Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

I am a married man of 10 years and have three wonderful children. I love my wife very much but she has absolutely no libido what so ever. We have talked and talked about this issue all with no resolve. I am wondering if there is anyway out there for me to lower or totally eliminate my libido so I do not want "it" anymore. I believe this with this no longer an issue in my life and our marriage we will be much happier. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

2006-09-18 02:14:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Graveyard is Seaton Hirst and St John, Ashington, Northumberland. Wansbeck Council website have no mention of contacts.

2006-09-18 02:14:06 · 6 answers · asked by Sue a 1 in Family

I've been seeing this guy for a couple months now, I know how we all hate to read long questions so I'll try to keep it short. We had everything in common, I had feelings for him that I never had before for someone. We went to his dorm and I saw a note on the fridge that said "I love Chris" (that's his name) and it wasn't from me. Now I feel like trust is shot. He says it was a joke left from someone that goes there for his other roomate, and it happened while he was at class. He poured his feelings out to me that he wouldn't do anything to jeopordize what we have. I have trust problems, because of things that have happened in my past with other guys. Should I believe him and take a chance at trusting him or should I just call it quits?

2006-09-18 02:13:50 · 18 answers · asked by Goodbye 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 02:11:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and i asked him to come to my volleyball game, what do i do now, how should i act at the game? TIA

2006-09-18 02:11:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know what it is but my fiance and I get into arguments so much lately I don't think I can do it anymore. I am happy at times but I guess the problem is that I can't tolerate him any longer. When we get in to arguments he makes me so mad I just want to kill hime literally, he doesn't know he's pushing me out the door and I am developing a disguise for him. I really am pushing to keep it together though for my daughter's sake and because I don't want to let him down as well. I am tired now and I feel like I have given it my all, I would pay good money to be drama free! I have tried talking to him sensibly, tried bringing in my mother to hear both sides (because she's not bias), and even suggest couseling. I have basically lost my attraction to him, I guess I love him and respect the fact that he is the father of my child and has great qualities but my gut feeling says he not the man for me!! What do I do?

2006-09-18 02:10:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 02:10:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-18 02:08:48 · 10 answers · asked by hemant v 1 in Friends

My brother in-law is getting married (wife's brother..) and me, my wife and our 3 children (age 16, 14, and 11) are invited...what is an appropriate wedding gift?? Thank you for all serious answers.....

2006-09-18 02:08:16 · 22 answers · asked by dogs4kcjj 2 in Weddings

2006-09-18 02:07:40 · 14 answers · asked by berkut 2 in Family

my life is being a nightmare and people are makin lies about me and people r lyin 2 me

2006-09-18 02:07:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

family members but not of the same generation as u i.e. ur brother, sister or cousin but with sum1 a generation older or 2 generations older like aunty, uncle, grandad, grandma etc. what are the consequences. u both disagreed totally and had kind of a verbal attack on each other. what happens now? any1 had any1 of these?

2006-09-18 02:07:13 · 14 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family

my life is being a nightmare and people are makin lies about me and people r lyin 2 me

2006-09-18 02:07:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Want could stop me from falling or becoming a 'wuss' in a sense to a women like what happen with my ex, but i'm now with a new pantner and going ok but just wondering. 19 years of age by the way, ex was 21 new girl is 18 so would age be of some reason why it was hard with the last girl?

2006-09-18 02:06:13 · 6 answers · asked by Doug 1 in Singles & Dating

has a big lipstick kiss, smells of her perfume, and is sighned I Love You and Miss you very much. She moved out of state 3 months before his birthday, yet the card had no addresses on it and no postage.I found this card by accident. After many months of them swearing that nothing was going on I felt like a fool, only to find just recently her current phone #. Yes I called it. She has been gone for a little over a year.(?) He tells me I thought it was a joke about the card and he had absolutley no answer for the phone #. What do think? Men please lets
get some real answers here.

2006-09-18 02:06:13 · 3 answers · asked by quite contrary 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do you have on your desk at work and why?

2006-09-18 02:01:20 · 27 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Family

Around the Horn, people thought it was me and I was embarrassed. Since then I got him fired, but now whenever I walk anywhere peoplke make fake fart sounds around me to tease me. I am going to cry, help?

2006-09-18 01:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-18 01:58:17 · 32 answers · asked by Doug 1 in Singles & Dating

If a woman hits a man (and he has witnesses), should he call the cops to get her put in jail? Why or why not? This is just a hypothetical situation.

2006-09-18 01:58:00 · 26 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 01:57:34 · 15 answers · asked by Tyler 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 28. never have had any serious relationship. had some crush-ons but never paid any heed to those. now i have started feeling lonely since last few months ... but i am not sure if i am ready to start a committed relationship. at times i feel this loneliness is nothing but my sexual abstination and so i am planning to hire some call girls

2006-09-18 01:54:18 · 9 answers · asked by nita_desai 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 01:53:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know I have

2006-09-18 01:52:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love a girl seriously but she loves some1 else .the guy whom she loves has ditched her than also she loves her .she knows tht he is not a good guy for her but than also ….
I have proposed her but she said that we r just friends n she loves that guy.although the guy ditched her than also she loves her …strange I m not able to understand her mentality …. Is she giving a excuse to say no to me plz help me n also tell tht how I can make place in her heart, how should I can I convince her that I love her crazily .plz help me

2006-09-18 01:52:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, I know anyone that reads this is going to tell me
to get over it, but it isnt that easy. It truly bothers me and
being the way that I am everybody knows it.
My husbands sister use to dog my husbands ex to me
when my husband and I first started dating, but after
we were married and a few years went by the sister and
his ex became friends again. I voiced my opionion to his
sister and her way of handeling it was to not invite us to
her kids parties anymore and invites his ex. This pass weekend was her baby shower that I didnt even know about
and found out from another family member that not only
was I not invited his ex was. My husband tells me that it is
not worth the time to even get mad at. He is not very close
to his family. I am very close to my own though and it saddens me that I'm excluded from some family events because his sister has chosen his ex's friendship over me.
FYI - they have no kids together/ I told her that I felt uncomforable around an ex.

2006-09-18 01:51:43 · 12 answers · asked by jen 1 in Family

Lately I've met people on line who are into it. Do you like it, think its cool, weird?

2006-09-18 01:48:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got a copy editor fired by adding an insult about myself (Jay Mariotti is a ****) right after he edited it and I showed the boss and he fired him for trying to defame me. I hated that guy and will never tell my boss the truth. Now all the lower level guys call me Gay Mariotti and the even got Ozzie Guillen into it, he called me a ****** ****. What do I do?

http://www.jaythejoke.com/blog.html

I realize spelling mistakes. They are intended to avoid bleeping.

2006-09-18 01:47:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-18 01:46:20 · 45 answers · asked by Leah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really liked him, we had a great time together, hed take me out all the time etc when he visited... but then hardly ever heard from him when he went home.. then he emailed me saying we wernt seeing each other.. that really hurt me...
i have just told him im happy to see him again but i wont sleep with him as im worth more than that, and now am feeling bit sad.. i really liked him and could imagine him being the father of my children...

2006-09-18 01:45:58 · 30 answers · asked by meow22 4 in Singles & Dating

Lets say you are walking down the road.. looking at an unknown gal for the first time. what is the first thing that you are most likely to notice ?
Do you look at her face, eyes etc or notice a good figure ? Or may be her make up or her dress ?

2006-09-18 01:44:56 · 27 answers · asked by Sweety 2 in Singles & Dating