I only have one true friend but I have recently moved and talk to her ocasionally. I don't know whats wrong with me I do make small talk with others but I just don't have what it take to be friendship material. I don't know if Im saying something wrong or what turns them off . Maybe it's my apperance I am homely looking I guess ,I don't where the lasted fashion trends or have the latest hairdo get manicures and pedicures biweekly.Do people notice that and get turned off. I have been depressed maybe people can see right through me and are afraid of me some how.
2006-09-17 20:31:58 · 8 answers · asked by coco1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People are attracted to people who shine with love, confindence, and a bright smile.......love yourself and people will want to be around you.....give your love and attention to Jesus, he will guide you to some people who either need your love or vice versa. There are people out there, just change your reality with your thoughts of postive friendships flowing to you. You might do well to spruce up your looks because it seem that you don't seem to reach your own standards and that will affect how you feel about yourself making you seem depressed. Treat yourself to a make-over and a little shopping spree if you can afford it,....there are so many cute clothes out there in the world,...you deserve it so why not try it and see how you feel. What do you have to loose? God bless and good luck
2006-09-17 20:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I know just where you're coming from. I often feel the same way. Like I somehow just don't fit in. I think it comes from a very low self esteem. We tend to think of ourselves as " not like them". I have alot of acquaintances but very few real friends. Every time someone comes to see me they want something. When I go to see someone I want nothing except to visit. To say hi and find out how they're doing. Nothing more. When someone finds out that I don't have what they want, they leave right away. It used to really bother me. But I've learned to get along just fine all by myself. It gets lonely at times. But atleast I don't have to put up with someone elses bull crap. Ya know what I mean? I don't know what this has to do with your situation but atleast I got to vent. Thanks. Hey you can always come and hangout with me? Homely or not.{:')
2006-09-18 03:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by Justa_Honay_Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too im facing the same problem especially when i left my highschool and went to another high school this year,i dont know any1 there no one knows me im so bored and im really so depressed but i go out with my only true friend from my preious high school but he is not with me all the time so i really need an online friend to talk with and share our problems..do u accept to be my friend????if yes then add me now plz:se7s23@yahoo.com or se7s23@hotmail.com
2006-09-18 04:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Hussein A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out alone is boring.There should be someone accompanying you.But it doeasnt mean that youre all alone,you can meet somebody at your road or elsewhere.
Just be true to yourself and be what you are.We're here to be your new friend.
2006-09-18 03:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by dann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey pick your head up life is O.K. None of my friends live close to me, but I don't let that stop me from going out and having a good time.
2006-09-18 03:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were born by yourself so you can live by yourself...it wont be for the rest of your life. "roll solo" that's my motto. " i do my dirt all on my lonely so nobody tellin on me." :) don't be depressed, it will pass...the people that judge you by the way you look don't deserve you as a friend.
2006-09-18 03:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey..im sure u'll find one...this is one big world. Try being more social else u can get try to find one oneline ..
2006-09-18 03:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by big b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Wear clothes you see people wear on television...but not from VH1.
-Nayr Nedah
2006-09-18 03:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by mycarpultunnel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋