I like this guy and i asked him to come to my volleyball game, what do i do now, how should i act at the game? TIA
2006-09-18 02:11:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know i should be myself, but when i go to talk to him after the game, what should i talk about?
2006-09-18 02:16:01 · update #1
First of all, be yourself - don't put on an act of being someone that isn't you, because you want the guy to like you for who you really are.
That being said, *do* be out going and friendly toward him. If you aren't gregarious by nature, then just be as friendly as possible. Remember, chances are you are the only reason, or at least, the primary reason, he is showing up to this game at all, so you want to make sure he isn't bored or distracted. If you get a chance to talk to him before the game, make sure you do so, and thank him for coming. If time allows, make sure to point out any little things that might be good for him to know that he might not be aware of: locations of where he can get food & drink, restrooms, the rules of the game... whatever applies. Take opportunities to talk to him between games or whenever you can... make sure you come off as an attentive host as much as possible. If you can't talk to him during the game at all, wave and smile at him a few times. Remember that this is a great opportunity for you to make a good impression on him; even if you can't talk to him that much because of the game, the attention you show him is going to be remembered. Good luck!
2006-09-18 02:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be yourself and be there for your team. How and why would you act differently? If the boy comes to the game it's because he likes you the way you are. Please don't get into the habit of acting a certain way that is not really you just for a boy.
How about thanking him for coming to the game?
2006-09-18 09:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, be yourself! There isnt any way to be but yourself. If he likes you now and hes interested, there is nothing more to do then to just be who you are and let him see how you act and decide if he likes you or not. If he doesnt, it wasnt meant to be and its his loss. Dont try too hard because it will show up like you are desperate. And dont go crazy trying to dress up all " scantilly " either. As much as guys like that, guys can appreciate a girl who is also not a bragger, or a show off and is happy in their own skin.
2006-09-18 09:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by Uncertainty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act at the game like you are yourself. Don't put on any different attitude because if he likes you for who you are, that's great but if you act differently and he likes that...then you'll always be acting! Just be yourself.
2006-09-18 09:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure go act at the game or before or after.
2006-09-18 09:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find him in the crowd and maybe once durring the game if the ball is not in play smile at him but he will understand your in a game just win and if he is understanding he knows how it goes .he'll enjoy watching as i see people in the game i know and there for them we visit afterward about the plays ect.
2006-09-18 09:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by terri e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Act like always. Be yourself. If you behave differently, it's just the same as lying.
2006-09-18 09:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by auld mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself have fun and enjoy the day but dont ignore him otherwise you will chase him away just have a blast and good luck with it.
2006-09-18 09:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be you sweetheart... good move in asking him to come and watch your game.
just act normal and maybe tell him that you like him... if you're ready to...
good luck x x
2006-09-18 09:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by lymphaticgothicvamp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him till the end of the game.
2006-09-18 09:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋