no job insurance, but a very strong background.
2006-09-17 20:43:50 · 11 answers · asked by manish b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It's your life not your parents! Do what you feel is right for you!
Cultural or not, no parent has the right to force someone to marry anyone if they don't want to and it really annoys me that parents still force this on their loved ones. You will also be unhappy if they make you do this.
If your parents really love you they should respect your wishes and allow you to choose your own path. If they don't respect your wishes then move away. Go live your life before you marry. You'll regret it later if you don't. good luck
2006-09-17 22:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by knightlibby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to the other side of the country by taking a job as a waitress or front desk clerk or tour guide with a hotel in the Rockies with staff accom. Party, see movies and art galleries and big mansions, hike, bike, swim, ski and register for some art or dance classes or do volunteer work. Disappear for a year and then reemerge after a nice vacation in Malaysia or Hawaii.
2006-09-18 03:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by cotterall&elaineadams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As u are matured u have the rights to make u r own decisions. but u should not avoid u r parents as well because they always think to do good for their children. therefore try to explain u r situation to them and find a solution. there might be a reason that they force u for marriage. find out what it is and see whether there is any alternatives for that.
2006-09-18 04:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by m.shahila m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
However you try you cannot convince your parents. Think who are your parents` educated, best friends. Talk to them and ask them to convince your parents that you have to complete study, do MS. in the USA, get agood job and things like that. If that fails tell the girl`s parents your views though you have nothing against the girl. If all that fails tell your parents positively "NO'
2006-09-18 03:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by YD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just obay your parents because parent's are god and if u say no than they might get hurt to their fellings
Always ask God to give you what you deserve & not what you desire. your desires may be few but you deserves a lot. Have a Great Day!
2006-09-20 00:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Ram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, live a happy married life. For fun read http://mamumachi.com
2006-09-18 06:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to explain them...or else run away from home and use your brain and live for yourself!!
2006-09-18 05:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by testy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't. you can't simply sacrifice your life cuz u wanna make ur parents pleased. talk to them - tell them you don't wanna marry right now.
2006-09-18 03:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by Yellow ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to explain the situation to them, if they still don't agree then say that you could do something drastic if they don't give you some time to think.
2006-09-18 04:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by ridhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married until you are ready
2006-09-18 10:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by ee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋