i met this guy a month ago, we had a blast and the sex was awsome. i think im developing feelings for him but its only been one month. i dont wana scare him away by letting my true feelings known but then again i dont wana endure all this pain on my own. wen we got togatha as shag partners we said we wont get caught up but clearly i was weaker than i thought. Guys wat do i do? Ladies gimme ya'lls opinion.
2006-09-18 01:40:07 · 11 answers · asked by memyselfandi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd tell him that whoa, things were going farther than I intended. That I was starting to have some feelings for him, and that I could see things going beyond just f*kbuddies. Tell him you think either (1) you should stop seeing each other, since it wasn't going to be like that or (2) you'd like to open the possibility of having a real relationship.
As for is it love or is it infatuation, after a month, even though it feels soooo strong, it's infatuation. Falling in LOVE is what happens when you've known a person for a long time and you think they're the coolest person who ever walked the planet. Even though you've known this person for a long time, that feeling hasn't changed, or faded. You know how he will act and react in almost every situation, and you like the ways he will act. You know you can depend on him to treat you the way you want to be treated. You are interested to treat him the way he wants to be treated. You are more interested in his happiness than yours, AND he is more interested in yours than his. You know, that no matter what happens, he has your back, and you have his. THAT's love. Wait for it.
2006-09-18 02:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by J_Solo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be experiencing infatuation is something great .. it can be the great beginning of a great love .. I hope you'll enjoy this experience as it is possible .. but don't loose any available chance for doing your best to know him and let him know you well .. I believe that love is based on such an infatuation , but love needs deep knowledge in order to be alive , and to have the chance of continuing....
good luck .
2006-09-18 09:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by horras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel and i been wounded so many times since last dec when i thought i meet the right gal but it's all false alarm. pls focus your life with your life priorities and meanwhile keep this guy as a friend, don't commit yourself too fast into a relationship but slowly see if he fit your desire as a good partner.
2006-09-18 09:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not let your feelings be known to him right now. you need to feel him out and see were he might see things between the two of you going. let him make the first move, i know that will be kind of hard but you dont want to put your feelings out there ans end up getting hurt by him. that would be much worst than what you are feeling right now.
2006-09-18 09:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by ms1choc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love with him, you only love sex with him!
Be frank with yourself. You would be in love if you:
1. Are prepared to give up what you love most for him
2. Know all his weaknesses and are prepared to accept them.
3. Would sacrifice your freedom for him
4. Will carry and give birth to his children
5. Give up all other b/g relationships with others
Are you in love with him?
2006-09-18 09:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may just really really like this guy. love is something usually when you've been together a little longer. however, there are many types of love...but I personally think you're just infatuated and really really like him
2006-09-18 08:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's infatuation and hormones!!! Give it time before you call it love. Good luck
2006-09-18 08:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
solely There is no time table when it comes to falling in love, but I can tell you, if your feelings are based solely upon sex then it is only infatuation.
2006-09-18 08:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible love at first sight. It could be the sex. Give it time.
2006-09-18 08:43:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him you love him that early
2006-09-18 08:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋