Family & Relationships - 11 September 2006

I have known & loved this man for over 20 years. We dated off and on, but in the past 6 years we have dated exclusively (so I thought)
we broke up for 8 mths because I found out he was seeing another woman. We recently got back together but he failed to let the girl he was seeing while we were apart know that we had hooked up again, he thought since he wasn't spending anytime with her she would just go away.She didn't. She called me inquiring about her man!! Imajine that. I explained to her that we had split up and just recently started seeing each other again and I am not going anywhere. I love this man but he drives me crazy with his unfaithfulness.Why is it so hard for men to be honest?? More importantly why is it so hard for me to let him go?? Why do I allow him to keep doing this too me??

2006-09-11 06:39:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 06:39:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-11 06:39:31 · 10 answers · asked by farmergyrl23 4 in Weddings

She is EVERYTHING I want in a woman. She is funny and I can talk to her about anything and as a bonus she is hot, stunning, beautiful, whatever you say. HOWEVER, she has got a boyfriend and seems to love him loads. I don't want to spilt them up (although I do feel they should have a long time ago but I digress). I am funny and have a very good personality (I have been told by MANY people) I told her how I feel (I was drunk one time and sort of let it ALL out) I have fallen out with her a couple of times....although I've never told her it is because I am jealous of her boyfriend. I love her sooooo much. I honestly would do ANYTHING to make her happy. I know she does not think I am good looking, she is not attracted to me. Basically I want to know, how will I get over her??? I swear I love her more than anything. I hate hearing about what her and her boyfriend do....she tells me sometimes, I get sooooo jealous of him....well thats all. Sorry for the long post.

2006-09-11 06:39:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i see to many baby's wandering the streets. why does it seem as though there are more lazy parents today than back in the 70 and 80's.

2006-09-11 06:38:58 · 10 answers · asked by nakita 6 in Family

2006-09-11 06:38:51 · 14 answers · asked by Perry N 4 in Singles & Dating

afterwards what would you do? This happened to me aout 2 years ago and I still am pissed off with him (I didnt leave because I wasnt working at the time (pregnant) and there was no where else to go) Then fast forward 15 onths later when he beats my head into a wall for being on the computer (thought I was cheating, which I wasnt) after that he said he was sorry and made it sound less than it was (I dint leave because I dont work as I am a stay at home mom) and do to the fact he doesnt want me working and any job I applied for he would go off on me accusing me of bs. Fast forward 7 months, I hate him, I want out, I have a smalll job lined up, the only problem is he says I will not get the kid (since I dont have a job) and he is not playing fair, claims he will only pay me 300 a month in child support as well (he makes about a hundred grand yearly) I dont know what to do. I dont love him, rarely like him and I am calmer when HE IS OUT OF TOWN working. Need advice badly.

2006-09-11 06:38:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I are gonna move to san diego ca. My wife wants to live downtown san diego, to be around everything, while I prefer to live next to the beach...Can you give us some advices or suggestions?

2006-09-11 06:38:23 · 3 answers · asked by SamQuestandBeagy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-11 06:38:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-11 06:37:51 · 16 answers · asked by Perry N 4 in Singles & Dating

im having a hard time being married to a so called churchman but theres very little that i see that christ like . he wants me to sumit and do wife things but he still lives with mommy and makes every excuse why he cant live where i live . he just started a new job great. he goes to school fantansic! and he works out good but this take all his time up im 17 weeks pregnate and i want him to notice that im his pregnate wife with a 7 year old son and theres no bond there and he asks me why? should i stay or go now help . i feel trapped.

2006-09-11 06:37:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and why.

2006-09-11 06:36:32 · 7 answers · asked by joe 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister wants me to go out with one of my brother-in-laws partners, he's rich, cute (she says, but our taste in men is soooo different) and apparently sweet, romantic, all the stuff that sounds so great...how come I feel like I should run away, very far away?

2006-09-11 06:35:43 · 8 answers · asked by sasha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend have been married for 15 years and 6 kids.Her husband has been going clubbing once a week or so and he told her that living with her is like living in hell. And that he is not happy with her and they should separate. She don’t know what to do with that information cause then he acts like he never said that the next day. He said she's the only one that hurts him like he never hurted me. He said that he is only staying because of the kids and his responbilities. It makes her feel used, unwanted and make her feel awful like she's not good for anything.He's only staying until he finds someone better.He said that he will just live this way forever unless she tells him to go. If she tells him to go then, people will think that she is the bad one. He threw her wedding ring at her that she gave it to him for his birthday. Please tell me what she should do? She feels trapped in her marriage.Whether she leaves him or not, it will make her look bad only because of our culture favor men.

2006-09-11 06:35:17 · 18 answers · asked by Cava 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A few years ago, this girl moved in across the street from me.She seemed nice but that was until she got arrested for creating a disturbance. She had this bf but I never paid any attention to them. I mind my own business.A few months ago, she moved out this guy- (ex-boyfriend) now moved into her appartment.My friends and family are coming up asking me "Why is that guy always looking over here at our house?"Now my family can be a bit loud at times so I just thought we might have ticked him off.Then I started to notice that everytime I left the house, he would come outside- and do something.. like toy with his car.This is happening more often which leads me to believe it's more than a coincidence.I know he is harmless but I don't understand it.A few times, he has started at me for prolonged amounts of time which freaked me out.. He was behind me in traffic yesterday- looked like he wanted to innitiate contact or maybe offended that I ignore glances.. What is going on?

2006-09-11 06:34:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

saved up £500 for a really cool present for her. She is quite girly so I don't really know what to buy for her. Any suggestions of what I could buy her ?

Thanks

2006-09-11 06:33:22 · 15 answers · asked by Rob W 1 in Family

Any attractive single women out their with good moral values? They are sure hard to find. I am 28 single, attractive, college educated.

2006-09-11 06:32:55 · 13 answers · asked by Derek P 1 in Singles & Dating

I think not. He blew it. So he was turning 40. Everyone turns 40 or dies. No excuse for moving out to get involved with someone else. My mother in law is trying to get me to take him back. Am I wrong to say no? We have two kids under 6.

2006-09-11 06:32:36 · 15 answers · asked by jenna b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-11 06:32:02 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-11 06:32:00 · 3 answers · asked by Lisa S 3 in Weddings

Do you guys actually like touchy feely women? Like if you are just hanging around on in bed together, and your woman is rubbing her hands on your chest, arms etc... yay or nay?

(don't know if it matters but yes, it etiher leads to sex or follows sex)

Oh, and if you want to tell about anything else you might like, I'm all ears. :0 )

2006-09-11 06:31:45 · 32 answers · asked by Greta Leigh 3 in Singles & Dating

I have always felt that the hind end was exit only till recently, But my Hun worked me up to it and now its all i think about, It really feels great. Will I turn him off to it if i want it everytime we have sex or do I have nothing to worry about?

2006-09-11 06:30:53 · 33 answers · asked by angie g 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 06:30:39 · 21 answers · asked by Perry N 4 in Singles & Dating

stalked by a ex? or even just some nut on this site, like they wouldn't leave you alone or just go away?

2006-09-11 06:29:55 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My new step daughter, 11 years old, has a attitude problem and when I try to be nice to her, she's just plain hateful. Nothing ever makes her happy. Her daddy spoils her and whatever we do for her, its never enough. I know what it's like to have a step-parent, I was the same age when I my mom married my step-dad. So I'm stuck between a rock and a hard spot. I want her to like me, better yet love me! but I can't let her disrespect me. Any suggestions?

2006-09-11 06:29:46 · 16 answers · asked by hrs1975 2 in Family

i m a housewife n have two and half yrs son.the whole day i spend taking care of your house n son and cooking.but nowadays i really feel bored and pissed off.husband is busy at office and when he comes back from office, i just try to chat with him either he is tired ,wants to play with son or sit in front of computer or tv.sometime i feel bad as he is nt listening to me.i have two or three friends and cant go to their house as i dont know driving.other ladies i know they are so nicely going out and mingliing with others and spending good times .i feel very depressed nowadays.

2006-09-11 06:29:20 · 13 answers · asked by kc 2 in Friends

2006-09-11 06:27:34 · 36 answers · asked by jac44129 2 in Marriage & Divorce

can someone help me pick out a perfect bday prez! x

2006-09-11 06:26:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband and i have been married for a year now and i love him so much. but whenever i get home he has to be constantly around like if he goes to the bathroom he wants me there, if i go the office he comes with me and i have to take a shower with the door open, there can never be closed doors with him. why is he so clingy?

2006-09-11 06:26:08 · 27 answers · asked by boo bear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

you didnt want to or you were angry with him for some reason, what would you do?

2006-09-11 06:25:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce