i've been with my boyfriend for 3 months although we met through work 7 months ago. i have a hell of a lot of feelings for him and he's told me he feels the same. we've jokingly asked each other if we love each other but not actually said it. We've both had previous bad relationships. We get on really well, have good sex life and get on well with the others children and family.
Is it possible to love someone after such a short time?
2006-09-13 11:02:01 · 28 answers · asked by Mizz Julie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cant help you much I knew the day after I met my wife that I wanted to marry her and it is our golden wedding this Christmas
2006-09-13 11:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that it is possible that you have a deep connection with someone after a short time, but real love develops over time, when you get to know each properly. I think you be concentrating on getting your life back on track first, are you feeling vunerable because you had a bad marriage and rushing into the first person who has shown you affection. Dont't get me wrong, I do believe that it is possible after such a short time, I have had many relationships in the past from the age of 15 years old always had a boyfriend, then met my husband, knew each other for 3 months, then moved in together and have been together now 12 years, so I know it can work, but when we look back, we realise that we love each other much more now than we ever did in the beginning. But I think your situation is a bit different. You have to concentrate on getting your kids back first, before you start thinking about being in love with someone else. They must come first in your life and they need to realise that you regret leaving them, they need the stability and comfort that only a mother can give (to answer your other question). Good Luck and remember you can do it, you can prove to yourself and to others that you will make it up to your kids and be the best mother you can possibily be and if this guy you say you might love, will understand.
2006-09-14 02:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by radiant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE...If only it was in a handbook we would all be laughing. My wife of 12 years and i have known each other all our lives, we were neighbours. We couldnt stand the sight of one another a one stage in our lives. Then one day something changed, we both became friends and joked around with one another for around 2 years! Then one night that first kiss happened. 12 years on we have four boys and couldnt want anything else. You will know instinctivley if you are in love, try asking yourself how you would feel if he wasnt around tomorrow or the day after. When you get those butterflies!!... well, maybe love can happen in such a short time, just look at all those years we wasted.
2006-09-13 18:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes of COURSE it's possible. It's also understandable that the two of you are playing it cautiously if you've both previously had bad relationships but please remember one thing ok? ... Communication is probably one of the biggest things in any relationship for it to REALLY work and last. It's true that some people can communicate without having to really say anything and understand each other. That shows a very close bond but if you genuinely feel that you love him, why not tell him that and see what he says and how he reacts and maybe then you'll know for sure. Good luck. I really envy you. :)
2006-09-13 18:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by mancunian_nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. I fell in love with my gf only a few weeks after we met online. We said "I love you", 2 weeks after we met online. When I told her, "I am madly in love with you", she said she felt the same way. We have been together nearly 3 years, and even though we still haven't met, we are still very much in love. We knew we were meant for each other. Good luck with your relationship!
2006-09-13 18:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by no1charmerlondon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it sure is by the time my hubby and had been together 3 months we had arranged our wedding and in month 4 we went down the isle and 14 years on we are still together good luck
2006-09-13 18:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by NetNet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew in 10 days that my now fiance was the man for me. We have now been together 18 months next week and will be married July of next year.
2006-09-13 18:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of love at first sight? It happens Tell him you love him. My bf told me he loved me after 5 months and asked me to marry him and I said no we are married now and we celebrated our 19th wedding anniversary on Monday. Good Luck
2006-09-13 18:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Figgy N Pluto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not only possible, it happens all the time. The phrase "love at first sight" is not a fairy tale, If you love him, tell him. Dont take the chance of loosing the one you love only because you didn't tell him.
2006-09-13 18:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i know i was in love with my Fiancee very quickly..
and the love just keeps on growing every day.
enjoy it! and stop worrying about knowing that he is Mr Right, if you worry so much you will probably send out bad vibes.
Enjoy being with him and watch your relationship grow from strength to strength!
2006-09-13 18:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Shelley27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋