I have still continued in a marriage, where in the wife was ready for sex as if she is giving some alms! I'm 36 & she is 34 with 1 kid. Whenever I had approached her for sex ,many times she has insulted me by reacting as if a wall lizard has fallen over her. If I approach her for 2nd time in a week, she starts fighting & accuses me to be a sex addict. Till now she has initiated it on her own 4-6 times. Even after 2 months absteinance, still reacts in negative & insulting way.I had asked her to come for Sexology Counselling, for which she has refused & told me It's not her who requires counselling but I do. I'm not aperson who can enjoy total passive partner or forced sex. Can I seek Divorce on this ground? My wife is a medico(even I'm!), 34 years has normal activity & has routine hour job. I had tried all ways to woo her.
2006-09-17 20:52:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BHAI MEREY,
GET PROFESSIONAL HELP.
SHE HAS A MENTAL BLOCK, OR IS SUFFERING FROM SOME KIND OF PHOBIA / MENTAL ILLNESS.
TALK TO HER, MAKE HER FEEL LOVED & CARED FOR.
ALL THE BEST.
2006-09-17 21:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sarang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me if your divorcing her just on the grounds of not enough sex then i just have to ask if you are truely in love with her. Marriage is about being commited to one another and wanting to share your lives together so why should it matter about the sex. Sex isn't the answer to everything in a relationship. If she feels like she doesn't want sex when you ask her then respect her decision. You need to talk to her about it, not counselling and if u feel like you don't want to be married anymore you should tell her because its not fair to lead her on if u don't have the love for her anymore. I hope you two can sort this out.
2006-09-17 21:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Chappers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there r people having likes and dislikes.
u cannot force for a divorce. its not correct time now.
having a kid u will spoiling his future.
just try to convice her by all means
otherwise u have so many ways to satisfy that hunger.
don't react. so harshly
it is not the only thing in life.
2006-09-17 21:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to assert "christian marriage" is ignoring the actual undeniable reality that the country is made up of human beings of various religions and atheist perspectives. to assert in basic terms the "Christian marriage" is authentic capacity each person who marries in an Islam marriage, Hindu marriage or as civil non - non secular ceremony, is hence incorrect. To base a regulation of marriage on Christian view of marriage altogether overlook with regard to the multitudes of human beings and their beliefs that stay in a lot of countries. it really is why faith and politics shouldn't blend.
2016-11-27 21:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force her to have sex with u, maybe she's just not in the mood for it for watever reason, if u love her and she loves u and u want a divorce just because of that, that's a really dumb move.
2006-09-17 20:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you going on yahoo and asking such a thing as that? I'm sorry that's really not a yahoo question.
2006-09-17 21:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by brigette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋