Family & Relationships - 13 September 2006

when my dad was little my dad's dad had an affair with another women.when my grandma found out she didnt divorice right away...well in that time the women he was cheating with had baby so he had to legally adopt her. i know where my "grandfather" works and would like to meet him. But I hate him sooo much.So when I go I wanna say something hinting towards that..but not saying im related to him..what should i say??

2006-09-13 11:50:53 · 16 answers · asked by Melinda=] 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yet I see so many unhappy married couples and poeple that cheat.

2006-09-13 11:50:41 · 6 answers · asked by huckin17 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK so finally at age 28 I have become lucky enough to start dating a bisexual woman who is enthusiastically interested in doing threesomes with me and other women. The problem is, try as we might, we can't seem to find a third partner. We're open to any suggestions as to where we can find another beautiful bi woman to join us, whether among online resources, or good places in Los Angeles we can go to meet such ladies (i.e., bi-friendly singles bars). I hope it doesn't take me another 28 years to find her!

2006-09-13 11:50:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure if it is okay to ask "What's your name" then tell that person (inside your classroom) your name then ask their personal background then eventually small talk on the 1st day you met them in school. Is that okay? I know I will need to greet them everyday. What is your first words to a person you want to be friends with in school? I want to make more friends.

2006-09-13 11:49:32 · 12 answers · asked by Tanner M 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure if it is okay to ask "What's your name" then tell that person (inside your classroom) your name then ask their personal background then eventually small talk on the 1st day you met them in school. Is that okay? I know I will need to greet them everyday. What is your first words to a person you want to be friends with in school? I want to make more friends.

2006-09-13 11:49:21 · 5 answers · asked by Tanner M 1 in Friends

2006-09-13 11:48:25 · 9 answers · asked by aluminum22rocker 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean i want to but its just that i did it before and some of his pre-come cme in my mouth and i almost pucked. i never tried again it grosses me out

2006-09-13 11:48:22 · 30 answers · asked by motherof3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-13 11:47:08 · 20 answers · asked by sunny days 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a wonderful son named Steven who just turned 13 this past August. For his birthday, I got him a beautiful handpainted porcelain doll from JC Penney's that he named Patricia.

He's been collecting these porcelain dolls sinc he was 8 or 9. This last doll nearly cost me an arm and a leg though so I told Steven that he can't play with it like he plays with his other dolls, that Patricia had to stay on the shelf.

Anyway, this morning after I got back home from Costco, I walked into Steven's room and caught him trying to breastfeed his new doll Patricia.

My first thought was that how wonderful of a dad Steven's going to be, but my second thought was that the oils from his skin were going to stain the white porcelain. I'm afraid he's going to ruin the porcelain. Is there a cleaner I can use that's gentle enough for the porcelain?

What's more, is that he was wearing my new bra I got from Lane Bryant and he stretched it out. Kids!

2006-09-13 11:47:01 · 21 answers · asked by Brenda Lewis 1 in Family

Explain how u are suppose to satisfy a girl...

2006-09-13 11:46:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any suggestions?

2006-09-13 11:46:35 · 18 answers · asked by PuesYo 3 in Weddings

Tim and Julia Black, a couple of loud obnoxious Irish drunks. They are Mormons and stay up all night beating on bongos while drinking Irish Whiskey. They make fun of my wife because of her mullet hairstyle. I am at my whit's end but don't know how to get rid of these hateful people.

2006-09-13 11:45:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

am pregnant and in college and my ex. bf babys father set me up with a friend of his as a roomate since i could no longer stay in my dorm since i am 6 months pregnant .It is two bedrooms ajoined with a curtain no doors only on the bathroom small kitchen and living room so its really open. Today matt the roomate walked in on me in the bath saw me naked and i saw him walking around half naked. Last night a girl came over and they were having sex the same time i had my morning sickness. She got really turned off by it and left he was not thrilled with me. how can we avoid these akward situations???

2006-09-13 11:45:17 · 8 answers · asked by amanda h 1 in Friends

NO - i'm lying. I can't hate him cuz I still feel for him. Not sure if it's love or just plain "caring" . Anyway.....just what must I do...I need to get him out of my mind and quick. We separated 3 weeks ago.

2006-09-13 11:44:56 · 17 answers · asked by billy82jean 1 in Singles & Dating

What is it about our society that doesn't give a second thought to getting married and then getting divorced? Are people not choosing their future spouses correctly? Do people not really know their future spouse well enough to get married forever?

2006-09-13 11:44:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So my bf of 3.5 years broke up with me. All this time he avoids being with my family as much as he can, he acts weird when we're at my house and my sister and her husband come over and we have to sit there making chit chat. Recently, he wanted to know how to install something, and my dad was all sweet and explained it to him. He was all weird about this, saying he shouldn't give a damn...i was like...what??. To celebrate my birthday my family always take me to eat somewhere, he has always refused to acompany me. When i ask him why he makes such a big deal out of this, 'cause i know he is friendly with other people's parents and siblings, just not mine, he says he doesn't feel comfortable, that he wanted to be with me, not them. I thought it's just a worst case of being intimidated by the in-laws, so i never pushed him to be a part of my family life, i know i feel akward around his family too, but i did go when invited to his family gatherings. Did he just not want to get too involved?

2006-09-13 11:44:21 · 2 answers · asked by jade 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just lost my boyfriend a little while ago and theres this guy i've known since 5th grade he plays bass in a band with my bff's boyfriend. I really like him and all his friends are saying he likes me!!!!but no way do i have the carzyness to ask him myself if he really likes me. Also we are so different,but he always makes me smile and laugh. i need help somene help me!!!

2006-09-13 11:44:20 · 9 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

i went to a spanish girl's birthday, right it was the 15th birthday, she said it wasnt gonna be anything big. but since i dont know spanish culture at all and im white, it turns out to be a huge party and everything, so I get there, and i asked myself whos the groom, it was that big. I like this girl, and i can barely talk to her at all only through email, and i dont no her address, so what should i do now?

2006-09-13 11:44:04 · 2 answers · asked by bob S 2 in Singles & Dating

after about 6 months seperation, even though we live in the same house, I'm hoping that my wife will be my love and wife again, after 18 years and 2 lovely children, the marriage went stale, she wanted her freedom, so I let her have it, I left her a post it today asking if she would go on a date with me next week, I've had no answer yet, but she has just came home from the pub and said goodnight, the first time she has really said anything and ment it in months, I don't want to give up on her, she's my life, I need help not to **** it up, excite her but not pressure her, please please help.

2006-09-13 11:43:46 · 18 answers · asked by saxons_uk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this really hot guy in my class, he's funny, and looks nice. But I have a feeling if I talk to him, I'll just mess up. I can't think like him as my bestfriend, I'm just so shy, because i'm not used to talking to guys alot. but then I have a feeling he likes alot of girls because he has alot of girls as friends, now my friend is going to ask him out, and I don't even know him, and I want to ask him out first, it's so fustrating! ADVICE please!!

~I will choose Best Answer~
~No Rude Comments~
~No selfish answers~
~This isn't an adult question it's a preteen/teenager question~

2006-09-13 11:43:33 · 4 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Singles & Dating

i am looking for ideas of condoms that women prefer to try. I'd hate to spend the money on something I'm not sure I'll like so i'm looking for something more than one person agrees on.

2006-09-13 11:42:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I THINK U GIRLS SECRETLY LIKE GETTING BEAT DOWN. OR FEEL YOU DESERVE IT. YOU CERTAINLY DO FOR STAYING WITH THEM.

2006-09-13 11:42:23 · 19 answers · asked by I LOVE EWE N MEI 1 in Friends

hOW LONG DO YOU WAIT TO SAY IT TO SOMEONE?

2006-09-13 11:42:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are you planning to do with it?

2006-09-13 11:41:54 · 13 answers · asked by rainfingers 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-13 11:41:46 · 22 answers · asked by Janice H 1 in Singles & Dating

I know for a fact that in the past i got mad about stuff that i shouldn't have...i blew things out of proportion and got mad over silly things which is one reason my ex didnt want to be with me anymore...but i need to fix my little problem. I get mad quite a lot and i just really need to stop because its making people annoyed with me. I just over react a lot and over analyze stuff...and its not good. HELP

2006-09-13 11:41:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and I live my aunt and mom. I am completely shut off from the outside world except for the computer. Anytime in my life I've tried to have friends, my aunt has pushed them away, especially if they weren't white. My aunt believes the world is out to get our small family and has nothing better to do than watch our every move. My mom needs surgery but can't get it and soon it will be too late. My mother sometimes plays the victim and say that everyone hates her. I don't have any friends or family because of a fued. I can't befriend the neighbor kids because my aunt thinks they're horrible people even thought she's only talked to them about five seconds. I used to love my aunt but now it's horrible. She says I hated her from an early age and that I had the devil's hate in my eyes for her along with calling me spawn or imp. My mom's nice but she won't stand up to her. My dad's no help because he's a drug addict. What should I do to get my life back in order? Please help. Thanks much.

2006-09-13 11:41:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

you stare at their butt or chest, especially if they have something written there?

I mean, some have butts big enough to place ads for semi trucks, and others don't, but they try to wear the same clothing...whats up with that?

2006-09-13 11:40:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so i told my parents about my boyfriend...but they are asking me all thes WHY questions...there all like so you want to get married? have kids?! have SEX?! but the answer is noooo...my reasons were because he is a very sweet person...and he is on the same level with me and we just relate so much...idk...i cant explain it really..in order to keep my bf they said i need to come up with some GOOD reasons...so what are some good reason that i could tell my parents?! WHY do we have boyfriends/girlfriends? kthx...

2006-09-13 11:40:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any kind of answer is good enough because I am not expecting a great answer

2006-09-13 11:39:24 · 24 answers · asked by abeshawiwe!! 3 in Singles & Dating