2006-09-18 02:10:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sounds more like a parenting issue - she more than likely has a great time at school when she finally gets there... but to prove her point at home, she'll refuse to do homework. And really how much homework is a 6 year old given these days?? if she lives with you and is under your care.. you should prehaps step in and try to find out what's motivating her behavior.
2006-09-18 02:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by tampico 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its a separation anxiety thing, not wanting to get on the bus, leaving from home in the morning or she's worried something might not be the same when she gets home (is someone ill in the family?). But it could also be something that is at school that bothers her...my son always said the same thing at that age but come to find out he has ADHD, and was really struggling to keep up with the other kids and still struggles but at least now he's getting the right help and the right medication, and getting the extra help at school. Could she be dyslexic? Hearing loss? Eyesight? Or any learning disorders that no one knows about yet? It could be one of many things, but definately don't give up and ask the school for help or her doctors. Once you can narrow it down, you'll see a changed little girl. Does she have a hard time reading? Ask about Title 1, if so..the teachers will be able to help. Could you read with her, or have her read to you each day or night? Maybe she doesn't like reading out loud in front of class. Practice with her.
These are are a few suggestions, and/or questions that you could ask about to get on the right track. Also, if she never went to preschool, her self esteem might need working on. She might feel unadequate compared to the other children as far as academically, socially or even physically. Get to know other parents, maybe she needs a playmate from her class to boost her morale. Make a playdate for an afternoon after school or weekend.
I hope you and your grand daughter succeed in your mission of finding out what troubles her. Good Luck!
2006-09-18 02:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by sunnyrays61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter started preschool at age 3. She went to pre-k for two years then started kindergarten. She cried so much getting on the bus. I literally had to push her onto the bus every morning! It was very hard for me. All I can tell you is be patient! She will grow out of it, but it may take a while. When she gets home ask her to talk about her day as much as she can, that will make her excited about going back. Maybe you could also ask her to try and make grandma a picture the next day, then maybe she will look forward to it. Hope it works. What about driving her , has she made friends on the bus yet? That might help. Good Luck
2006-09-18 02:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could try the big girls go to school and learn so they can be big smart girls type of thing. Or you could drive her to school or get on the bus with her maybe.
I think if she made some friends at school that would change. She just starting out, maybe just having a sit down with her and explaning why going to school is importent will help. 6 year olds are alot smarter then most ppl think. So its worth a shoot.
(I am not a mother or gandma. But thats what I would do if I was.)
2006-09-18 02:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sekkennight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so common. Children go through seperation anxiety when going to school for the first time. Everything is new to them, and it takes some time to adjust. Be persistant! Do not allow her to stay home. Focus on the positive and reward her GOOD behavior. When she begins to throw a fit about going to school, make it clear that staying home is not an option, and walk away-DO NOT argue with her. Reassure her that you will be there when she gets home, tell her you love her, and then put her on the bus!! This behavior will pass as the year progresses. Good Luck!!
2006-09-18 02:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is a spoiled child, where did she get the idea that she had a choice in the matter? Get that idea out of her head and on the bus. She should not be allowed to do anything until homework is done, that includes snacks! The adults need to get control of this child NOW!
2006-09-18 02:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit her down and have a talk with her. But don't make it a big deal because if you do, then she'll continue to beleive that it is a big deal. So just have a little comforting talk, tell her you'll see her after school, and throw her on the bus.
2006-09-18 02:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by happyfarah88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she hates it. Is it relating to other kids, or the whole discipline thing of having to learn? Making it fun is key - my daughter is 6 and we have rewards when she makes it thru the week with no bad remarks. A special ice cream trip and/or allowance as a reward.
2006-09-18 02:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-18 02:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by membersflashmob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important for the child to see that the importance of schooling. get the school's help. sit in with her. get her used to school & homework. children need a lot of assurance & security
2006-09-18 02:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by dark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋