MY ex keeps calling me..its been a year and half since we broke up. WE havent had sex and i live 2 hours away from him but he keeps calling...why do you think this is? he says he cares and loves me but we are both living seperate lives. is it true love if he keeps calling after 1.5 years w/o sex?
2006-09-17 20:51:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's either love or it's a dangerous obsessive stalker. Be careful. If you broke up, then you had a reason to do so. You weren't right for each other, or you weren't mature enough to work through simple problems.
Either way, move on and tell him to go away and leave you alone. The real question is whether YOU love HIM....
Don't marry a guy who loves you. Marry a guy you love.
2006-09-17 20:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by askthepizzaguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy definitely has feelings for you. And he has realised that he made a mistake by letting you go. Yet he is too proud to admit that to you and he is hoping that you would approach the subject first. A whole year and a half, this guy really does love you. I think that you also have strong feelings for him and you are not too sure on how to handle the situation? Look and assess your feelings for him, if your feelings for him is strong then I suggest that you pick up the phone and call the love of your life before you lose each other for ever. True love is hard to come by and only the most fortunate seems to find it. And you are one of them, so do something about it and call him... If you should need more advice amigo then check out my 360 or log onto my blogspot, annelize-sexylee.blogspot.com
2006-09-17 20:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel... i broke up with my ex a year and a half ago.. and we live far apart and i have never seen him, but yet he still calls me and texts me telling me he loves me, and no other girl compares... etc... BUT it doesnt bother me, and you shouldnt be bothering with your ex... you broke up for a reason and obviously you dont love him or need him in your life, so i think you should not even answer his phone calls, or you just need to change your number for him to finally get the message and move on in his life like you have.. he is just being pathetic.. and he has realised what he has lost, but you shouldnt go back to him unless you really really love him and he was near enough perfect when you was dating him...
He could be just phoning you to get you back, i wouldnt trust him if i was you.. you dont know what his intentions are, if you broke up with him, then maybe he is angry and hurt and wants to hurt you, i think you should seriously stay away, because i would personally never go back to an ex...
2006-09-18 00:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in some of the later questions, I think you ex's gf asked one about why he calls you. No it isn't true love, though, he just hasn't gotten closure to the relationship. Either be rude as hell, and don't talk at all to him, or give him a chance. Don't straddle the fence, go one way or the other. This comes from a 27yr old male. I know from experience.
2006-09-17 21:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by mobfront06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that sex is an indicator of true love, the heart is....so if you made an impact on his life with your wonderful character and had some great times together,....he probably does not like the though of living without you,....I am not a romantic person in a technical sense but this is kind of romantic,.....what does your heart tell you?
2006-09-17 21:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's having trouble moving on. Could be a veriety of reasons why. Could be love or could be obsession hard to say? Why don't you ask him why he keeps calling. Put him on the spot. Could catch him off guard and get the truth out of him.
2006-09-17 20:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 03:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hye think you are Lucky that your love calling you only after 1 and half year
most people spend all his life for waiting his love for searching his love but didt get
if i am at your position then i never wait a few second and run to him and around him/her in his arms.
u are Lucky never miss this chance life never give us 2nd Chane but you are geeting so plz don't think any thing . jut go
2006-09-17 21:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by thundars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's any kind of definition of True love that doesn't invovle some kind of reciprovation. He needs something from you, be it closier, vilidation or maybe you're just that good in bed.
2006-09-17 21:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either that or he just won't let go. How do you feel about him? If you are not feeling that way about him anymore, then tell him this. He may be hurt, but he will have to deal with it over time.
2006-09-17 20:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋