Family & Relationships - 13 September 2006

how do i help the feeling of inferiority i get when i am getting intimate with my bf (who has slept with four girls).. when i am a virgin who has only given hand jobs so far?

weve been together almost a year, we havent had sex, he has never pressured me, he has never made me feel lower or inferior...it is something i feel myself. i guess bc i am competitive by nature and i want to be "ahead in the race".. i want to be the one with the experience and advantage..but i am in love with him so im not going to just leave him for a virgin to gain experience from --thats unrealistic

how do i get rid of the inferiority that i feel when we are getting closer to more sexual things?

ps i am not religious so please dont give me the sex-after-marriage stuff.

2006-09-13 11:09:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-13 11:08:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have just recently found the relatives of someone, he does not know yet and iam waiting for a number, i am sure its legitimate, how do i go about this emotional time?

2006-09-13 11:08:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The guy that I like he is soooooo beautiful..But there's one problem:We got out three times and on our last date we kissed...Then the next day he called me and after that nothing.I send him sms and he didnt answer.When I saw him out he was speaking like someone that he hardly knows...And after that he saw a famous model here hugging me and he gave me one bad look...Is it the problem in me ?Every body says I'm beautiful..If he didnt like me than he wouldnt've done sth with me, right?But he is really strange...He doesnt go out often he hungs out with his friends, he likes to talk about make up,clothes!Is it possibile that he is a gay????

2006-09-13 11:08:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 11 and there is a gurl my age in school. Her name is Savannah. Everyday she waves to me and smiles. She also pokes me on the back and acts like she didn't do it. I know that most kids my age do this but not everyday like she does. She is very popular, I'm not that popular and all the popular kids date other popular kids. I sorta like her but I need to know if this is some sort of hint or clue to let me know she likes me. She said she likes another boy named Ellis and they are going out but, I don't know if it was a coverup for me to not figure out that she likes me. Please help me out. Thank you!

2006-09-13 11:08:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She was good on the rent for the first year of our marriage, but after that, no. I told her "If you are going to live under my house, you will pay rent." I am fed up, should I kick her out?

2006-09-13 11:08:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-13 11:08:02 · 5 answers · asked by 2 Ocean Notion 1 in Friends

no feeling up, no 2nd or 3rd base. no oral, no nothing but a peck on the cheek or lips and lots of cuddling.

2006-09-13 11:07:53 · 9 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

im a very picky person i neveer tried oral sex and is not planning on doing it untill im married and it will be hard for me to ajust to that type of practice. but will my husband think im a slut?

isnt it nasty if lets go in your mouth?

2006-09-13 11:07:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-13 11:07:23 · 10 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family

latley she has been treating him unfairly and in effort to get her fired he says he was going to make up a story that she tryed to get him into bed and i got mad because i thought that must have been true for him to think of that but he says thats the only thing he can think of to get ther fired.Does it seem like he's lying,for the record he is an otherwise trustworthy man.thanks.

2006-09-13 11:06:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-13 11:05:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son told me last night he hates me and he aways has the only reason why he was nice to me latley was so he could get his driver's licence. I have never done anything to the boy what so ever he blames me that his dad won't let him use our family car as well. But its not up to me its up to his dad. how do I recover from this. At first I thought that he was just upset but this morning he said mum remember mum I hate you so leave me alone and never talk to me again. I love this kid but why is it me that he is blaming for his dad not letting him drive our car for. Please some advice on this how I can get over this feeling I have knowing my son hates me.

2006-09-13 11:05:30 · 18 answers · asked by Mrs Magoo 4 in Family

is it wrong that i want to be with a transsexual?

2006-09-13 11:04:14 · 2 answers · asked by adam d 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with my girlfriend but we have been together since we were 18. I am 21 now and I feel like I need to experience other things on my own for a while before it gets to be too late. We are going to take a break right now and I would hope we find each other again, but I don't know if this has actually happened successfully before. We love each other and we don't want to have a relationship with anyone else, so I am hoping this works out. Any previous experience with this would be helpful.

2006-09-13 11:03:31 · 18 answers · asked by Big Timer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-13 11:03:18 · 17 answers · asked by Kylie 1 in Friends

Yesterday this guy sent me an email saying that he thinks we should hang out more together and was being real sweet walking me to my second period class and all and being very complimentary. Then today he just kinda ignored me for the most part and was just acting like he usually does.. what is the deal?

2006-09-13 11:03:10 · 6 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont think it matters ???

2006-09-13 11:02:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am hearing the whispers.

2006-09-13 11:02:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've been with my boyfriend for 3 months although we met through work 7 months ago. i have a hell of a lot of feelings for him and he's told me he feels the same. we've jokingly asked each other if we love each other but not actually said it. We've both had previous bad relationships. We get on really well, have good sex life and get on well with the others children and family.
Is it possible to love someone after such a short time?

2006-09-13 11:02:01 · 28 answers · asked by Mizz Julie 3 in Singles & Dating

It shouldn't be my period because I'm on the depo. I was recently tested for STD's and they were negative. I've had sex alot, till recently it started to make me bleed. And, not only does it bleed, but it stings alot, too. What else could it be becides my period or an STD?

2006-09-13 11:01:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I used to be a loser who didn't get any girls, so keep that in mind when you read this...

Anyway, over the past few years, I've gotten aggrivated with the fact that I was the laughingstock of my grade, and I decided to change it. As for my rep, it's intact, but I'm not the most popular guy in the school. As for the girls, it's a no-go. Due to the lack of them in the past (they prefered to laugh at me than to talk to me).

I've taken a notice to my change in personality. I'm gradually starting to become more fun and easygoing. So now with all that said and done, my dilemma. I can tell when a girl likes me now, and I've noticed a few who do in my school. The problem is, I don't know what to do next to start things up with her. I don't know, for example, how to go from just talking at school to ending up at her house. I've fallen behind the pack of other guys at the school, and I really can't talk to any of them. So can anyone help me? And fast because homecoming's coming up. :)

2006-09-13 11:01:31 · 10 answers · asked by Guitar Shredda 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-13 11:00:40 · 19 answers · asked by Roy 3 in Singles & Dating

Ever since my boyfriend and I have moved in together, my Mother wants to monopolize my time by asking me to run errands for her when he and I want our private time or I am booked solid for a while. She has been telling other family members that I am rude and disrespectful if I dont come running when she calls. Some believe her but most dont and tell her to lay off and let me have my life. She is disabled and plays this card constantly. I dont mind helping her but if she cant understand that I cant be at beck and call, I'm at a loss. I do have a brother who lives with her and he should be doing most of the work for her as he is her choreworker now, this is a title I held for 4 years. I dont even get credit for doing that for her! Its mindnumbingly maddening.

If I dont help her then I'm wrong, but if I do its never enough. My boyfriend is starting to get angry at my time spent away, its putting a strain on "us".

Should I continue to jeopardize my relationship for her bull?

2006-09-13 11:00:27 · 4 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

The guy who threw himself and kids off a balcony drunk and killed his son, do you sympathise, or are you reviled by him?

2006-09-13 11:00:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have this friend, when she is around me, we have the funnest time. =]
But when she's with her other friends in class, and I try to hang with them, she totally ignores me. Like I'm the wall or something. I don't get it, she's being two-sided. >_> I want to become friends with her friends so I can hang out with all of them. But they seem to ignore me, no matter what i say, and they also like to turn words I say into stupid words. (meaning bring out the worst of my words)
Why is she like that?
and what can i do?

2006-09-13 10:59:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Under 18, (maybe a certain 24-year-old that is expected) please. No dirty junk. I just wanna see if how many people will say sure to a completely bored teen. Maybe not even a chat. Just answer saying stuff, like, I don't know, "If you are so bored, why don't you do something else?" or something like that. You can even just answer "Hi.". Okay?

2006-09-13 10:58:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes your boyfriend doesn 't like to check his e-mail in front of you.
Do you think that he is trying to hide something?

2006-09-13 10:58:39 · 8 answers · asked by CHICA24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when you go to live in a new neighbourhood , your nearest neighbour know's nothing about you , they welcome you and also say i'm here and your there , or the reverse, what do they mean .I don't think it's welcoming atal

2006-09-13 10:58:35 · 6 answers · asked by MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION 5 in Friends

Our marriage has been in trouble ever since I stopped working(due to trying to go back to school & open up a business), my husband has been very disrespectful and very distant with me. Yesterday, he left and I haven't heard anything since, so I need to know what I need to do because I don't work and we have 3 kids. Serious answers only please

2006-09-13 10:57:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce