Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

2006-09-17 21:15:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but the problem is that you know some times when you are on line in a chat room people ask all kinds of question and you may respont with a true anwser or just say a lie because you dont know whom you are dealing with so that happen to me. I lie in a couple of question he ask me like my age I'm older than what I told him,He is 32 and I'm 41 even I look like in my early's 30 to 35 years I have been told by a lot of people. any way now time have past and we are dating for about a month and I start to have feeling for him how can I tell him that I lie about my age. I'm afraid of loosing him cause of my lie and that he think I'm too old for him maybe I am but I dont look that old. I love him now . we haven't meet in person yet only by pics. and webcam he shows alot of intrest in me. He calls me every day a couple of times throu the day. He even talk about marrige and all that but now time is passing by and I'm getting nerves about me not telling him that I lie about my age.

2006-09-17 21:15:00 · 8 answers · asked by oneofpandoraboxes 1 in Singles & Dating

I like to be around people and do things...but I hate talking and feel like I don't have anything to say. But not talking feels so awkward that I just keep talking and asking questions to keep conversation going. I would feel totally fine just being around someone without talking much but I realize people would find me boring. Obviously my friends like me or they wouldn't keep hanging out with me..but I feel like going out and being with them is a struggle. I DREAD it beforehand. Please help! It is not the friends (not that I should get different friends, they are great people)...It is definitely me and I don't know what to do.

2006-09-17 21:14:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I decided about a year ago to stop trying to get a girlfriend, but it still bothers me. I've tried to fill all my excess time with working or hanging out but it still comes to mind.

Does anyone have any suggestions about what I can do to stop wanting a girlfriend?

2006-09-17 21:12:59 · 12 answers · asked by shudver 1 in Singles & Dating

Would the second marriage be legal. The second marriage took place in 1998 he could not find first wife to divorce. But, when they found her in 2003 the divorce from first wife went through. Would second marriage be legal after this?

2006-09-17 21:11:16 · 15 answers · asked by lizzybit64 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 21:10:54 · 9 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

You have no loving affectionate for her anymore but you love her family members. Both parties are willing to seek a divorce but none wants to be seen as the initiator.
Problem got complicated when you began to develop a relationship with a woman you love.

2006-09-17 21:10:31 · 7 answers · asked by dickson 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hey romantics .... tell me what were the things about ur honey that made u realise that u were really in love and also what is the best part of being in this relationship?

2006-09-17 21:09:55 · 7 answers · asked by Ankita G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 21:09:24 · 6 answers · asked by sassy is sad 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 21:08:03 · 19 answers · asked by princess 2 in Weddings

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for at least 5 years now, but somehow he never seems to "pop the question"! I think we are meant to be with each other...what should I do?

2006-09-17 21:07:12 · 18 answers · asked by white rose 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I care a lot about this girl named Miranda. She's my girlfriend, but I don't know what to do. I've only had three girlfriends in my life and they all blew up in my face. I don't want to lose Miranda. I love her. Please help me.

2006-09-17 21:06:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

...Because respecting them only has the opposite effect on myself.

2006-09-17 21:04:53 · 8 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with my partner for a little over 3 years now. I have never been unfaithful to her.
Anyways she is away right now for vacation. While she was away I got chatting one night on yahoo to a old friend I used to chat up years ago, I had not been on yahoo chat for years, anyway she had left me some messages.
We spent the next few days chatting and playing games. One night she wanted to phone, there was no way I was wanting to give home number, incase future she calls etc, so I gave her my mobile. She phoned up and we had a chat for a while. then we had phone sex. Was really good. However I felt slightly guilty afterwards.

Should I bother about this, should I really be guilty. The way I kinda see it is like you can look but you cant touch. Would this be like you can talk but you cant touch.
I know I would not want my partner to do the same with other person.

2006-09-17 21:03:19 · 62 answers · asked by shaunybhoy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was seeing my current girlfriend for for 6 years it was rocky but very passionate she was beautiful and i loved her very much,we had a fight i tryed phoning her to heal the rift she wouldnt answer,the girlfriend i was seeing could not have vaginal sex because of a very small opening.this was never a problem in our relationship the sex was fantastic.
when we split in that time i met a girl off the internet who lived 5 miles away from me we chatted for hours then met,we slept together and after 2 mths she moved in,the sex was good,we got on,after 3 mths she proposed to me,i said yes,we arranged marriage for year later,she sold her home,her choice to pay for wedding,its costing £28,000,i have a future with this woman,kids etc,but i cant help thinking all the time of my ex,i feel so horrible for what i did to her,i sit and cry most nights,things moved so fast with this other woman,that in 3 mths im getting married,i miss my ex i loved her,she wont talk to me,shes not seeing anyone else,

2006-09-17 21:03:01 · 28 answers · asked by matt31 1 in Singles & Dating

Have just found out my boyfriend of 7mths has been texting other girls and kissed one on Friday night when I was away in Exeter with work and hes been very flirty to 2 other. I love him so much and he says hes really sorry it didnt mean anything and he was drunk. My boss wants me to decide whether I will relocate to Exeter today im seriously thinking about it, the only thing stopping me was the boyfriend ive fallen for. My mates and parents think I should go, ive always been indicisive! If I go I will probably loose my boyfriend.

2006-09-17 21:02:39 · 25 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been going out with this boy for a year and people have been telling me that hes been going with another girl aswell but i dont know what to do about it

2006-09-17 21:01:38 · 8 answers · asked by sammlwrd 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 21:01:05 · 14 answers · asked by sleepigirl21 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

with the women i've been with i've experienced them have little quiet orgasms, mind blowing orgasms even gully washing juice shooting explosions! i just wondered which is the most satisfying to women? ps. i loved experiencing every one i've shared with the women in my life!

2006-09-17 20:59:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have still continued in a marriage, where in the wife was ready for sex as if she is giving some alms! I'm 36 & she is 34 with 1 kid. Whenever I had approached her for sex ,many times she has insulted me by reacting as if a wall lizard has fallen over her. If I approach her for 2nd time in a week, she starts fighting & accuses me to be a sex addict. Till now she has initiated it on her own 4-6 times. Even after 2 months absteinance, still reacts in negative & insulting way.I had asked her to come for Sexology Counselling, for which she has refused & told me It's not her who requires counselling but I do. I'm not aperson who can enjoy total passive partner or forced sex. Can I seek Divorce on this ground? My wife is a medico(even I'm!), 34 years has normal activity & has routine hour job. I had tried all ways to woo her.

2006-09-17 20:52:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 20:52:48 · 18 answers · asked by philsosophe 1 in Family

MY ex keeps calling me..its been a year and half since we broke up. WE havent had sex and i live 2 hours away from him but he keeps calling...why do you think this is? he says he cares and loves me but we are both living seperate lives. is it true love if he keeps calling after 1.5 years w/o sex?

2006-09-17 20:51:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 20:50:18 · 34 answers · asked by Intellectual g 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just wondering if men really like make up or if it is actually a turn off? Do you prefere to see a woman in the "nude".

2006-09-17 20:49:12 · 20 answers · asked by gini 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 20:47:55 · 37 answers · asked by ccdee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't feel loved, important or sexy anymore. We live with his mother... I feel like I have come into this life of his & have to fit in somehow. Nothing has changed... the daily routines are the same... he wakes up late on weekends & spends saturday afternoon shopping with his mother. He's always playing games on his phone... comp. The only thing we do together is watch movies once in a while. He sleeps in another room because it is more convenient for him... while I sleep alone on a big bed with my baby in his little cot beside me. We have sex once every 3 weeks. He doesn't give me oral sex anymore. I've spoken to him about all of this, I've cried, gotten angry, threatened, tried to be nice, understanding, always give him oral sex... and still... nothing... I'm 22... feeling lost. My Mum gets more sex than me, she's been married 23yrs. He says that I should always remember that I am number 1 & that he loves me. I know he loves me... he just can't be bothered to show it.

2006-09-17 20:46:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The man with the heart problems, who I spoke of earlier; he knows how I feel about him. He's in his 40's, and I'm in my 40's. This is not about childish or teenage feelings( not that there's anything wrong with that!) He knows about his own risks and his possible allotted time; so do I. I just wanted to give a bit more info on the question. Thank you so much for everyones time!

2006-09-17 20:46:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 20:46:06 · 9 answers · asked by xxx 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 20:45:23 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

i m really deppressed coz i dont wana lose a gud frnd..that too widout reason.even he dosent finds any fault in me.is this a general tendency of a boy dat frndshp cannot last for more than a week..and poor girls r juz being left on the way..he was the one who started our frndship.he's an intelligent n carrier conscious guy..i m just waiting for evrythin to get normal..earlier he used to call and msg fof hours n hours but now my msg is being replied just once..i ,on my part,want to make him a good frnd forever but i'm shocked to see such a change...

2006-09-17 20:44:41 · 10 answers · asked by neha 1 in Friends