Family & Relationships - 11 September 2006

is that symbloic to anything ? and why does he want me so submissive to him .. we are newly married and this is how it is always done !!

2006-09-11 07:16:00 · 9 answers · asked by fsaroufim 2 in Singles & Dating

im gonna be gettin married in the spring and ive been successful in my career before and after we were together.she tells me shes not gonna sign a pre-nup.what can i say or do to keep my money if anythin happens in my marriage

2006-09-11 07:15:37 · 48 answers · asked by baseball_saenz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it has come more to my attention that my ex does not supervise are children that are 2 yr old twins. They constently come home w/ marks on there bodies. yes they are children they fall down and get bumps and scraps. but i think every parent should have some ides where these bumps come from. as for him he is totally clueless to anything around him.#1 reason were divorced is that he has anger issues. anyhting can set him off! he will attack you verbally and then be nice as pie a few mins later. im at great concern because our daughter came home with a black eye and a sprained ankle from her fathers. this isn't the first time and sure it won't be the last. what scares me is she said daddy got mad at her when asked what happend. i don't think he would intentially hit her but when he's in his rage anything can happen. alot of this is from lack of supervison. what can i do to protect my children and how to go about it. they also come home dirty and nasty.neglect?help. I took her to the ER.

2006-09-11 07:15:28 · 13 answers · asked by hazelis3258 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-11 07:15:23 · 29 answers · asked by Jessicer 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 07:15:13 · 7 answers · asked by CluefulinSD 1 in Singles & Dating

I am currently in my second year of college. I am married to a Marine who is currently in Iraq. I am going to college to get my degree, and then I want to become a USMC Officer after I graduate college. My question is, when is the best time to try and start having a family with my husband? School is very important to me, and if I had a baby during school, then I would have to miss quite a bit. But at the same time, being an Officer in the Marine Corps is very important as well, and that would be hard to have a child during that time too. My husband is open to having a baby whenever, but having a baby is a big responsibility! Any ideas? Sorry if this question sounds a little odd

2006-09-11 07:15:08 · 8 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my daughter hasn't seen her dad in 6 years.. prior to that he had consent orders through the courts giving him only 2 hours every sunday.. he then went to jail and we haven't seen or heard from him since.. legally will the courts allow it and emotionally what effect can it have on her as she accepts she doesn't have one(and isn't really ready for him to come out of know where after so long)

2006-09-11 07:14:24 · 2 answers · asked by Little B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-11 07:13:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well... my and my bf were pretty close and he used to tell me everything.. recently he told me a really big thing (nothing related to crime or anything.. a dark secret he has) and told me he was gonna commit sucide if i told anyone.. but i did tell my best frd and she told me to stop seeing him which i did.. after a whole week when we met.. he tells me it was just a lie and dont take it seriously and he wants me back.. and we were going out for over six months and i even loved him... then when i told him again that i'm not interested in the relationship.. he told me that i never loved him and all.. but i did really love him but started to move on... what i did was correct, right? and should i stay friends with him or avoid him completely?

2006-09-11 07:13:29 · 16 answers · asked by strawberry_love 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend, been together for 4 yrs. $ was never our problem when the other matters were. Until recently, we had very indirect fights concerning $. He feels that he is paying 80% of our cost. We don't live together but meet everyday. I pay for our expense at times at I ever helped him setlled some small debts. I personally think that I support 40% of our expenses when he doesn't think so and of course doesn't appreciate. I was a bit harsh on my words this noon and he is hurt. He is treating very different now. I feel that he is trying to keep me far. Sulking, I guess. He said he will not use my $ anymore and will not borrow $ from me. And he won't control my spending. But he does it out of anger, not love. He is sulking and I think he is very petty. He has been. And now, he is ignoring me. What should I do? And, is it wrong of the guy to expect a lady to pay? This is a new issue to me. Unexpected. Need advice on this.

2006-09-11 07:13:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am smart. Does this intimidate women? Why are girls always nervous around me? I don't beat them or anything like that. I am well read and I have vast real world knowledge. I do not try to act smart but it comes out in the way I speak. My vocabulary is quite extensive and I try to dumb it down. Do women prefer stupid guys? Honestly.

2006-09-11 07:12:57 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to my email account and caused a bit of trouble.i know revenge is'nt the answer but it makes you feel better.is there anyway i can break into her's..?????

2006-09-11 07:12:55 · 11 answers · asked by emma h 2 in Friends

i'm so bored of my daily routine and house chores,that i just need a change,or what to say i want charm in my life to live.i just want to have fun or easy going "happy go lucky"life many will call me naive or childish, but i think i want to live life to the fullest,then only i'll gracefully except my old age and will not be afraid of old age.my hubby think differently and is workholic.so no compatability in this regard.what should i do.Earlier also i never had so called FUN in my life.it is always like duty or "dont do this and dont do that,"type.now i feel that good part of my life is finished and what i had done in this.i have 2 kids both boyz,its gr8 to have them,i'm thankful.secondly my hubby thinks that this is the only age to work and i think that this is the age to have fun too,b'coz work will never end.life will end.so what u guys think .m i right or wrong?m i living in dream world??

2006-09-11 07:11:15 · 10 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Family

I ran into my ex's friend out one night,we hit it off talking,I was still bitter about catching my ex cheating,he listened and understood.He drove me home that night and I invited him to stay,I asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,I asked him to put his arm around me,he did till I slept.He was so respectful and a complete gentleman and did not make any moves.I saw him once since than and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was there so we had to keep quiet.It has been 6 months since that night and I still think about him.I know he is still single.A mutual freind told me he likes me but is freaked about my ex.which leads me to believe he does not want to be involved with the drama.But I still cant help but to still be thinking of him from that night.I dont have his number to call him.What would you do?

2006-09-11 07:10:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-09-11 07:10:08 · 20 answers · asked by ampotratz 4 in Family

We have been dating for 8 months and just found out last week I am pregnant. We both come from religious families and believe in God, but are not vigilant about it. Our families think we should get married before the baby is born, but we are unsure if it is more important to marry for the well being of the baby, or if we should be so much in love we would want to get married anyway. We want to have the child and stay together to raise it and possibly get married eventually, so is it better to wait or go ahead and take the plunge?

2006-09-11 07:10:05 · 12 answers · asked by Les 2 in Marriage & Divorce

for about 2 years i have been suffering from having some career disapointments and emotional as well. i spent alot of time with no hope and still. and this makes me un able to put my self together back on track again. now i m many steps after my colleagues i graduated with. and also younger colleagues too. and most are married now. and i m not. and because all of that i didnt gain that much success financially.all of these ideas furstrate me more and more. they work as a cycle of thoughts wich each leads to the next. i realize that this is very wrong thinking pattern. but when i stop it. it comes back again.. i cant stop feeling depresed from these ideas.
How to stop this thinking pattern?
How to feel hope in my future again? realizing that i m steps away backward from my colleagues?
Is it real to stop thinking about what others expect me to do?
How to stop thnking about my past mistakes that makes me feel so stupid infront of myself?

How to Love myself again? How to feel HOPE?

2006-09-11 07:09:40 · 23 answers · asked by helix 3 in Friends

2006-09-11 07:09:25 · 11 answers · asked by Henrriette S 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends have been giving me a lecture about materialism. It supposedly pisses them off that I buy presents for friends and they keep saying I can give them something more or something else. When I tell them I'm not basing friendships on what I gifts I receive or give to a person, they ask me then what does the gift represent? What DO gifts represent? If it does represent anything other than a gesture, appreciation for the receiver, or simply celebrating another year one has lived his/her life. I need some unbias opinions as my friends all have their mind set on bias ways of thinking and reasoning, such as, "if the present represents nothing, then why even buy one when you can give them something else?" So tell me your thoughts. What is the meaning and representation of gift giving? Does it make you a materialistic person?

2006-09-11 07:07:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-11 07:06:16 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a good friend that has been in my life for 7 years and I find myslef falling in love with him but can we have a relationship that will last? We are always intament so whats the diffrence? He is afraid we will ruen our frindship.

2006-09-11 07:06:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband cheated on me and we are now starting to try to work things out but he keeps going out with freinds and I am sencing that he is lying to me but I am the kind of person that doesnt like confertation and cant seem to make myself tell him how I really feel, I feel like if he really wanted to work things out he would be at home with me and his new baby.

2006-09-11 07:05:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Stay at home moms fuss about working moms, working moms fuss about stay at home moms, women without children talk negatively about moms with children and moms with kids feel "sorry" for women without kids. Why do we do this? Why can't we as women support other women and their decisions? Just want some others views on this.

2006-09-11 07:05:12 · 12 answers · asked by Tara R 2 in Friends

2006-09-11 07:04:25 · 12 answers · asked by wildeve h 1 in Friends

Is this actaully true......or is just something to say........I can see how easy this would be for girls to remember or never forget their first love but do guys actually never forget????

2006-09-11 07:04:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 07:04:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it weird that I like to look @ pictures of naked girls or that I am turned on by girls? If I had to go to a strip club Id go see girls before guys. I dont ever picture myself actually doing anything with another girl other than maybe kissing her or playing with her breasts, which I think part of that has to do with the fact that I myself have small breasts. I would never be in a relationship with one either, so what does all this mean? Is it weird?

2006-09-11 07:03:25 · 7 answers · asked by MANDEE 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend's boyfriend has a chick on the side, this other girl had an on off again relationship with my girlfriends boyfriend's for over 2 years. (well actually the other woman waited on him for 8 years while he was in prison). He tells my home girl it is her that he loves, but she is soo wishy washy with him. the other night, my girl was looking for her man, and when he called back, she heard the other girl in the background. He instantly came home to my girl. I told my friend that the reason he treats her like that is because she is so wishy washy with him. BUt I think he really likes my girl. Was that good advice?

2006-09-11 07:03:19 · 9 answers · asked by stella 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have my tongue pierced, and I wanted to get the vibrating tongue ring to wear for my g/f. I want to be sure it feels good first. So if anyone has any experiance with them that would be great, and if you happen to know the brand or name of the one you have experiance with, that is a plus. Thanks.

2006-09-11 07:03:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I managed to get it up around my waist, them I'm sure I couldn't zip it up. lol. How about you?

2006-09-11 07:02:13 · 14 answers · asked by Jasmine 5 in Weddings