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2006-09-18 01:46:20 · 45 answers · asked by Leah 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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not spendind time with you, going out all the time,making himself look and smell better,not wanting sex with you,staying up late when you have gone to bed, phone rings and noone is there,texing all the time and delets the sent and received messages, goes out of room when speaking on phone etc etc.......

2006-09-18 07:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

As well as the obvious signs that he's taking more care in his appearance and the smell of different perfume on his clothes, he is more likely to be vague about his business plans and may change the times he works.

He will also be distant and either try to have sex with his wife more often or avoid it without giving a logical reason.

He might suddenly take an interest in something like golf or a college course which would mean him spending more time out of the house too.

2006-09-18 02:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0 0

It can go both ways. There might be signs and there might not be. Not picking up the phone calls like he use to if he always did before. Going out more often with his "friends" or having to do errands for family more than usual. The affection/sex has died out a bit. If you nag at him over something small, he wants to break up with you right away. If you have suspicions anyway, most likely he is cheating. There may be many signs. A woman's intuition is almost always right. If you have a feeling, he probably is. I have never trusted my gut until recently when it turned out to be right!

2006-09-18 02:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by SxyPR 3 · 0 0

A change in his personality does his body come in the door but brain and thought does not?
A change of appearance has he changed the way he looks IE; taking more care than usual or changing appearance.
A change in eating pattern now want to diet.
showed an interest in going to the gym.
Spending more time out than in.
Keeping mobile phone switched OFF around you.
Hiding mobile phone bill.
Having either two mobiles or two Sim cards.
No sex or loosing interest in sex he has the headache!
Loosing interest in the family if there is one.
Spending more time on the computer after you go to bed.
Having missed calls to your home and many of them (other women checking up).
Letting you say what you want and do what you want when before showed some concern.
readily agrees to things he once did not (his guilt covering)
The list is endless and the only one way to ask is to take a step back, take emotional head off and observe. If you have noticed and have proof confront with the facts and ask out right.

2006-09-18 03:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by momof3 7 · 0 0

The biggest tell sign is if he gets very yellous of you looking at some other man, meaning, a cheater knows a cheater, if you cheat you get yellous if someone else cheats. And you dont want to be the one who is cheated on. so you cheat first, ie. by being yellous. i think

2006-09-18 03:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

See "Tell-tale signs of a Cheating Spouse" at the following site: www.pimall.com/nais/n.spouse.html for a great list.

In my case, he was home less often, less interested in the bedroom (early in the affair he was MORE attentive, then there was a sudden decline), more critical, more suspicious of ME cheating, etc. There are a lot of sites on this. I saw an Operal show on the signs and my husband had every one. One night I came home and he was with her on our own couch with our baby son in his walker. Gross. I left and never looked back. He married her. I wish you the best and hope all your fears are greatly unfounded. Otherwise, get a great lawyer, secure temporary custody of the kids, clear out half the bank account and scram.

2006-09-18 01:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 2 0

dear, the most of a relationship is to have trust on one's partner, without that the foundation will be lost and u may experience more hurts and pain later. i would suggest u will keep yourself cool and not confront him immediately. from tell tale signs such as if he is still affectionate to u or not u can roughly get a hint or two. sometimes it may be because of problem at work, family he might neglect u. meanwhile take a good look at your relationship and determine if he is a good partner. if he is your spouse, forgive and love him as divorce is not an option. will pray 4u.

2006-09-18 02:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well there are many, one is if he goes outside to use his cellphone when ur around, he is always gone and when u call him on his cell phone he does not answer, or look for numbers in his cell phone but it might be locked and have a pass code because he doesn't want u to look in it. and like i tell anyone one who ask me this question pray and ask god to show you what is going on and is he cheating and he will show u. i have done this and i found out the truth i have told my cousin to do this and she found that he was cheating the very next day.

2006-09-18 02:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by prettyerinpink 2 · 0 0

Look for clues such as him owning things you never bought him, that you know he wouldn't buy for himself, such as a new tie or some cologne that you don't recognize.
Check his receipts, see if he has been footing the bill for any expensive restaurants that you know he didn't take you to.
If he says he has been working late, and you find receipts for those times and dates, be cautious.
If he seems to want to explain his day to you, when he never had a reason to before... its likely that hes trying to cover up for something.
Mostly, just look for weird behavior...
Here is a more detailed list of those behaviors.
http://love.ivillage.com/lnsproblems/lnscheating/0,,nt4p,00.html

2006-09-18 01:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Elkie 2 · 0 0

Well, when a man cheats, you can feel it, he doesn't look at you the same. When you talk with each other you'll notice little small lies, white lies...he'll lie when he doesn't even need to. If he cheats, your instinct will let you know

2006-09-18 02:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by mary H 1 · 0 0

on the phone he would be doing more of listening than talking.He would be looking at you but not actually listening.Before actually cheating usually there would be a lot of fights.And they stop all of a sudden.he bocomes quite and stays in his own world.When he has cheated you enough then the final sign is he, would be good with you.

2006-09-18 01:59:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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