theres this boy i messed wit a little while ago. i dont like him or anything, we just messed around with each other once. now we did have sex once and he does have a girlfriend. but since that day we had sex, he has jus been acting so funny around me. he acts so different. i dont understand why he actin like this. i mean i really dont like him or nothin like that, we jus wanted to have sex with each other, but he is my friend. since he's my friend, should i ask him why he's been actin so strange or should i jus leave it alone and find another friend, becasue if i do ask him wats up, he probably will think i like him or something like that. so wat should i do about this?
2006-09-13 12:25:55 · 9 answers · asked by smileygirl419 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should definitely ask him wats up i mean you have the right to. You guys had sex once? So wat if he thinks you like him? Since you guys had sex he probably already thinks you like him, but since you guys had sex, if it wasn't very long ago, he's going to wanna come back to you eventually, and then you guys would technically be considered sex buddies, so definitely ask him wats up and why he's been acting so weird.
2006-09-13 12:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by Nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sugest u to talk with him oppenly and tell him how u feel about him, truth will always be the best way to solve things, more if he´s ur friend, u wont want to loose a friendship just cause u dont want him to think that u like him, make ur self clear and if he was in the same that u definetly u will get over it, just that try to be more carefully about having sex with friends or people u dont like, its suposse to be something u both enjoy but with love or at least a crush
2006-09-13 12:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by jalina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Althogh you may think that nothings changed between you, the dynamics of your relationship have clearly changed, from his perspective, at least.
Maybe he feels guilty about betraying his girlfriend....I can't say.
But if you are comfortable enough to have sex with this guy, then maybe you should feel comfartable enough to speak privately to him about whats gone on between you, and try to find some resolution.
2006-09-13 12:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Carys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should talk to him like ask him wats wrong so u can fix it so u dont lose eachothers friendship
so yeah u should talk to him but like dont just ask him right away try to start a convo with him and then after a while ask him bout that okay lolz
2006-09-13 12:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks you're easy. You admit to having sex with him and not really liking him. What's up with that?
2006-09-13 12:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you shouldn't have had sex with him in the first place. I hope you can have more self respect for yourself then to be so easy.
2006-09-13 12:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by shiftcomma3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another friend? u have sex with all ur friends?
2006-09-13 12:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just confront him and ask what his problem is?
2006-09-13 12:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by maxxfundu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont like him ....why would u have sex with him ??!?!? thas weird ?!?!?!?!?!?!
2006-09-13 12:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by Kezia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋