but the problem is that you know some times when you are on line in a chat room people ask all kinds of question and you may respont with a true anwser or just say a lie because you dont know whom you are dealing with so that happen to me. I lie in a couple of question he ask me like my age I'm older than what I told him,He is 32 and I'm 41 even I look like in my early's 30 to 35 years I have been told by a lot of people. any way now time have past and we are dating for about a month and I start to have feeling for him how can I tell him that I lie about my age. I'm afraid of loosing him cause of my lie and that he think I'm too old for him maybe I am but I dont look that old. I love him now . we haven't meet in person yet only by pics. and webcam he shows alot of intrest in me. He calls me every day a couple of times throu the day. He even talk about marrige and all that but now time is passing by and I'm getting nerves about me not telling him that I lie about my age.
2006-09-17 21:15:00 · 8 answers · asked by oneofpandoraboxes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what does it matter if your real age is 41, it should be a compliment to him that you look really young for your age. 41 is just a number of years you've been alive, relax and just tell him...he already digs you, I"m sure you'll be fine.
2006-09-17 21:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What age did you tell him you were? If he wants kids maybe it'll make all the difference in the world to him. Better tell him now and face the music. I've done that in the past on the first chat with a person (who hasnt seen me) but reveal my true age towards the end of the conversation. Never let it go so long...that's strange that you did. Depending upon his goals...he may dump ya for that or dump you for concealing it for so long. Im 47 but look far younger and I have a dif time convincing people of my age. If I didnt want to explain why I look so young (genetics) as the first topic of discussion, I'd say a younger number, but reveal it later. I only did that a couple times but
it's still feels weird to lie. Well, good luck with it.
Let us know how it turns out, k?
2006-09-17 21:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a sencare advise you to tell me his true.
but tel him in deatil that as susal on net we dont know in first time so we tell a liea but i fell you are a good person and i naver want to hide any thing of my life from you .
so tell him.
if he knows from some other ways then you didt have the any chane even to explan that why you tell a lie..
hope u understnd if need some more
i am online at
puls_ofheart@yahoo.com
2006-09-17 21:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by thundars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewh, you haven't even met him and already talking about marriage? wow that's weird. online dating without meeting the guy in person is just not working. you should meet him in person, see how things go and then start talking about relationship. u wouldn't know what kind of a person he is online ... but hey! good luck with that.
2006-09-17 21:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all im sure he has told a few little white lies to you anyway just tell him it isnt a big deal unless he makes it a big deal tell him you were afraid and didnt know what to do so thats what you said hope it works out
2006-09-17 21:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by shasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What???? You say your 41 years old please give me a break, girlfriend...you are living in a fairy world...You say your IN LOVE...Yet you haven't met him...you are such a Sad case of a woman...of 41 yrs..grow up ...Forget your age, what bothers me is your brain...when you say your in love with someone you have never met...
2006-09-17 21:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better tell him the truth.
If he cares about you, then he would not care about your age.
Besides, I know this lie is eating you.
2006-09-17 21:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by 8s_fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why you shouldn't lie to begin with.
2006-09-17 21:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋