Family & Relationships - 13 September 2006

There was a guy I knew only slightly back in college about 20 years ago that I was really obsessed with. I never let him know how I felt and ended up dating and occasionally marrying a string of losers. I recently found out that the guy from college is happily married and I'm happy for him and don’t want to break up his marriage or anything but I'm without a relationship right now and find myself fantasizing about this guy a lot.

I know it's not going to go anywhere and I'm happy to leave it at the fantasy level until something good and real comes along if it ever does, but what I want to know if any other women out there still have serious sexy thoughts about someone from that long ago.

2006-09-13 12:34:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-13 12:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My wife loves me, but she is destroyed any feelings I have for her with her demanding ways and constant nagging. She has alienated my family and we have no close friends. I have no love interests, this is just trying to figure out whats best for my kids. As a dad I know the chances of getting fair custody of my kids is 0%, as we are both professionals and have a spotless record. Counseling is out since we both work in that profession. Ideas would be appreciated as well as opinions. I have a 4 y.o. daugther and 1 y.o. son.

2006-09-13 12:34:01 · 25 answers · asked by Charles B 4 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy and hes in my band class and hes always teasing me and everything like when ever i turn back hes looking @ me my friend joe he hangs around w/ him and there always looking at me and pushing me AND LIKE I PRENENDED I GOT REAL MAD AND HE CAME UP TO ME AND SAID IM RTEAL SORRY ,SORRY WHAT DO U THINK DOES HE LIKE ME OR WHAT ??? PLZZ HELP

2006-09-13 12:33:42 · 10 answers · asked by moon 3 in Friends

She just started a new job and she broke up with her bf two weeks ago but he is moving out this week.

2006-09-13 12:33:25 · 8 answers · asked by bilbissi 1 in Singles & Dating

girlz, do you find your boyfriend kissing and licking you cute..? well my boyfriend does that to me all the time and i think its cute. Has anybody else have a boyfriend that does that?

2006-09-13 12:32:48 · 12 answers · asked by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

...i'm scared!!! we fought because he saw me kissin some guy but i was drunk

2006-09-13 12:32:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can you tell if you couple is having an affair?
what signs can help you detect the truth if you have the doubt?
if it was to be truth what would you do or say to him/her?

2006-09-13 12:32:05 · 7 answers · asked by CHIQUITA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and also , if anyone knows their whereabouts. she is a long lost friend

2006-09-13 12:31:59 · 1 answers · asked by drastic 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have this great friend i've known since i was 8yr old we have grown to be great friends. he has just started datting this new girl i don't know why i envy her?

2006-09-13 12:31:27 · 11 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

so i was at my friends house and her brother had friends over too well i got to sit next to the cute one and we played catchphrase for a while and all throughout the game i was touching his arm are he made me laugh and the i grabbed his thigh and he put my hand back on my leg but like 5 min. later he was tickling me and grabing my leg and in the hot tub he was playing footies with me..... so did he change his mind or what?

2006-09-13 12:31:24 · 11 answers · asked by Perty N' Purple 2 in Singles & Dating

is seems like i like making love more than my husband.. it hurts me everytime he pushes me away when i ask him to be intimate with me. we have a long distance relationship, we see each other twice a year, for just a month or 2. so every time were together i want to get initmate.. i like giving him a man wants but i get so down when he says no to me :( is there a problem with me?

2006-09-13 12:31:03 · 18 answers · asked by addiee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I will try to make it short. Due to certain life situations, I currently find myself very alone. I am about to turn 40, I look younger, am educated, I work for respectable company and have a good job. My problem is that I have no family or friends around me. I never was an introvert, but for some reason, most women I have met, have been jealous, and most men have wanted one thing. I have 2 family members in the US, and they live states away. I have a boyfriend who is also states away, and because of our relationship, I have lost some friendships, as most of my friends have been men. I work all day, at a stressful job and come home at nite to my 2 cats.
My bf is younger than me, has a child and is very unstable, financially and has alot of emotional control issues. I do love him, but lately I have been wondering if I am in it out of desperation. After all I never wanted kids, and am really alone b.c he is never with me, except on the weekends if that. What would you do if you were me ?

2006-09-13 12:30:43 · 15 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i once heard a statistic that was something like "92% of girls intend on marrying their first sexual partner...2% of guys feel the same." but im not sure if those are the exact numbers or not. if you could help out that would be great. thanks!

2006-09-13 12:30:11 · 6 answers · asked by Nici 2 in Singles & Dating

does anyone know any wonderful wedding stores in california. i live in in the san bernadino area.all there is David's Bridal, but looking for other ideas on a dress.thanks

2006-09-13 12:30:03 · 8 answers · asked by Amry 3 in Weddings

There is this girl I like alot and we both have alot in common. We are both pretty shy but not around our friends. We can talk for hours online and have had many many conversations. We call each other friends and I'm even in her top 8 on myspace (if that means anything lol), the only boy from our school in it. But the problem is that in person its just extremely aqkward between us. We've barely said more then hi and sometimes we just kind of avoid each other to avoid the aqkwardness. She has told me before that she's more outgoing around the people she is comfortable with but very shy around the people she likes. Maybe I'm just overthinking this and shes just nice but why would she act like I'm her friend and then not even talk to me that much in real life? I'm to blame for that too I guess but I dont want to be rejected and I just get nervous. Should I ask her why we can't talk in person or would that just sound weird? Even if she doesn't like me I just want to know why we can't talk.

2006-09-13 12:29:33 · 16 answers · asked by Justin B 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, for those of you who are really bored, here is my situation. Ever since my best friend started dating and moved in with this guy, she has been acting really weird. shes completely started ignoring her friends including me. when she does come out and socialize, shes got a bad attitude. other friends have even started asking me what is up with her, and i dont know. so i approached her about it and asked what is wrong. she insists she has never been happier. then i told her that even other people think something is up with her. but i wouldnt tell her who it was who was asking about her. i figure, that is their job. i told her it wasnt my place to tell her that, and tried to change the subject to things that had been going on in my life. she hung up for not getting her way, and didnt give a damn about a serious problem that i have and wanted to talk about. was i wrong? should i have told her who else had been saying that something seems wrong with her? what would you do?

2006-09-13 12:28:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i don't know what to do.. i've dated this person for almost a year and a half and i love them more than the world and they've hurt me in the past but they've changed. but then i started talking to their ex just as friends and we've gotten close... too close.... i'm starting to like them. and i think my lover is proposing on my birthday (i've caught hints) and i want to say yes but then i think about their ex and how hurt they would be! what should i do?!?

2006-09-13 12:28:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am engaged to be married in July. Until recently I have gotten along really well with my fiance's family. However, there are times when one of his sisters ignores me ( she has a little bit of a stand offish attitude) but fore the most part it is fine. Usually I will ignore any rude comments or ignore the times when she ignores me. A couple days ago my family threw me a surprise b-day party and afterwards my fiance's sister called him and said ignored her the whole time. This is not true!! I even said thank you for coming and she gave me attitude. I do not know rahter to be completely pissed off at her or what. I think this is all a little childish and it really pisses me off. I dont want my fiance to be caught in the battle! What do I do

2006-09-13 12:28:14 · 11 answers · asked by ncl_dhrrr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so im in 8th grade but i look like i should be in 10th. im not ugly but im not the hottest gurl in the school. i like this guy. lets say his name is Dan. Dan likesme also. but i think its only a crush. i really like him. but he doesnt talk a lot. actallly he hasnt said anythin to me at all..he seems shy. but around his friends he's not. and hes hot. i want him to like me more. i want him to talk to me. how do i do that. i really want to go out with him. i havnt ever had a bf. but almost every1 thinks i have dated like 100 guys by now. ~ not true. hes really hot. n i want him to stop being shy. i want him to talk to me! keep in mind that hes only in lunch with me and i only c himone during the school day. we also have assined seats. but i do wait next to him to get my lunch an i can talk to him a lil in between eating luch b/c our tables r near. but hes real shy. also he knos that i like him. an he knos my #. i keep writing my friend notes an he keeps reading them lol. buthes realshy

2006-09-13 12:28:13 · 9 answers · asked by Heyyi 2 in Singles & Dating

When I start talking with people, I usually have this drive, this confident feeling in me, but then after a while, I feel out of place and start to feel negative. My eyes look away from the person Im talking to and they can tell I feel very uncomfortable. Sometimes I kind of glare and maybe the person tlaking to me feels that Im not interested in what they have to say or that im being sarcastic. I just hate this feeling and have tried to stay positive but i fail. What can I do. Because of this, Ive been having emotional and self esteem issues. I need advice...

2006-09-13 12:27:13 · 6 answers · asked by SpecialHeart<3 5 in Friends

I'm recently divorced for the second time. My ex was incredibly insecure and was giving me a hard time because at 30+ I don't look 25 any more and I want a steady career because I can't be a model forever.

My problem is that he is one of these guys that everyone likes and I'm a woman who everyone has always joked about how many guys I must have because I'm fairly good looking even though I've never actually been promiscuous. During the divorce my husband hinted heavily to a lot of people including my family that I was cheating. I was doing no such thing but he was very mad because I wouldn't give up my career to be his housewife. Everyone believed him probably because they found it so easy to think the worst of me when I was the one complaining about him all the time.

What I want to know is whether other divorced women out there have had this kind of experience with a lying ex. Is there any way to clear your name or do you just look forward and try to do your best from here on out?

2006-09-13 12:26:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres this boy i messed wit a little while ago. i dont like him or anything, we just messed around with each other once. now we did have sex once and he does have a girlfriend. but since that day we had sex, he has jus been acting so funny around me. he acts so different. i dont understand why he actin like this. i mean i really dont like him or nothin like that, we jus wanted to have sex with each other, but he is my friend. since he's my friend, should i ask him why he's been actin so strange or should i jus leave it alone and find another friend, becasue if i do ask him wats up, he probably will think i like him or something like that. so wat should i do about this?

2006-09-13 12:25:55 · 9 answers · asked by smileygirl419 1 in Friends

I know that there is no definate time on this, but how do you know if you two are 'going steady' or are still friends who spend lots of time together and kiss??!

2006-09-13 12:25:24 · 23 answers · asked by Jenny K 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister is receiving food stamps and child care assistance. She has been receiving these since last year when her husband left. She also receives child support. But, her husband moved back in with her and kids the end of December 2005. She did not stop the child support order or inform DHS that he was back. And she is continuing to receive food stamps and child care assistance. They are both working. He works full time for a company over 6 years and she work part time at a daycare. I reported her to DHS for fraud. Was I wrong to do this? i just don't feel it is fair for them to free load off the state and taxpayers like my husband who works and I am stay at home mom. We do not receive food stamps or any assistance from the state. Please let me know what you think. I don't feel guilty about it at all. I just wanted to see what others think.

2006-09-13 12:24:25 · 22 answers · asked by klr19742003 2 in Family

I remember when my second child was concieved, I just knew that we had made a life.

2006-09-13 12:24:07 · 6 answers · asked by hooverhumper22 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ps: my sis is being an #$%

2006-09-13 12:23:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay first of all im 13 . Okay so reasently i moved in with my aunt. she has 2 daughter. one 6 one 7 and the 7 year old doesnt want me to say nice things but she doesnt want me to say mean thing. so i decided not to talk to her but then she want to go into my room and touch my things. but then she gets mad at me for tell her to leave because i told her what to do. can any one help me out. please!!! i'm begging. but she treats my older brother just fine. i dont understand. does she hate me and want me to move out?

2006-09-13 12:23:33 · 7 answers · asked by puffmuffin04 1 in Family

outfit you ever wore to attract the attention of some guy?

2006-09-13 12:23:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he told me he liked my friend more than a friend
he told me my political views are stupid
he pushed me away when i kissed him today
should i not be mad?

2006-09-13 12:23:21 · 7 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Other - Family & Relationships