Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

In love with my wife's cousin, me facing divorce suite after 10 yrs of marriage, hav kids, she is separated too has one kid. Cant leave her, she is the meaning of my life now. How can I solve this problem? My estranged wife using all her might to harrass me n her.

2006-09-18 06:52:36 · 14 answers · asked by fantasyland 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It's too long of a story to get into, but I have a former friend who I still care about. I helped raise her daughter and now that "our" daughter is about to have a baby, my friend has decided to "sever" all ties with me. What did I do and what can I do to get through to my friend?

2006-09-18 06:52:18 · 6 answers · asked by Starla_C 7 in Friends

I understand that I will never fully get over him but is there any ways to help me move on with my life? If so...PLEASE HELP

2006-09-18 06:51:54 · 14 answers · asked by stacey_marie_08 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-18 06:51:50 · 10 answers · asked by big pappy 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, last week I was talking on the phone when my bf pulled up. Later he asked who I was talking to and I lied about who I was talking to. I was talking to my childrens father and said I was talking to my cousin. The issue is in me lying, not who I was talking to. He confronted me cause he found out I was lying. I lied cause I don't know how he feels about me talking to him (serious drama in the past). Anyway, he broke up w/ me. After one year it's come down to this. I need this man in my life. We were going to get married! What can I do to gain some trust back and get us back together??? He came over last night and talked to my sister about us, but was mostly saying I was a liar. HELP!!!!

2006-09-18 06:51:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had some wicked sofa sex this weekend. Does anyone else love bangin on the sofa?

2006-09-18 06:50:52 · 29 answers · asked by youngfinedudmomo 1 in Singles & Dating

I am tired, what's a woman supposed to do? I get up go to work, come home and go jogging, cook dinner, clean the house, take care of my daughter, wash clothes constantly pick up behind "Other People". I am just fed up. I don't want to do it anymore. What's a good woman? Why are so many women giving up so easily? Here's why, I am sick of his *** coming home getting on the ******* computer while I cook dinner, watch my daughter and referee his children who's momma don't want to raise them. I am tired of not having a break from them always sitting around making noise, begging for something, hogging the computer and television, and not picking up behind themselves (they don't even have chores 7&11 years old)! I am tired of having sex that is boring, the usual oral sex then intercourse (no orgasm intercourse wise) and then the roll over and go to sleep thing! I am ******* sick of the financial strain and the arguments that follow from all of these things. I have had enough, enough, enough! I want my own damn place away from "HIS" children, where he can come home and "Cook", and "Clean" up after them, and put up with their annoying asses! I want my own place so if we get in an argument there isn't the quote "This house **** thrown up". I want him to buy all the stuff for the house that I do, plus clothing for the children and him how he can (his paycheck is just covering the living expenses). Why do I stay because I love him but I am not too sure I am in love with him? What will be the determining factor? When I save and I am fully capable of being independent of him he'll definitely be a wreck or at least I hope so. He expects so much from me but when will he see that I can do better than him that sometimes he doesn't need to press that button to get me upset because I am one foot out the door, and that he's not all that he thinks he is (when your not great or good you need to remain humble a bit)! I need peace of mind and how will I get it in the type of situation if it is obtainable I don't know!!! Pray for me!!

2006-09-18 06:50:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 06:50:36 · 11 answers · asked by James B 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my boyfriend since i was 15, iam 21? When we had sex for the 1st time i didnt bleed as he was expecting to happened. he didnt say anything. now that we are together he keeps asking me who was my 1st one?

i never had sex, i was one of those stupi girl, always studying. i only played around with guys, but that's it. he doesn't believe me and i dont know what to do?


i will have to runaway with my kids if he doesnt believe me. i am tired of all of this. every day is the same thing.







ps- while going out i invited this guy to my house but ended up playing around, and he thinks we did something and we didnt. help please

2006-09-18 06:50:34 · 12 answers · asked by tus_ojos_tristes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I read an article that says that the latest research shows that joint custody is bad for kids. Each former spouse has a home. The kids do not. They are like constant visitors from one place to the next, not having a real home and not knowing whether his/her baseball glove or doll is at mom's or dad's. What do you think?

2006-09-18 06:48:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 06:48:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

woman to get child support after many years has gone by....i personally think its messed up but women do it all the time

2006-09-18 06:48:10 · 14 answers · asked by Cassie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-18 06:48:03 · 4 answers · asked by LAURA I 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have decided to get married. He is Catholic and I am Lutheran. I do not agree with the Catholic church at all. He wants to have at least a Catholic blessing. I am a little nervous about doing anything Catholic because I have read about "having to promise to raise all children Catholic" and I don't want to do that. We went to talk with the Pastor at my Lutheran church and he said something about going somewhere in the middle.. he mentioned the Episcopal church. I was wondering about that church/religion. And also, can a blessing be done BEFORE a wedding? I told my boyfriend that I would do the blessing before a real wedding and then we can look into other churches later. (Non-denominational, etc..)

Does anybody have any thoughts or ideas? Thanks. (I am 32 and my boyfriend is 31. We have been together for 9 years. We don't have any children now).

2006-09-18 06:48:03 · 17 answers · asked by TimminsGirl1965 2 in Weddings

I'm in the good 'ol US of A...Cali Baby!!! The OC to be exact! WooHoo!

2006-09-18 06:47:42 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it stupid to try to think about what a guy is feeling about you?does everyone do it or is it just me i always try to wonder does he like me this does he not like me,it is driving me crazy any suggestions on how to deal with this ?is it always obvious when a guy like u or not?how do u deal with rejection ?

2006-09-18 06:47:36 · 7 answers · asked by ocean currants 2 in Singles & Dating

Curiousity question. Loads of bizarre things on here. Keeps me amused for hours. lol

2006-09-18 06:47:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and if yes what makes u different for the next man or woman

2006-09-18 06:47:09 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had a host of advance'es from the girl's / young women at the college where I go to school is this normal now day's or are they playing around or what? and, Would it be wrong to accept their advances'es ??.They are anywhere from 19 to 26 years old ;But most are around 23.. Ohh and I am a 46/male..

2006-09-18 06:46:02 · 12 answers · asked by automan_2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this chinese guy in my office that orders chinese food every day so today after he made the order for shrimp fried rice, i called the restaurant again and changed his order to vegetable fried rice extra hot and spicy without him knowing. hahaha when he got the food and opened it up and said, "where wis my swimp", i covered my mouth to stop laughing, muahahahahaha.

2006-09-18 06:45:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean what s the first thing to know that I would have pregnant?

2006-09-18 06:45:02 · 16 answers · asked by Panda 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter's dad is my ex-fiance. We were together for 6 years, broke up for 7 and somehow found our way back to each other. The day before I found out I was pregant he moved a couple hours away. He was my first love and I haven't had serious relationships since him. I told himhe was a daddy and didn't hear from him until I was 8 months pregnant. He said he wanted to be around. Sweet. He called when she was a week old an nothing til she was 4 months old, and nothing again til 6 months. Well he's seen her, and everytime he asks if I'll move over there to make things easier on him. He's even asked me to tell the child support people that I really don't know who the dad is and he promises to give me money. Anyway, my question is should I keep taking her to him, and trying to make it easier on him or should I just not do anything anymore and let him buck up. I know how he is and if he feels backed into a corner he'll react. I don't want it to cause my daughter pain. Help!

2006-09-18 06:44:51 · 7 answers · asked by wonderwoman41477 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-18 06:44:49 · 14 answers · asked by thor 2 in Singles & Dating

so theres this girl that was a loser last year, and this year shes like popular, and she hangs out with my crush alot so i asked her if she liked him and she was like 'no hes just soooo much fun to hang out with, hes the coolest guy,i was just talking to him" and like im jelous! i DONT want them to go out and i really hate this girl...wat can i do to like bring her down or something or how can i make this guy like me?!

2006-09-18 06:44:14 · 24 answers · asked by Dana 2 in Friends

2006-09-18 06:44:09 · 16 answers · asked by jen 1 in Family

I am in love with a totally beautiful woman. She is super hot, a head turner, and is madly in love with me I'm pretty confident. Problem is that she wants more sex than I can give her. And she wants it at hours that intetrfere with my work.
She is artist and sleeps till noon - 3pm whatever time she wants. I work a job and must be there by 8am. She will keep me up until 1:30 am - 2:30am or later 3 or 4 nights a week in bed and I am physically exhausted and my work is suffering. She needs intercourse every single night, I love sex with her and am way into it, but there have been times I am simply not able to perform, I explain that its normal for a man to need a break once in a while and she gets terribly upset and insists that if I were turned on by her i would never ever have a problem like that.
I know that this seems like an insane thing to have an issue with (hot chick loves sex every single night and twice most nights) but we have been together 9 months now - Help! Advice

2006-09-18 06:44:00 · 20 answers · asked by hipmc 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-18 06:43:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok!!! i play volley ball and one day we had a game so we have to get up early to practice well after the game i was so hungrey because i didn't eat all day and as i was stuffing my face my crush walked by and said can you get any more food in your mouth. so the nexted day he woulden't stop saying things about that so i turned around and walked up to him and punched him right in the face. should i have done that?

2006-09-18 06:41:34 · 28 answers · asked by punk_skull 1 in Singles & Dating

alright im wit dis gurl for 2 years right. and i work six days aweek about 9 to 11 hours a day. she works 4 days aweek n goes to school 2 days she works 10:30 to 5. n on the two day she at school she goes 10:30 to 3. you no i understan its hard on her but when ever i got time off wit her i want to do something wit her and she never wants to do anything..she says she not feelin good. then when im at work she is always doin something wit her sister like goin to the mall or goin out to eat ect...and also i always want to have sex so ill ask her almost everyday n she never wants to do it so i get really made at her sometimes we will go for like 3 weeks wit out doin anything. PLeeeeez help

2006-09-18 06:41:31 · 18 answers · asked by jerzabest 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what is the minimum age you would get married at and why ?

2006-09-18 06:41:29 · 27 answers · asked by sensual 3 in Weddings