my girlfriend's boyfriend has a chick on the side, this other girl had an on off again relationship with my girlfriends boyfriend's for over 2 years. (well actually the other woman waited on him for 8 years while he was in prison). He tells my home girl it is her that he loves, but she is soo wishy washy with him. the other night, my girl was looking for her man, and when he called back, she heard the other girl in the background. He instantly came home to my girl. I told my friend that the reason he treats her like that is because she is so wishy washy with him. BUt I think he really likes my girl. Was that good advice?
2006-09-11 07:03:19 · 9 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
after reading it twice i understand who is who and what who is ding where with who and where... Ok your girl should not have to share no man with no other girl. If he is open about it and they have an open relationship etc. then it can be handled differently. Other wise if she found out about this girl and then he admitted and told her that was how it was going to be then he isn't worth the time. Means years from now they might get married and he's going to cheat on her and she is to accept that is the way its going to be. She let him get by with it once he'll feel comfortable to do it again.. why should the next time be different than before.
Yeah you did give her good advice she sounds like she is kissing his @** too much if he likes her make him do the wishy washy stuff to prove she is number one for him adn only her for him.
2006-09-11 07:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about wishy washy! She needs to talk to him and pin him down about their relationship. If she wants him to commit, then she needs to commit also. My guess, though, is that he is just making excuses. See if he sticks after the serious talk.
2006-09-11 14:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jack P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jerry Springer
2006-09-11 14:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a whole new set of friends , just too much Drama
My head is still spinning from your story.....
2006-09-11 14:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to leave him the hell alone because he has someone else on the side.
2006-09-11 14:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Starlesha23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very confusing situation. Who's with who???
2006-09-11 14:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Peter Pan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAKE HER choose you or the road.
2006-09-11 14:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her out now
2006-09-11 14:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Takafushi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pssst, IM me.
2006-09-12 10:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋