I've always weighed 110 pounds but over the last 4 years I gained 14 pounds. I'm still fit and can go on a treadmill for 1hour non-stop. The last guy I dated reckoned me fat and dumped me. Yours thoughts on this please
2006-09-17 20:15:25 · 27 answers · asked by brown_sugah064 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im gonna have to say that 124 is no where near fat so the guy in question was he really skinny
2006-09-17 20:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Demion V 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so...since you are not tell us about your height! I can not calculate your BMI. But look like you are healthy since you can do the treadmill for 1 hour non-stop. Probably doing sit-up 50 times in the morning and 50 times in the evening will be helping you to gain more firm body. Try to eat more salad. You can be Miss Universe and all guys will be chasing you forever. Good Luck.
2006-09-18 03:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by pimpa1949 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, you are not fat. I personally like bigger women, but even guys who like skinny girls are not afraid to have sex with a woman who is 125-140 pounds.
It's not your weight, it's how you carry it. My ex was actually 250 pounds, but she had a large bust and a very nice, round, tight pair of buns. You see the number 250 and you immediately think "that's fat", but you had to see this girl. She was absolutely fine and she gets dates all the time from LOTS of guys. If she weighed 100 pounds less, but had it all in her gut, she would not be attractive.
I happen to think you women look awesome with a little bit of body fat, because without it, you lose your hips and curves and even your bustline shrinks. Also, if you want to have wild and passionate crazy sex with a guy, it helps to have the extra cushioning.
Personally, as long as she isn't getting dangerously overweight (275+) and she has a very cute face, wicked curves in all the right places, is active, passionate, and has smooth silky skin, and takes good care of herself, my 180 pound frame is all over her. But that's me. Some guys are idiots and drop any girl who isn't bulemic/annorexic. Remember what the great philosopher Sir Mix-a-lot said about this.
And um... if you're single... please don't hesitate to send me a hello.
2006-09-18 03:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by askthepizzaguy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey do not even waste your time on people who are so insecure and all they do is take out their insecurity on others to feel good about themselves. You are beautiful no matter what they say. If a guy really loves you, he will not try to change you he will love you for you. This doesn't mean that you give up all together on keeping your body fit as this goes a long way in ensuring you live longer and healthier.
2006-09-18 05:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhmmm, why would you kill yourself on the tread mill for what a guy will think,....there is nothing wrong with exercise but do it carefully so that you get results that will last,......it would be wise for you to check out your height and weight standard on a chart to see if you are overly heavy,....but it would seem to me being 115 pounds is kind of too skinny,....you might have bulimia it is a sickness that people see themselves in the mirror and see that they are fat and in reality they and grossly underweight to the detriment of their health.
Please read the following info that I found might be helpful and please do not listen to what these playmate loving, sex hungry, animals we call "men" have to say about you and your precious body. Your were wonderfully and fearfully made by our Creator so treat it as so.
2006-09-18 03:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be in the correct weight range for your height. If you're fit then that's fine too but correct weight for the correct height is good too. If the guy dumped you because you were fat, then it could be due to other reasons...the biggest one is that you were dating a shallow moron who couldn't think of anything but your weight. So be glad that you're rid of him!
2006-09-18 03:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, most women would kill to be 124 pounds. The guy was obviously insane and will never be happy with any woman he chooses.
Don't worry about it hun, if you're feeling insecure about your weight, watch what you eat and continue your regular exercise routine. Otherwise, shake it off and take it as a lesson learned...some guys are just too material and will never be happy!
2006-09-18 03:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by prayinfroggy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, crazy is a more accurate term. I don't mean that in a moronic way, but the hell with guys like that. Just be a decent person and look for a decent person, and you'll find someone who doesn't give much of a toss about that kind of stuff. Better luck to you mam.
2006-09-18 03:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by broham85 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how tall you are. If you are over 5'0" in height, then you are not fat. If you are shorter than that, then maybe you might be a little overweight. The man who dumped you probably did so because he wasn't interested in you in another way.
2006-09-18 03:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have been there!! Your height has something to do with how much your average weight should be. Remember that muscle weighs more than fat!! Was he trying to tell you that you were too "phat" for him? Sounds like you are doing well for yourself regardless of what others say.
2006-09-18 03:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by togo4thandprosper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋