So I have a friend, met on holiday, kept in touch everyday via email,text, phonecalls, so there is a lot of contact their. Ended up sleeping together (he has a girlfriend but please just put that aside for a moment - and im sure there are lots of people who have been in the same situation, so please dont give me grief, im hurting as it is). He said he guessed there were some feelings there but he needs to spend more time face to face with someone to properly fall for someone and he wont let himself get in that position. He is now saying that we will only ever be friends. I think in all honestly he is fighting his feelings because a) hes in a relationship with a girl who he has known for years, b) its safe and c) why fix something that isnt broken. I believe things happen for a reason, and if you want something that bad you should go for it as life is too short. Shall I keep trying or give up?
2006-09-17
20:21:44
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