Family & Relationships - 11 September 2006

my soon to be husband keeps on asking me about another child. he wants to have another one. i have allready had 5 kids and i do not have the best pregnancies. i am allways put on bed rest. and i usually have 1 or 2 misscarages befor i hold one. pluss i get such horabble mood swings. i get to the point ware i just want to leave. i have told him all this but i still dont think he understands. he now has all our friends and famely hinting to me that it is a good idea. what do i do?

2006-09-11 07:01:50 · 17 answers · asked by kris s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I'm dating this guy who is 6 years older than me. He is so sweet....the guy I've always wanted but never thought exsisted. The problem is...some of the things he says are awkward. I know he has friends...but I'm sure they are the same way. Put it this way, in hs he would have been in the dorky good boy crowd I would have been in the popular crowd. dumb analogy sorry....but I attract a lot of attention socially, people always tell me how they have heard I'm so fun to be around, I always say the right things to make people laugh and I'm witty...I'm never awkward. What do I do about him? I want him to not be so awkward esp if he is around my friends and fam.....and it annoys me as well. Other than that he is perfect so it's not worth giving up on. Can I stop and tell him when he says dumb things or will that hurt his feelings?

2006-09-11 07:01:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there anything wrong with being a slut? What if your a safe slut?

2006-09-11 07:01:31 · 23 answers · asked by Becky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-11 07:00:47 · 6 answers · asked by A 2 in Weddings

cause i'm 22 and i have a lover and a 4month old girl

2006-09-11 07:00:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok here is the problem. She works as a secertary for a law firm. I work security for a bank. We both work in the same place but the bank rents out space to her employers law firm. The problem i am having is a lack of confidence. I am not so afraid of a no or yes as i am afraid of gossip and harrasment... She seems way to nice to do such a thing. I swear i do not even have to look at her body just look into her eyes and thats enouph to get me hard. I am not trying to be perverted but what i am asking you the people that answer is how should i aproach this? You dont just ask someone out right away what if she already has a man? I thought of some senerios and if you have some thats good to please be detailed with your comments. My thought is that i should flirt a little bit see if she bites on that. Then I thought well flirt and ask questions. I am not going to lie in my eyes i would rate her as a 10 for cuteness 9 for sexyness me on the other hand i am not fat but not small

2006-09-11 07:00:31 · 9 answers · asked by Thomas A 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were engaged for about 2 years. Prior to being engaged his sister only talked to me long enough to ask me to watch her kids, once she found out we were engaged she was in my face and always wanting to plan things for the wedding, having 3 sisters of my own I didn't need her help and she turned sour towards me. This past week she sent me an email asking why I treat her like dirt all the time and explaining to me that I'll never understand the relationship she has with her brother and wants to know why I'm so "mean" to her when in actuality I just chose not to talk to her instead of being mean. I replied to her email in one sentence and said I needed time to process all the things she told me and she replied to me that I needed to do it quickly because she's been crying a lot lately and that she told her mother to talk to me but she just can't wait for that so she contacted me-via email.I think she's crazy and have no idea what to do about her immaturity any suggestions?

2006-09-11 07:00:22 · 7 answers · asked by jmp572 1 in Family

He was into drugs for a bit, went to jail for a year, and is now in rehab, but has been clean for nearly a year. I have great interest in a relationship with this man, but I do have two small children to think of.

2006-09-11 07:00:11 · 6 answers · asked by heandI 3 in Singles & Dating

I've lost my Timetraveller , has anyone seen him?? 10-points if you have found him .....He belongs to his Queen .....

2006-09-11 06:59:51 · 15 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Friends

I am a little bit nervous i have a date on friday with a man, from the internet were going to see a band, i havent been out with anyone for years,
he seems okay any advice.

2006-09-11 06:59:29 · 13 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Tell me the story please..

2006-09-11 06:59:25 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Love means something different to everyone, so how do you know that you're in love? what are the signs to you?

2006-09-11 06:59:20 · 3 answers · asked by strawberry delight 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is a person, i feel he loves me..and many a times i also feel so..but sometimes.....

2006-09-11 06:58:27 · 8 answers · asked by sheena 1 in Singles & Dating

I surly did it was so sad i don't care if i'm a man i CRYED my eyes OUT

2006-09-11 06:58:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am 14 years old!i met a girl two years ago, and we became best friends.we are in the same school.the last year we sit together in the class!!!all, were perfect!but,yesterday when i asked her if we will sit together to the class she said that she dont know!she told me that she became frieng again with a girl that both of us were hating!so i was troubling!so, i asked her if she want to sit with her because i understand that she has done her her new best friend!and she told me that she hasnt a problem and that she want to sit with her but she dont know yet if that is right!today , was the first day at school and they are always together !i 've tried to tell her that she starts to keeping of me ,and she told me that i was wrong!when the rring rung we went to the class and they sit together without telling me that!!!they left me to sit alone and i havent someone to talk with!!then i started to talk to my previews best friend and my recently best friend became jealous.isnt she wrong!?????

2006-09-11 06:58:21 · 8 answers · asked by sweetgirl 1 in Friends

k so i found out my boyfriend of a year who i love very much and has treated me so good, still looks at porn i got upest cuz for one i didnt know and he was hiding it from me. so i may have over reacted and put a block on our computer! so anyways big fight afterwards we almost broke up cuz im "controlling" and hes a man all men do it and its not a big deal he could be out cheating on me but he doesnt he just looks at porn and handles him self when he needs to.so long story short should i just loosen up about it? thats pretty much the solution that came to our fight i loosen up and he talks to me more but hes said before that he would talk to me more...am i just freaking out and reading to much into all this???

2006-09-11 06:58:05 · 15 answers · asked by mizztaunib 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

you have a girlfriend and you two have been together (living) for 2 years. you go away for a couple days for work.
your girlfriend has her best friend over (a guy) but they have known eachother for years and he stays the night (in a different room) you come home early that morning and see him there. What do you do?
my boyfriend freaked... but i dont get it... he knows nothing would ever ever happen..

2006-09-11 06:58:02 · 18 answers · asked by thankgodformaryjane 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 06:57:09 · 9 answers · asked by Perry N 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi .. Have seen this a lot in India .. Is a gal child stilla pain for parents ?? Its true in India

2006-09-11 06:57:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok heres the long story ..........me and my boyfriend were dating for 3 years straight......and this guy named chris came into the picture and almost ruined that ...because i thought i loved chris but i didnt and so i cheeted on my boyfriend for chris and finally i said i cant do this anymore so i broke up with chris.........and then i liked another guy named david and so i cheeted on my boyfriend with david too......and i liked him soooo much i split with my boyfriend for david ......and now me and daivd are going out .......we've been going out since august 16th ......do you think i did the right thing?

2006-09-11 06:57:00 · 3 answers · asked by Emily Rose 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'M 18

HE'S 25

MY PARENTS WONT LET US DATE BECAUSE HES TOO OLD

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IM CRYIN SO HARD.

2006-09-11 06:56:47 · 17 answers · asked by Allie 1 in Singles & Dating

i am going to be 21 in about 2 months..and my boyfriend of 9 months is going to be 30 next month..he was talking to his brother last night...and said that it's stressing him...What kind of advice should i give him? I mean we love each other,, i would like to help him.

2006-09-11 06:56:26 · 3 answers · asked by Punk_Rockin' Chick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-11 06:56:18 · 19 answers · asked by Manchester guy 1 in Singles & Dating

would you have an expectation of having sex and spending the night?

2006-09-11 06:55:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I was in this for the most part purely sexual relationship - at first I was totally cool with it, then he started with the getting to know each other thing and seeing me everyday and ok I'm human (maybe female is more appropriate) and I fell in love. Well I guess he didn't or something better came along or whatever else is the reason he just stopped coming around for anything (talking, hanging out, sex).

Well he lives so close I can smell what he's cooking for dinner, so I have this tendency to run into him (not on purpose). Well I have told him in the past that I enjoy being with him, I wish I had not.

How do I learn to not look at him like I want to jump him.
How do I learn not to be completely hurt by the fact that he doesn't want me?

I have tried acting bitchy
I have tried not even acknowledging him

Am I so bothered, because it doesn't seem to bother him?

What else can I do???

2006-09-11 06:55:16 · 22 answers · asked by not_in_it_4_love 2 in Singles & Dating

There's nothing wrong because biologically were not related by blood. But I Know that there are many complications. If we go on with our feelings we still might not end up together and evetually break up. And we would always see each other because we are related. Like family gatherings. I think it would be very awkward. But its so Hard! to hide our feelings for each other.

2006-09-11 06:55:10 · 7 answers · asked by wicca mae 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-11 06:54:34 · 5 answers · asked by hazelshine 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Were getting married in June and are having a garden themed wedding. Were getting married at my parents house in the lawn but are having our reception at at a reception hall. Our budget is $5,000. Does anyone have any ideas on favors, decorations, flowers? Any ideas would be appreciated.

2006-09-11 06:54:27 · 12 answers · asked by farmergyrl23 4 in Weddings

Why is it that a lot of people believe that before having children you should wait until you are married? Why is that? Can’t two people be in love and already have been together longer then some married couples have been?

I have been with my boyfriend for five years going on six, we want to have a baby, and we have lived together for 4 and half years. We are very much in love, and do plan on having a baby and in time get married. Everyone I talked to say I should get married first for the kid. I want to know what everyone thinks about this?

2006-09-11 06:54:03 · 30 answers · asked by Just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-11 06:53:37 · 8 answers · asked by Perry N 4 in Singles & Dating