is it stupid to try to think about what a guy is feeling about you?does everyone do it or is it just me i always try to wonder does he like me this does he not like me,it is driving me crazy any suggestions on how to deal with this ?is it always obvious when a guy like u or not?how do u deal with rejection ?
2006-09-18 06:47:36 · 7 answers · asked by ocean currants 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This seems to be a very common thing that females do......I dont really know how to cure it..dont think you can..its not always obvious to tell if a guy likes you and dealing with rejection is hard..for everyone.
2006-09-18 06:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find out is to be blunt and to the point. 'ive been thinking, are you intreseted in me?' A guy likes to play on a situtation, much like girls do, you know u have someone hooked, lets see how far i can take um before i ask um out. If a guy is genuinely intrested in you he'll act a certain way round out. Like girls play with their hair, bite their bottom lip, and guy will give lots of nice compliments to you, try and impress you with his events of his day. Just look for signs that come across as 'i like you'!
As for rejection. Dont fret about that! As they say there are pleanty more fish in the sea! Guys will come and go! The best thing you can do is play real hard to get, that way you get the upper hand, and guys kinda like that! Hope this helps, Adam
2006-09-18 13:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by ADAM M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not always be able to tell if a guy likes you because the same way your hiding your like for him, he could be hiding his like for you. Its obvious when you at least go up to someone and introduce yourself and get estalished in their realm. You deal with rejection when you realize that just because you feel a certain way about someone they may not feel the same for you AND have no interest in you whatsoever. You just have to BUCK UP!
2006-09-18 13:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, it isn't stupid that is how we do it we must really like them if we spend that much time on wondering and day dreaming.... If he does like you, you will know in time don't rush it though...Good Luck!!!
2006-09-18 13:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the way I look at it....there's plenty more where he came from so why waste my time on worry about trivil things like does he like me. he doesn't like you and your personality go get one that does.....*shrug* too many men out there to worry about one.
2006-09-18 13:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are smart and funny and nice, you won't have to wonder. Everybody will like you.
2006-09-18 13:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by kostasmist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
2006-09-18 13:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋