quite worrying. Sometimes he's so close to his female mates, that I can't help but think the other way.
So, how can I ask him if he's involved with another without being abrasive?

2006-09-18 01:34:57 · 23 answers · asked by astrologerz 1 in Singles & Dating

i have met a guy he is 12 i am 16 it is the same age gap as me and my ex boyfriend , when i first met him and started fanciing him i thought he was 17 because he looks ALOT older thn he is and acts it too, i really like this guy but i dont no if its wrong personally i dont think it is because im not going to have sex with him or anything else like tht i no he is too young for such comitments , i havnt mentiond this to him or anyone else
i really need you guys help becoz i would love to go out with him

2006-09-18 01:34:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy in my first second and third block nd he like me too?
but he has foot ball and our third block teacher gives us a c**p load of homework and he goes to church (which I find exremely sweet)
We flirt A LOT and EVERYONE can see it, and after he asked me for me s/n he asked me to go to the football game tomorrow and of course I said yeah eventhough I told my neighbor I wasn't going...so basically I'm only going for him.... should I ask him out or just wait for him to?


and I've waited about a month for anything to get started and nothing PLEASE HELP

2006-09-18 01:31:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They ignore all the evidence saying 9/11 was an inside job and are totally brainwashed? They refuse to even look at it. And even if they do look at it, they say its not true b/c they saw an article debunking 9/11 myths/

If i wrote an article debunking the earth is round article, will people believe that too.

I am beginign to think these people are brainwashed beyond recovery.

http://www.myspace.com/CONSPIRACYALERT

2006-09-18 01:29:44 · 15 answers · asked by Infowars.com 1 in Singles & Dating

I was looking through his wallet(which is wrong,I know) and found them. We are married a little over 2 years, I have a daughter from before(who adores him) and we have a 9 month old son together. He is very secretive(which is part cultural maybe-he's west indian I am caucasian american) and likes to "go out with his boys" anywhere from 2 -5 nights per week-he also has female friends I've never met, which he does not see as a problem.I DO see this as a problem. This relationship has become very hard to deal with-I love him, but I sure don't want to be played-He has refused to go to counseling together.He gets very angry when I try to talk to him. What should I do?

2006-09-18 01:29:27 · 33 answers · asked by hillarie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 01:27:50 · 5 answers · asked by sad f 1 in Singles & Dating

The urge is strong when your obsessed

2006-09-18 01:25:53 · 13 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 01:25:34 · 10 answers · asked by ALAN B 2 in Family

What did he say or do? Or was it you that asked him about it an.al stuff?

I would like to ask my girl about doing this. Could anyone help?

2006-09-18 01:25:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 01:24:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends